finding the perfect guy is SOOOO hard! how do you know if he is right for you???? any guys that can help me!!!!???????
2007-03-27 07:29:24 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's impossible actually. There's no such thing as perfection where humans are concerned...so stop wasting your time.
Concentrate on meeting someone who has the qualities that are important to you...not someone who is "perfect". Besides, since you aren't perfect it wouldn't last long...their perfection would be boring (our flaws make us interesting) and you'd spend all your time trying to measure up, only feeling as if you never could.
2007-03-27 07:32:45 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I'm sorry I'm not a guy...but can I say that the way you know you found the right man for you is when he brings out the BEST in you. When you feel great about yourself when you're around a certain man, you know you found the right guy.
Finding the "perfect" guy is difficult...so stop looking for that "perfect" guy and look for a man you can see spending the rest of your life with and be happy with.
2007-04-04 06:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really think that you can go out and find the perfect guy for you, love will find you. Because if you go out and look for the perfect guy to be with you will probably find the worst guy for you. Who knows you may already have found the perfect guy for you and don't even know it
2007-04-04 07:31:15 · answer #3 · answered by Rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't find a perfect guy because there is no such thing just like there is no perfect girl. Are you perfect? What you have to find is someone that can share their life with you who has similar interests and desires, i.e. a guy that is compatible with you. It is not a easy task but is possible. Once you find that someone then love is two way street based on giving more and not expecting to receive all the time.
2007-03-28 04:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by D J 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You find him thru the same process as how you met your best friend.
You go out and enjoy your life, doing the things you love to do. Always being open and friendly. Occasionally inviting people into your "circle"....same as friends. The special ones get closer and closer to you... into your inner circle. The "right one" would have earned your trust and affections...and you wont need to question if he's right. If you doubt, then you move slower. Just like with your female friends.
And if he does anything that displeases you, speak up on it...same as with a female friend. If he stays great!
If not...even BETTER, because you learned he's not the one.
I know being single is hard, lord knows I do...lol. But you can direct your intentions and passions to something other than a man. Yourself....
You have gifts and talents, that Im sure require just as much attention. Indulge in those and eventually "he'll" come along.
2007-03-27 07:42:11 · answer #5 · answered by too_hot4words 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
There is no perfect male or female....relationships are based upon endurence.... so looking for men and let them find you. When your looking you make yourself a target for heartache...every time! Men, like the hunters they are....see prey coming miles away....take the time to work on your self esteem and find out what makes a relationship so that when the "right sounding guy" approaches you....you'll know how to make an "okay" guy into a somewhat perfect/good match for you.
2007-03-27 07:37:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok im not a guy but you know the perfect guy when you are together and you never want to be away from him and when you are away you just want to stay with him but it has to last for a long time that way not just a month or something like that
2007-04-04 07:18:18 · answer #7 · answered by Angel eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not seem for him. you're meant to satisfy him, by some potential some way. only relax, pick the move, and be your self. there are probably a lot of human beings interior the international who could be your proper guy, yet you may purely meet some those men. Like I stated, be your self, no guy needs to go out with a phony.
2016-12-02 21:55:04 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one is perfect. Everyone has their own pro's and con's. He may look good, but doesn't have a clue of how to treat a woman. When you have found the "right" guy, you'll know it. You will be able to look pass his imperfections and love him more every day as he should you.
2007-04-04 03:41:35 · answer #9 · answered by momof3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's because there is no such thing as a perfect guy!
no one is perfect!! instead of seeking for the perfect guy. try finding the guy who you can be perfect with.
2007-04-04 07:20:39 · answer #10 · answered by p@nKiss 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋