After I turned 31 recently, I have slowed down a little with going out to the clubs, and bars, and rather lay on the couch on a Saturday night and watch a movie. I asked myself the other day, "how did I come to this" ? Being in the club scene for years, I've seen it all, and nothing surprises me much anymore. I've grown tired of the crazyness I see, but much love dancing and living it up with my friends. Still at 31, I still get much more attention than your average 21 year old, and probably stay out later than they most do also. If im slowing down now, is this just a small set back for me ?, and eventually my spirit will return ?
2007-03-27 07:26:22 · 7 answers · asked by GoldenBoy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What I am hearing is called growing up. You are not slowing down so much as changing. This is what life is all about. Don't worry as long as there is no special person in your life you will be back to dancing and living it up in no time at all. Might be time to start thinking about what you want in a special person. Not do anything about it just think.
2007-03-27 07:33:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Declining to spend time at noisy nightclubs isn't a sign that you're getting old and senile! Lighten up on yourself!
Your preferences change as time goes by. Could be that work takes more energy, so you prefer to recharge on weekends. Could be that you're looking for a less crazy lifestyle than clubbing 10 nights a week.
If you enjoy some relaxing time, just enjoy it. Don't second guess yourself into paranoia.
2007-03-27 07:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by Jarien 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As you age interests change - it's not a bad thing at all. Why spend hours on end at a bar wasting $ and time? Find yourself someone that you'd like to settle down with and spend the night with her (lots of fun things start on the couch watching a movie . . .)
2007-03-27 07:34:01 · answer #3 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully, you have figured out there is nothing in the clubs. No, thirty isn't a stop sign, nor is any other age if you don't want it to be. There is a lot of fun to be had, but the clubs?Well, I don't miss the hangovers and the...
2007-03-27 07:32:44 · answer #4 · answered by Butterflie927 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you hit 30, your priorities change. You don't want to stay out all night anymore. That is because you are more responsible and have more going on in your life. You are more mature. You spirit didn't go away, you have just changed what is important in your life.
2007-03-27 07:32:23 · answer #5 · answered by krupsk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
really wow. Most my friends are in there middle thirty's and they party just as much as I do 25. I even know people in there 40's and they go out. Maybe u r tired of the scene
2007-03-27 07:32:30 · answer #6 · answered by sirloin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it should return!! I think its kind of like the calm before the storm!! My 30's have been wild! Im 35 and still going strong! hang in there, lifes not over yet!!!
2007-03-27 07:32:54 · answer #7 · answered by MEESH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋