My best friends to used to be well...chubby and i was her only friend. Now she lost 65lbs and looks amazing! But ever since she lost all that weight all she talks about is herself, everytime i need help with my problems(like my boyfriend problem..see previous question i have asked) she says stuff like "i dont know" and then goes back to "omg! do i look fat?" or says something about her boyfriend. It gets really old and annoying. I tried talking to her about it and she says that i do it too, which i admit i do that alot but thats only cause its about HER constently...what should i do? I dont want to lose her as a friend.
2007-01-03 07:05:30 · 3 answers · asked by Kay-Bianca 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
go tell her. hey, you are being very rude to me as a friend and i don't think you are treating me right. and if she doesn't respond to that. i would just not talk to her for few days- a week then if she starts talking to ya just talk to her about this.
2007-01-03 07:23:22 · answer #1 · answered by figureskater&awsome! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just gained a new sense of self confidence since the weight loss... let her soak it up and just be there for her... be patient and it should pass... have you ever been chubby yourself? to lose that much weight is a big accomplishment, just be supportive and let her know how proud you are of her and how great she looks, hopefully with little support and praise from her friend, she will mellow out and you two can go out and enjoy turning heads together.
2007-01-03 15:13:28 · answer #2 · answered by Mystery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to leave your friends a few days... that she will know you are friends
2007-01-03 15:11:55 · answer #3 · answered by star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋