A certain friend of my fiance and I is almost 30, living with their parents, and comes over way too much. My fiance and I have a life - hobbys - jobs - going to school and such, however, this friend calls everyday just wanting to hang out - stays for hours on end. We've tried to not answer the phone, tell them that we are busy, tired, spending time alone, but they don't get the clue. Its not that we don't enjoy their company, its just that they over stay their welcome and we don't have the heart to tell them that they are getting to be too much. My fiance and I have had numerous arguements because he thinks I'm being too harsh - however, he gets annoyed as well from this person. This person calls every single day to hang out. How on earth can I stop this without hurting their feelings? Our friend has a job, but is just unhappy and has thought of suicide in the past - I think my fiance feels impelled to spend time with them, but it is in a very small way, hurting our relationship. HELP!
2007-01-03
06:30:39
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6 answers
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Marilyn Monroe
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