Ok my problem is that I caught my Indian gf of 3 years in bed with another indian female (her friend)...after questioning them about the incident they both told me that indian girls are usualy kind of lesbians - is that true?
We were gonna get ingaged next month, even her parents had agreed to internatioanl marriage (i think mostly coz i have a good job and money, so i'v been told by my frinds)
My gf said that she will stop this once we are married !
So my dilema is: If she is a lesbian then why does she still insist of getting married with me???? Is it because of her parents??? And if it's true what she said that most of indian girls are actually lesbians...is it coz of that that there are aranged marriages or what????
And are her parents trying to stick her to me in a marriage so they would cover the shame and perhaps because of my money?
PLEASE HELP ME...Im confused and dont know what the right decission for me/us would be the best...because i realy LOVE my Indian Princess!
2007-03-28 12:29:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
in simple words i'll advice u..leave her.....I would love to clear u that all Indian gals r not lesbian....this thing u can find in any country....that does not mean all teh gals r same..I understand that u love her...but she is not worth. I think there parents were aware of this thing..that is the reason they were insisting u to marry her..but in future a gal who won't be able to love u b'coz she is leasbian..wat will u do of her? U will get few emotional problems now..but ur future will be safe..
All the Best
2007-03-28 18:27:33 · answer #1 · answered by sanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Indian Gf
2016-10-20 06:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by harmonie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are confused maybe because of good job, money etc. etc. U don't have to keep on repeating it, good relationship and an understanding and tolerant nature is thousand time better than money. Any fool these days earns tons of money. The girl is OK, she is not a lesbian. She may be sleeping with her girl friend, but just sleeping, nothing more. Maybe they are good friends. Such things happen in India. The mind is pure and the bodies touch, because of the friendship, the closeness and the touch, nothing more. I have also had such relationships, sometimes with the opposite sex. I had a girl in the office, who was from a village both innocent and helpless, I was her close friend, in a big city like mumbai. We even slept naked, but we were like brother and sister, no sex, but naked, close and comfortable, and nothing to hide. The whole world accused us of 'love and sex', but we did not try to defend ourselves. Maybe your girl is innocent and pure, and such friendships exist, only friendship not lesbianism. U are a lucky man to have a gentle, kind and loving girl from India. Immediately apologise to her, and plan your marriage, and remove all this rubbish about lesbian, homosexual etc. etc. from your dirty mind. These are problems of the west, not India.
2007-03-28 19:38:52 · answer #3 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are just making this up for some perverted reason, or maybe she broke you heart and you are a sore loser. Not all Indian girls are Lesbians.That goes for any country for that matter. You cannot generalize just to suit your ego. Firstly, did you see these women making love? I spend nights at my g/f and I slept in the same bed as her. Does that make me a lesbian?No ! it doesnt. If she turned down your proposal, take it like a man and move on. If she is lesbian, wish her well and move on and dont judge her for her sexual preference. It also wont be a good idea to marry a person if they are gay orientated, no matter for who sake it is.
2007-03-30 06:02:04 · answer #4 · answered by Ari-ah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she isn't a lesbian she is a bisexual which means she loves mans privates and female privates. be careful because this can continue even after marriage if u want to keep her tell her how u feel because love can be blind. it doesn't mean there isn't another Indian princess out there for u who is ur real soul mate. give her a test say to her that u will agree to this but only if u are allowed to join in and have them both. if she agrees then u make the choice to go ahead if she reacts negatively then let it go and move on to find ur true love.
2007-03-29 15:20:16 · answer #5 · answered by joey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, the majority of Indian females aren't lesbians as you wrongly think. Your gf is in all probability a bisexual. So you probably wouldn't have any problem after marriage. Indian society prohibits pre marital sex. Society is stricter on women in such matters than it is on men. But a normal adult woman is prone to sexual urges. Lesbianism would at least prevent her getting pregnant accidentally, though it wouldn't be approved any more than were she to be discovered engaged in a bisexual encounter. It would also help to release her pent up sexual urge. And about your shock, I don't know whether you would have been any more relieved to see her in bed with a man than with a woman.
I think that she is in all probability stating the truth in declaring that she wouldn't indulge in lesbianism after marriage. I think you can believe her. Whoever gave you those ideas, is either possibly ignorant about Indian society or possesses a condescending attitude.
And parents of daughters in any country want to see their daughters happily married to moneyed men. It doesn't happen in India only.
2007-03-30 05:41:09 · answer #6 · answered by Modest 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what they said was totally humbug about the indian grlz. But also one thing ur gf is not a lesbian thats for sure. coz if she is she will not be marrying you. Its good that ur gf had contact with a grl to control her lust rather than finding a guy. It may be also bcoz u had sex with her and went leaving her unsatisfied.lesbian is different and feel of sharing bodily lust with ur frnd for a short while is different. So dont confuse urslf and her. pour ur love on her, marry her soon and satisfy her
2007-03-29 00:51:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all Indian Girls are Lesbians
Lesbians or Gays are Taboo Topics in the Indian Society.
Your Girl is taking you for a ride. She is simply cheating you mate !
So I suggest you rather end up your relationship with her
2007-03-28 21:41:17 · answer #8 · answered by jay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, firstly Indian girls are NOT usually kind of lesbians. I think you live in some western country see lesbians around you so you presume Indian girls if move around or kiss or in bed with another girl they are also lesbians. Now if you know about lesbians & gays, you may be aware that these people not only indulge in sexual activities only with people of their own sex but even marry if law allows them or live-in together with their partners only. These people never indulge in any sexual activity or marriage with people of opposite sex. These people are not only physically but even physiologically inclined towards people of their own sex. But in India there are such people but in very small number & they too indulge in all the activities I mentioned above with people of their own sex. They will never agree for marriage with people of opposite sex, keeping in mind this physiological nature of homosexuals you should now understand if this girl agree to marry you she is not a lesbian at all. Please remove any misconception about India girls in general & about this girl specifically because if you keep such misconception about her now then how you can trust her after your marriage. If she says she will stop all this after marriage then trust her, maybe she was just trying to relieve her sexual urge by indulging in with another girl as few indulge in masturbation as you may also be doing. Such an activity is quite normal for any normal human being & after marriage you both will be doing it for your sexual satisfaction together with each other. What else I can say more here rest you are grown up & mature to understand all this. Just keep on loving your Indian Princess & marry with full confidence in her. For further guidance write to me directly.
2007-03-28 16:58:55 · answer #9 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to spend as much time with her,and you will come to know about her.It is not true that most of the indian gals engage in ***** . Dont take any decisions with this mental state of yours,fully confused . Spend as much time with her,learn her,wait .. and then decide.
2007-03-28 13:01:28 · answer #10 · answered by Gane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋