Family & Relationships - 27 March 2007

My husband and I went on an extended vacation so that I could meet his family. He stayed behind for 45 more days to take care of some unfinished property business and then came home. Everything seemed fine of the bat, but them he was getting short tempered and un affectionate...I confronted him and he said he's fine. He then opened a my space page, and had asked me to translate something for a relative of his..he gave me his password, well needless to say I found a message from many unknown people, but one in particular he seemed to make a big deal out of not knowing...I then saw the lap top opened to his e-mail, and sure enough he had sent her a message...it says : "yeah, my god I miss that time, I could never forget that night, it was marvelous. would you be able to do it again?" ...now what do I do? I was looking in his private email...so when I confronted him, I couldn't tell him what I saw, and he denied everything...could it be just innocent dancing, or hanging out?

2007-03-27 07:32:30 · 13 answers · asked by experience 4 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-03-27 07:32:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What was your reaction when you saw your 1st live penis ? were you sick to vomit ?

2007-03-27 07:31:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im having a bit of a problem, i am an 18 yr old girl who is very attracted to a 28yr old male i met over the internet, and he has made clear that this attraction is mutual. Neither of us were looking for anything more than a fun chat when we met, but now he has mentioned getting together for real and becoming serious. All of my friends think im crazy for even considering this given that i have absolutly no problem getting good guys right here at my college, but i cant seem to stop thinking about him. I know for a fact that he has not lied about the important things anyway as i have seen him on cam and therefore was able to confirm his age, apperance, occupation, etc. We just seem to click and although everything i have ever been taught goes against this, i find myself wanting nothing more than to take him up on his offer and be with him. What should i do?

2007-03-27 07:30:54 · 21 answers · asked by Lizzy S 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 07:30:30 · 8 answers · asked by citizen high 6 in Marriage & Divorce

last friday I ran away to go somewhere guiet and my parents called the police they found me and brought me home, but my parents haven't really been talking to me and I can't be down stairs I can't eat with them and I can't eat what they're eating. I fell so lonley . And I cry alot because no one wants to listen to me. what should I do?

2007-03-27 07:30:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-27 07:30:19 · 7 answers · asked by jam99_2u 3 in Friends

finding the perfect guy is SOOOO hard! how do you know if he is right for you???? any guys that can help me!!!!???????

2007-03-27 07:29:24 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why are so many people divorcing these days? i know its not the case for everyone but the numbers have certainly risen! i hardly know any people whos parents live together (no im not a loner lol!) is it that people treat marriage differently?

2007-03-27 07:28:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am single and 34. I could never set myself financially hoping that when i marry my couple helps me out to organise my finances better. I give out my money for charities, helping friends, going out and whatever.
So what is right?

2007-03-27 07:28:45 · 5 answers · asked by Johanpaul 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I broke up last year and he got someone pregnant. We have a 3yr old son together. The baby was born in October. He has been trying to make things work with us again. He is a wonderful father and I'm still really in liove with him. The girl he has a baby too is way younger than us and is very inexperienced as a mother. He has to do alot of stuff and she always calls him for things. I love him so much but do you really think this a hassle to deal with. I'm trying to do whats right for my son but am I doing whats right for me? Please let me know you're opinion.

2007-03-27 07:28:30 · 15 answers · asked by J K 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my last ? was i like 2 best friends n they both like me but i didnt know who i wanted because i like them the same its really hard to choose but i dotn think i should brake up their friendship so my next ? is that if i dont get in between them ill never know what could have been with either but i really dont want to get in between them help?????????//plz

2007-03-27 07:28:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter is 4yrs old. I had never shown her a picture of her dad because I didn’t want to open a can of worms. The other night I was looking at some picture and I found a picture of him and she saw it and said “That’s my Daddy”, I didn’t know what to say, the other day she told me that her daddy is her friend and that he gave her a hug. Last nigh was the worst because she kept on asking me were was her daddy, she kept saying “I want my daddy I want my daddy”, I don’t know what to tell her she is too small to understand. What kills me is that he was the worst dad out there, and when she grabs his picture and hugs it kills me. I have no idea how to deal with it.

2007-03-27 07:28:04 · 12 answers · asked by Jazmin 3 in Family

So I have been in a relationship with this guy for 2 yrs now. He has a great heart and worships the ground I walk on. The problem is we have had alot of problems because of lack of trust that he caused. Not from cheating but other issues. I am not sure if I should try to hang on and work it out or for both our sakes let him go. I hold a lot of anger towards him and I have hardly any respect and lately I have been feeling I would be better on my own. We argue constantly and I can hardly stand looking at him most of the time and I hate it when he touches me we hardly have sex like once a month and when we do its not pleasing. I love him so much I dont know what to do..

2007-03-27 07:28:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have gone out with Kyle 12 times already and i love him to bits and when im around him im happy and when he holds me all my worries fly away but i still dont know if he is right for me.

2007-03-27 07:27:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is 54 yrs old and complains about kids loud music and how they act, like he forgot he once was young. He talks about being in the navy when he was 18-20 yrs old like it was yesterday and attempted to get in contact with some guy he rode on a plane ride back to base when he was 19 and found out he had died awhile back. He went to his high school reunion and didnt invite me along. I suspicioned he was trying to hook up with an old flame.
He says high school football is the answer to raising boys to be responsible men. He talks about playing high school football like it was yesterday. His license plates has his year of high school graduation on them. Its like he is caught in a time warp.
He talks about being in the Navy over and over. We even went to Texas 3 yrs ago to look around his old Navy area. He has never been on a ship and never went anywhere.
Is he having a hard time getting out of the past and going thru a crisis or are some old guys just like that?

2007-03-27 07:26:51 · 6 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

I need an excuse not to go out sat night! I've said i would last week but now really don't want to go as she has just become single and i know from experience will just b chasin around men all night and i feel uncomfortable going out with her.

Lack of money won't work as she knows i've just been paid!

2007-03-27 07:26:49 · 27 answers · asked by sParKy 2 in Friends

What is the normal amount of time. I think the cater need LAST final count 2-3 weeks before hand.
Is a month proper??
Like if I ask-
Please reply before the first of October
M___________________
_______Will attend
_______Will not attend

2007-03-27 07:26:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

After I turned 31 recently, I have slowed down a little with going out to the clubs, and bars, and rather lay on the couch on a Saturday night and watch a movie. I asked myself the other day, "how did I come to this" ? Being in the club scene for years, I've seen it all, and nothing surprises me much anymore. I've grown tired of the crazyness I see, but much love dancing and living it up with my friends. Still at 31, I still get much more attention than your average 21 year old, and probably stay out later than they most do also. If im slowing down now, is this just a small set back for me ?, and eventually my spirit will return ?

2007-03-27 07:26:22 · 7 answers · asked by GoldenBoy 1 in Singles & Dating

If a divorce is scheduled for 10:30 am, what time does it usually get heard? On time?

2007-03-27 07:26:13 · 8 answers · asked by idontloveyoufup 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I had unprotected sex for the first time (4 both and with each other) last friday. We think I might be pregnant... I know its still too early to tell but well it was unprotected, even though he didnt C*um inside of me but we know I could get pregnant with prec*um. He wants to get married today after work. He has the wedding bands and everything. My parents have no idea as they are on a trip and wont be back til tomorrow night. Should we do it. What do you guys think?

2007-03-27 07:25:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-03-27 07:25:55 · 16 answers · asked by Wizard of Ahhs 3 in Singles & Dating

we've been together for 2 yrs, for some reason we just arent the way we used to be im pregnant with his child but this started a few months before i found out i am p g. he says he's really happy but it feels like we are just not connected or we are really distant at times.
he has other kids that live like 200 miles away and he says that he really misses them but as far as anything else i dont know whats going on.
we both tell eachother that we love eachother and dont want to be apart or with anyone else but could it be that the love just isnt the same anymore?

2007-03-27 07:25:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ive been in Iraq for almost 3 months and I love my wife very very much as does any husband i have a high profile job in the U.S Army and i want to keep the love and fire burning while im here she just gave birth to our son 3 weeks ago and I wasnt there. She was sad as was I. I was wondering what i can do over here to keep the fires burning at home and to make her feel needed and special? Thank you PFC Woodman

2007-03-27 07:25:06 · 13 answers · asked by Josh W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Has anyone else had fun sending and recieving videos from there sweetheat?

2007-03-27 07:24:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Today my husband and I are celebrating 17 years of marriage. He has to work and won't be home till late. Does anyone have a romantic idea that I can surprise him with when he walks through the door??

2007-03-27 07:24:50 · 3 answers · asked by M.S. Mom 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been going out with this girl for about 5 months, and I'm completely in love with her. However, one of her good (male) friends just told her he loves her, and she is confused. As her boyfriend, I love her dearly, and want her to stay with me, but as her friend, I want to be there for her and ease the confusion. And overall i just want her to be happy. But what do i do? And do I take her confusion and hesitation as a sign that she might not even feel about me the way I feel about her? Please, all advice is welcome.

2007-03-27 07:24:41 · 11 answers · asked by dublem13 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, I've seeing a guy for over 2 yrs now and we've been engaged for 5 monthes now. But I don't know if he still loves me the same as when we first met each other. I mean I love him for than anything but what can I do to fix this problem? I really do wanna marry him though. He tells me that he loves me but I don't think he really means it anymore and I don't think he really cares about our relationship anymore...I need some help plz....

2007-03-27 07:24:40 · 6 answers · asked by LilAngel04 1 in Singles & Dating

Today my husband and I are celebrating 17 years of marriage. He has to work and won't be home till late. Does anyone have a romantic idea that I can surprise him with when he walks through the door??

2007-03-27 07:24:29 · 11 answers · asked by M.S. Mom 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so this kid is my best friend and I love him. I have reason to believe he lkes me too but I don't know. Also I dunno if I should ask him out because my mom just took me out of school and now I am being forced to be home schooled =| and it kills me not to see him. And I love him and want to tell him but I dunno what to do!! any help?

2007-03-27 07:24:11 · 1 answers · asked by Jade Zagger 1 in Singles & Dating