Family & Relationships - 28 March 2007

Right now....I just don't see myself wanting to settle down. At all.
I want to focus on my career and travel the world. See things i've always wanted to see. Be free before just staying in one place. And get married.
Is that so wrong? I have my bestfriend...its not like i'm lonely all the time....I just want to be able to stand on my two feet and be able to fully depend on myself before I start beign with someone. and going steady and trusting them, depending on them alittle and for them to depend on me alittle as well in a team to make the relationship work along with the love.
Is that wrong?
Solitude?

2007-03-28 12:34:59 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

you better check the alimony laws in your state before you let that so-called special one talk you into marriage .
these so-called darling brides have a way of not bringing these laws to your attention , until it is too late . remember they have everything to gain by getting married , and nothing to lose ? besides , you are getting everything now anyway !

2007-03-28 12:34:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i asked a friend a favor to give me a ride.she said she'll pick me up.but she didnt show up.i waited for her.the next day,she was sorry but i dont think she really meant it.she did it before and i forgave her.

2007-03-28 12:34:05 · 10 answers · asked by skyrus 3 in Friends

I like this guy. I thought he didn't know who I was. Well I am homeschooled (as is he) and he's only a year or so older than me. Anyways, he's said on his myspace that he won't date a girl unless he's been friends with her for a while (although that can sometimes change ya know??) But my main crisis is that He added me on Myspace and knew exactly who I was and even who I hung out with (we know each other at church. He's an awesome guy but I think hes a bit too cool for me). Does he like me?? Or is he just being friendly?? And do you think he might possibly ask me out?? Whats your opinion and what should I do to let him know that I like him. (however my other problem is that if he doesn't like me then I don't want him to know....it would make things al ittle awkward. So I can't just go up and say, Hey, I like you!)

Just some background info: People say I'm beautiful, nice, slender, and interesting. I thought that might help your opinions. (I'm not trying to be conceited or anything.)

2007-03-28 12:34:03 · 3 answers · asked by rivertam666 2 in Singles & Dating

Alright so I like this kid but hes going out with my bf she said if they break up im free to ask him out thing is i dont know if he'd ever go out with me. me and my bff are bout the same pretty level except she wears make up and i dont. were both nice and thin and stuff but i dont know. Should I take the chance asking him out if they break up? Maybe would he say yes? I h8 geting hurt. Hes my friend to.

2007-03-28 12:33:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok well I been told my ex it was over, but he still tells his family we date, he told his sisters his mother and his father and im like NO ITS OVER! and he asked me to marry him about 75 times so i just say over and over again. IM ONLY IN 8TH grade so i dont know maybe i shouldnt date all together.

2007-03-28 12:33:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i rlllyy lyk my best friend nd all my friends nd his friends think we shuold go out but 1 of my friends asked him if he would ever go out wit me nd he said no cus he doesnt feel da same way bout me...nd he knew i lyked him be4 nd hes said its coll we can still b bff...da weirdd thing is we have gone outt 2 da movies,dinner, nd when we go 2 da movies he holds my hand nd gets rlly close 2 me but idk wat da means nd hes always playin wit my handd...nd my friends nd his friends tease us cus dey say we flirt alot...nd he kiises my hand nd stufff...but he says he doesnt lyk me...but if he didnt then y would he b doin all da sweet things he does???...plzzz help me im rllyy confusedddd

2007-03-28 12:32:45 · 15 answers · asked by sooo confusedd </3 1 in Friends

2007-03-28 12:32:34 · 11 answers · asked by hey 1 in Friends

I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. He has been the only boyfriend I have ever had. I am a very jealous person, and it has damaged out relationship. He used to look at women on the internet, and I asked him repeatedly to stop and he wouldn't. He lied to me dozens of times about it, and I poured my heart out to him to tell him how much it hurt me but he didnt stop for over almost 2 years. He has lied about other smaller things, but he says he doesnt lie about girls anymore, that he no longer looks at them in person or at pictures in respect to my feelings. He also has a horrible temper. He lashes out on me because of my jealousy, he calls me filthy names, he curses even if I ask him not to, etc. But when his temper does not flare up, he is so sweet and wonderful, and he swears he can't control himself when his temper gets high. I want to know, if I am being naive in thinking he has changed. I know he controls his temper sometimes. I wish I could know if he still lies.

2007-03-28 12:32:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Heres the scenario... i like this guy alot... and right now he looking for a gf... we thnk he either likes me or a friend but im not sure... the other day he asked me for a hug when i was hugging this other guy... he was flirting tht day too. school is almost over and i really want to try asking him out he is really mellow and i thnk he might say yes... he is just looking for some1 to hangout w/ tht is like a gf meanin like hugging and kissing and stuff what should i do?

2007-03-28 12:31:51 · 8 answers · asked by Malibugrl 2 in Singles & Dating

I meet this woman at work. We had some nice chats and whatever. I got her number. We got laid off. Then a couple of months later I called her. We hung out a little bit. Then she took a summer class and we couldn't see each other much. Then hung out a little more. This is where the problem happened. We were walking on this dirt road and she was sharing some bad experiences from her childhood. She mentioned the first thing. Then a second. On the second one I had a similar event happen to myself. Hers was worse. Unfortunately after she had mentioned it I felt the need to lighten the mood and make fun of myself. Because I was having a really fun day with her.Well basically it came out wrong. I insulted her. Which I didn't mean to do. I didn't even realize it until later. I tired to call her but didn't get a reply. About a month or more went by and I saw her at a store. I saw her first and just ignored her. I was checking out a couch and then she saw me. I didn't say anything cause it ...

2007-03-28 12:30:45 · 21 answers · asked by Vin 2 in Singles & Dating

What does it mean when a guy tells you that he wont tell your husband about him wanting you, and that his wife doesnt need to know either. Is he saying he wants to do things?? or just flirting?? Do you think he is just trying to get into my friends pants. but he says really sweet things to her such as she is severely loveable, awesome, pretty, smart, charming, and mature.

Please help me, help my friend

2007-03-28 12:30:40 · 12 answers · asked by Sexylova49 4 in Singles & Dating

hey,

katie here. i have a question. is anyone here friends with Miley Cyrus and/or Ashley Tisdale? i just got done chattin wit them. i'm their friend so dont think i am one of tose people that want to know them. i just that it would be cool to meat other people that are friends with them. so answer my question ONLY if you are friends with them thanks.

2007-03-28 12:30:39 · 6 answers · asked by katie11996 1 in Friends

Ok this is the story,I go to a strict school so what i say makes sense. k this girl i like (i admit it) was walking in a line with her class (strict!) and i was walking on the oppisite side. she looking at my class and i was looking at her (she atracts me:-) and she was looking at each kid one by one then when she saw me all of a sudden she turns her head 180 degrees and starts looking at the wall! Then, after school she has a after school job and she was talking to her friends at the after school job lockers and I pasted by and her friends kept talking but went completely silent! help what does it mean and i heard from one of her not GREAT friends but still a friend that she liked me but dont believe here. WHAT DOES THAT MEAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
let me give u some personal info...................both of us are like super shy!

2007-03-28 12:30:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why are some people nicer to thier friends than they are thier own spouse. They just vent on thier spouse

2007-03-28 12:30:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have a new bf.

2007-03-28 12:30:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok my problem is that I caught my Indian gf of 3 years in bed with another indian female (her friend)...after questioning them about the incident they both told me that indian girls are usualy kind of lesbians - is that true?

We were gonna get ingaged next month, even her parents had agreed to internatioanl marriage (i think mostly coz i have a good job and money, so i'v been told by my frinds)
My gf said that she will stop this once we are married !

So my dilema is: If she is a lesbian then why does she still insist of getting married with me???? Is it because of her parents??? And if it's true what she said that most of indian girls are actually lesbians...is it coz of that that there are aranged marriages or what????
And are her parents trying to stick her to me in a marriage so they would cover the shame and perhaps because of my money?
PLEASE HELP ME...Im confused and dont know what the right decission for me/us would be the best...because i realy LOVE my Indian Princess!

2007-03-28 12:29:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

im 16 years old and had boyfriend on and off for almost 2 years. now everytime i try to date someone else i get scared and make myself sick over it and shortly break up with them, within a few days. i do this everytime i get a new boyfriend, and i really do make myself sick over this. can someone please help me?

2007-03-28 12:29:24 · 4 answers · asked by x im just me x 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

No matter what you do...you always think and think and think about this person. IT SUCKS!

2007-03-28 12:29:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl I like just told me she also likes me today, and we are going to a movie next week. (we are both in high school) We are not technically bf and gf right now, but I think we will really soon. Is it appropriate to hold hands on our first date? Or should I just wait for the right moment to come? Also do I have to pay for everything? It might be gentleman-like but I don't want her to be a golddigger.

2007-03-28 12:28:44 · 10 answers · asked by Yao L 1 in Singles & Dating

For many years now i have been trying to deal with my low self esteem due to people tormenting me about my hair and how bald headed i was Its been two years since i graduted from high school and i thought things would get better for me but they haven't. right now my boyfriend and i have been togther for two years and he he never seen my actual hair because i am afraid he will leave me or even worse laugh. Right now i feel like crap because i really hate that im so ugly and retarded. I really wish i had long hair to make me beautiful. I really need help...please dont post nasty comments just give me your honet opinion

2007-03-28 12:27:57 · 33 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Im considering saying this to a girl that probably has a crush on me: Wanna hang out sometime. If she says yes, than I say is there a number I can reach you? Does this need an intro or is it just fine?

2007-03-28 12:27:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, need to run this by some girls/guys..my husband and I have been married for 4 years..we've just moved into this new town and my husband has become more vain about his appearance..needless to say..he has been talking a lot more with this co-worker who invited us out with her and her husband who have been married a year. All of a sudden now they've been asking us to come out to places I really don't care to go to. My husband loves hanging out with them. The girl asks him and pulls the my husband wants to invite you guys out..and she has a way to contact me to ask me but hasn't. Anyways I seldom like going out on week nights.. so my husband ended up going tonight. She's becoming way too friendly with him.. Do you think he should have gone without me..? Do you think its wrong to be hanging out with a couple and him (my husband) I would feel awkward. Should I be worried? I really don't like hanging out with these people.

2007-03-28 12:26:58 · 17 answers · asked by MATW 2 in Marriage & Divorce

kay theres this guy who i called to ask a question?? And even after i got my answer we stayed on the phone for 2 hours. He made a comment "wow we've been on the phone a long time its like we are going out" . so my question is.....was he hinting at something or am i reading to much into things???

2007-03-28 12:26:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

any hot guys out there 16-17 years old.i need a trustworthy guy
5 things i want in a guy
1.loves hiphop/rap music
2.dances
3.great personality and great style
4.mixed
5. fine and cute.
im a dancer and model.

2007-03-28 12:26:36 · 10 answers · asked by hotgurl22 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 12:26:25 · 8 answers · asked by FresH BoY Will 1 in Friends

my best friend like my b/f. they used to go out and now we go out. i love him and he loves me. but i hated it when my friends are unhappy. so i want both of us to be happy. wat should i do?

2007-03-28 12:26:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

girls that can do the excersist tongue thing?? THE tongue wiggling thing

2007-03-28 12:25:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This will be the first time I would be left alone so having fun is what I want to do most. But my neighbor lives across the street and will tell my parents if anyone comes over or if anything is wrong. What can I do to make the most of my weekend of freedom without getting caught?

2007-03-28 12:25:54 · 8 answers · asked by allieb7986 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I been dating this guy Josh almost 8 years.He told me on sunday he has nothing to live for and he wants to kill himself.I have not called him since sunday.What do i do to help him to get help?He been saying he wants to die to me for a while now.I don't know what to do or say to make him snap out of this mood he is in.Please help me.I am not sure if I am ready to get married to him.I am not sure if i can be with him if he acts this way now.

2007-03-28 12:25:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating