im in love wit my best friedd?

Question

i rlllyy lyk my best friend nd all my friends nd his friends think we shuold go out but 1 of my friends asked him if he would ever go out wit me nd he said no cus he doesnt feel da same way bout me...nd he knew i lyked him be4 nd hes said its coll we can still b bff...da weirdd thing is we have gone outt 2 da movies,dinner, nd when we go 2 da movies he holds my hand nd gets rlly close 2 me but idk wat da means nd hes always playin wit my handd...nd my friends nd his friends tease us cus dey say we flirt alot...nd he kiises my hand nd stufff...but he says he doesnt lyk me...but if he didnt then y would he b doin all da sweet things he does???...plzzz help me im rllyy confusedddd

Answer 1

talk to him. once you have spoken about what you think and feel. if he tells you he only sees you as a good friend you'll have to accept and respect his decision.

Answer 2

He may be happy with this relationship, but you certainly aren't. You want more. And the way you'll find out if you're going to get more is to give him less. Don't be available to him so much. When he calls, make the calls short. You still can be friendly, but you MUST remain aloof and elusive. The best friend stuff isn't working. You need to know whether you're wasting your time. He'll either come after you more or less. Either way, you'll be better off.

Answer 3

Uh first..maybe you should start to pay attention in English class and learn how to spell. No offense meant, but it was kinda hard to read. Uhmm..lets see. I would just ask your best friend if he likes you, YOURSELF. Don't keep counting on other people to ask for you. Tell him you like him again, and see how he reacts. If he doesn't feel the same way, the only thing you can really do without ruining your good relationship is to move on, just like the first time. But maybe he does, it kinda sounds like it! Good luck.

Answer 4

I had a problem like that. My friend was just very flirtatious because she liked the feeling of being in control. Leading me on and then when I asked her about it she would be like "No I don't like you, I'm just playing"

This went on for two years, we got into a horrible fight and I stopped believing in romantic love.

I know that didn't help but it is the truth.

Just love everyone with respect and intimacy, but getting involved makes things complicated.

Answer 5

you should talk to him and say how you feel. and if he still doesn't accept your feelings, then ask him why is he doing all these sweet stuff like what couples do and if he answers cuz you and him are best buddies just ask him what if you are going out with someone and you spend your time with that person and do stuff like what you guys are doing currently, would your best friend be jealous? then tell your best friend to think about it and walk away untill he gives you an answer. hope this helps your guys's relationship =]

P.S i think its cute how besties fall in love with each other =] i'll cheer for you!

Answer 6

maybe he doesnt want u cuz he has some one else but he lyks u but hes actin like he doesnt so he doesnt wanna cheat on his other mate but he already is but he dont know it or he may be pittying u...sad sorry or u could just ask him y

Answer 7

well if he nos how u feel then try and see y he holds your hand and y does sweet stuff to u and c if his friends can find something special he likes about u (if he really likes u)

Answer 8

i think he just wants 2 b friends so dont pressure him & itll b ok just hold his hand & enjoy da moment.

Answer 9

Just ask her out for and see how works.

Answer 10

maybe he DOES like you...just doesnt know it yet or hes too embarrased to sayy..that hand thing is a sign..=]