So I have been in a relationship with this guy for 2 yrs now. He has a great heart and worships the ground I walk on. The problem is we have had alot of problems because of lack of trust that he caused. Not from cheating but other issues. I am not sure if I should try to hang on and work it out or for both our sakes let him go. I hold a lot of anger towards him and I have hardly any respect and lately I have been feeling I would be better on my own. We argue constantly and I can hardly stand looking at him most of the time and I hate it when he touches me we hardly have sex like once a month and when we do its not pleasing. I love him so much I dont know what to do..
2007-03-27 07:28:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can love someone and still not be together. maybe you two are better off apart than together. Relationships are built on trust and if you do not have that and cannot put it in the past and forgive him then there is not much more to do. Is the trust issue worse than cheating? I know it is not cheating b/c you mentioned that buy is it worth parting ways? This sounds like you can either go to get help from a professional, talk to him about the issues, or simply start over alone or with someone new. Relationships are not meant to be torturous. Good luck. 2 yrs is a long time but it will be long if this is not resolved.
2007-03-27 07:35:36 · answer #1 · answered by chazzz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You touched on something that I never seem to understand about woman. You say you love this guy BUT you don't trust him, have anger towards him, no respect for him, hate it when he touches you, the sex is bad, can't stand to look at him.
So why do you think you still love him if you have all these bad fellings about him what does he do that makes you love him what do you think signs of love are. Could any woman explain this to me?
The short answer is simple leave him for all the reason you just mentioned.
2007-03-27 14:43:00 · answer #2 · answered by Lou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be hard to date someone that you can't trust. For the built up anger you hold towards him isn't very healthy on your part. You should follow your heart, do what feels right to you. I don't know if you heard this quote, but I do believe it's true in my eyes; "It's better to have loved and lost than it is to never have loved at all."
2007-03-27 14:41:32 · answer #3 · answered by candy_lover_4ya2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love him and yet you can't stand looking at him and don't want to touch? I know anger is a sign of caring but your description is really confusing me.
2007-03-27 14:32:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should mention you both taking a break from the relationship. See how he feels about it. The break doesnt have to be permanent but it will just give both of you a chance to be free.
2007-03-27 15:03:55 · answer #5 · answered by CountryGirlygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg.. this is so me! ive been dating mine 4 2 years.. we live together and only have sex like3 or 4 times a month.. i love him so much.. but we fight alot too.. but i cant be without... try to take a break for a lil while n it will show u how much u love him n need him
2007-03-27 14:36:10 · answer #6 · answered by JessieRae07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sort of sounds like you've answered your own question......you can't stand him and don't want him to touch you and have no respect for him..and oh yeah, you don't trust him. What, exactly, is it that you do love about him?
Life's too short to waste time with shady men.....
2007-03-27 14:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should decide how you feel about him. you say that you love him but if doesn't really look like that. maybe you just respect him for the relationship you had, or maybe you love his way of treating you. if you think you really love him for who he really is, then dont end the relationship.
2007-03-27 14:33:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking...you already know it's time to end it.
Do it fast and move on quickly.
2007-03-27 14:31:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋