we've been together for 2 yrs, for some reason we just arent the way we used to be im pregnant with his child but this started a few months before i found out i am p g. he says he's really happy but it feels like we are just not connected or we are really distant at times.
he has other kids that live like 200 miles away and he says that he really misses them but as far as anything else i dont know whats going on.
we both tell eachother that we love eachother and dont want to be apart or with anyone else but could it be that the love just isnt the same anymore?
2007-03-27 07:25:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he does get his kids every break from school and this pregnancy was very unexpected i had my tubes cut and burnt 3 yrs ago after my 4th child. yes this is #4 for me!!
2007-03-27 07:48:32 · update #1
nothing stays the same. love evolves and does not always stay the same but love can still remain. the bf is probably just missing his other kids and maybe feels a need for a change in atmosphere. maybe consider a move closer to his family and just talk to him about everything. he may also be dealing with the pregnancy if it was unexpected.
2007-03-27 07:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend tell me once that the 2nd year of a relationship is the hardest. I cant explain why that is but I have found this to be true. I think it may have something to do with being over the NEW feeling in a relationship and you stop trying so hard to do nice things. Maybe you should plan a special day for him so that he feels very loved and special. THen he will do something nice for you. Sometimes we all just need reminders that you should never stop doing things that make your loved one feel special. Dont forget men deal with stress and emotion very differently. Not having his kids near him could have a lot to do with it. Is it possible that he could arrange for them to visit during a break from school?
2007-03-27 07:35:27 · answer #2 · answered by Juls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you first fall in love the chemicals are flowing which give you that feeling of being high and on top of the world. After awhile, you start to lose that, but you can still be deeply in love with your partner. Sometimes you have to work at keeping your relationship together. Work on making each other happy.
Hey, I got pregnant the 1st time I had sex with my husband. We only knew each other for 9 months when I gave birth to our son. The high wore off really fast.
All I can say is relationships require dedication and willingness to work it out. You dont stay in that high forever.
People forget and thats why they end up cheating and doing all kinds of crazy things.
2007-03-27 07:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋