Family & Relationships - 26 March 2007

My sister treats me like I'm 5 because she is a lot older than me. She loves talking about how i'm a "little kid" it gets on my nerves, it's not that I think I'm old or want to be 33 years old yet, Its just I'm a teenager! NOT A KINDERGARTENER!

2007-03-26 09:48:43 · 1 answers · asked by ladybug 3 in Family

2007-03-26 09:48:31 · 1 answers · asked by well_man_hung 1 in Singles & Dating

We are looking at getting custody of my niece and nephew because of extenuating circumstances.

My Father-in-law accused me in a hateful manner of being liberal because we want to build an additional room in OUR home for one of the children and not make our teenagers share rooms with my niece and nephew.

The kids haven't known one another for even a year yet. My children are a a boy 17, a girl 15, nephew is 14, and neice is 8.

We have plenty of space to add the room and the know how to do it. We aren't even asking for any assistance from my father-in-law in the form of money or labor.

Am I being too liberal wanting the children to have their own space in the house?

**Please note my husband is in agreement with me. We both want the kids to have their own space**

2007-03-26 09:48:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am 42 years old. Recently divorced and am relocating to Georgia to start my life over again with a man who is older than me by 20 years who I have known all my life. I have dated younger men and men my age. They are useless jerks. They have no respect for women, they degrade them and seem as though they want to take them down to a level of nothing. They were all black. I try not to generalize but when you are angry and you feel as though you are being hurt you lash out. Black men make me very angry at times I nothing but extreme hate for them. My first husband who is deceased was white and my second one was hispanic. This man now is black. But he is kind he doesn't inflict pain and unkind words. I do feel as though I am affected by the way the average black male acts. Is it so hard for them to show love and kindness. It seems as though they are more tender witht he rims on their cars than the women in there lives. Is there a reason some women only attract to older men?

2007-03-26 09:48:08 · 24 answers · asked by kimberly s 1 in Singles & Dating

Ex., arcade, the mall,etc.

2007-03-26 09:48:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy that goes to the same gym as me wrote sent me a message saying it is really hard to talk at the gym and he always feels like he smells after working out. Over the weekend one of my guy friends said I completely missed what that comment meant. He said the guy left it open ended for me to suggest going somewhere else. Is this true?

2007-03-26 09:46:40 · 3 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 09:46:22 · 10 answers · asked by DJ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 09:46:11 · 2 answers · asked by DJ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 09:46:08 · 8 answers · asked by Ed H 1 in Singles & Dating

Were recently married and young. She seems unmotivated to go out and job hunt but has no problem going out and having fun or shopping. Any ideas?

2007-03-26 09:45:50 · 24 answers · asked by jamalunas 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i love naruto uzamaki.i wish he was real.my friends say i am a nut case saying i like anime boys.and it is true i like no human boys.i am obseed on how HOT the anime boys look.is this serious.i love NARUTO.

2007-03-26 09:45:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance is turning 41 soon and I've decided that I want to give him 41 gifts. They don't all have to be store bought or even material things. I've already bought him a card and the thing he wanted most. So that makes 2 gifts. Now I need 39 other things to lead up to that one big gift. Or I could send him on a scavenger hunt with 41 clues. Hmmmmmmmm. Any ideas?

2007-03-26 09:44:46 · 7 answers · asked by I'm his princess 2 in Family

2007-03-26 09:43:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 09:43:37 · 3 answers · asked by DJ 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend of 2 years. He broke up with me last summer, after he cheated on me,to date the girl he cheated on me with. We ended up getting back together about 3 months later. He has always been a little controlling and a little jelouse, but now it seems it gets worse and WORSE! He calls me names, he ALWAYS thinks im lieing or hiding something. And i cant get him to trust me. I dont think its fair being that he was the one that cheated. We always argue of stupid things. But then again i love him with all my heart, and it just seems like he is the one im suppost to be with. and i know if i leave him and he goes to date someone else i will want him back. When we arnt arguing things are great, but when we do argue it just hurts so bad. I just want him to respect me, and trust me. i dont want to make a wrong move and leave him when maybe he can change, but then again i dont want to say with him and it get worse!!! HELP, i really need some advise!!! THANK YOU!

2007-03-26 09:43:12 · 30 answers · asked by na 1 in Singles & Dating

I paid the $320 filing charges to have divorce papers served on my wife in early March of this year. Does she need to pay that same amount (or any amount) in order to submit her response, or is it free to her? I know I could go to the court house to ask, but I thought I'd try here first.

Thanks!

2007-03-26 09:43:07 · 5 answers · asked by Kevin H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

approx. 2 1/2 yrs ago my ex and i parted on angry terms.. soon after (very soon) he got married to some little...well lets just say he got married. Right after they married (1 day later) he came back home and patched our relationship up. all the while i had no idea of this marriage. When i found out (1 month later) it was sooo over (him and i).So basically they got married and I was on the honeymoon. I know, i know , kinda twisted huh. imagine how i feel . Anyway for about 4 months or so we were not on speeking terms. then we ran into eachother and it was on (if you know what i mean) so he never really made an exit from my life and confessed to me that the marriage was out of spite (to hurt me) but when it came down to it he couldn't tell me. instead i figured it out on my own..this is a no brainer...right ? run away from this man..... sad part is.. easier said than done. i know for a fact that they are seperated and have been for some time now. But what do i do with this?

2007-03-26 09:42:56 · 5 answers · asked by GAL PAL 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-03-26 09:42:29 · 16 answers · asked by hippy 1 in Singles & Dating

oky i met this guy like 3wks ago...that day when i met him. i dreamed about him that were getting married....since i met him we always call/text each other..every single day we spend 2-3hrs on the phone and we both know that we like each other...

lst saturday he come to my house he stay there until 3:30 am...nothing happen we just talk, sing and obviously that we both have connection...that day again i dream of him...its very weird...i dont know if it is a sign or what? cuz i never experience that....what do you guys think??? soul mate or what???

2007-03-26 09:42:19 · 4 answers · asked by tyrha69 1 in Singles & Dating

I am separated for a while. I am planning to own a new place. I am wondering, do I have to add my separated spouse’s name on the deed?

I dont want to have any chaos on this new property.

Thanks

2007-03-26 09:42:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-26 09:41:57 · 5 answers · asked by courtney j 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 32 years old, i have been married twice so far, and both my marriages ended very badly. My first husband was very abusive, both physically and verbally. And my 2nd well he left after 7 years of marriage and within a weeks time was living with another woman. What i am trying to get at, is that i have been dating a guy, for nearly 6 years now. We live together, and i feel like we are married, we just dont have that piece of paper that says we are.... I am scared like hell to make that kind of committment again, and it all go down the drain. Even though in my mind i know that he would never hurt me like my other husbands did in the past. I feel like his parents are being pushy at times, i have told them that when i feel like the time is right then thats when i will say " i do " but not until then. Is it wrong to make him wait, I don't want to lose him, i feel like he is the best thing thats happened to me in a long time.

2007-03-26 09:41:19 · 31 answers · asked by Jennifer G 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I was having a very complicated situation with my debts and credit cards and I live outside the US so I borrowed some money (not too much) to one of my friends who lives in the States. After having problems with his phone bill he said he couldnt help me at that moment so he asked me to borrow it from someone else while he was able to send the cash and help me out and pay it back to the other person so I did but he stopped calling me and started ignoring me everytime I mentioned the idea in a very softle way when I called.
Today I called him again after 2 weeks of not talking to him at all, since he keeps ignoring my phone calls so he accepted that he's a little upset and uncomfortable with the whole situation. I think he should of tell something at least and not just ignore me and give me his back with no explanation.
I was not trying to take advantage from our friendship so...why is it that he acted that way being a 37 yeard old guy? What can I do to make him forgive me? help

2007-03-26 09:41:17 · 2 answers · asked by bloodymary24 4 in Friends

I've been really insecure about my relationship with my b-friend of 4 yrs for a while now. He seems emotionally disconnected from me and the only day we can hang out if work doesn't come up is on Saturday (Sun-Fri off limits)

I tried talking to him and let him know we need to find a way to spend more time together (not 24/7, but you know) He said I need to understand that he is really in love with me, but that his job is his priority right now.........so I broke up with him.

Was I really being selfish, like he said, for not accepting that? Or am I right to believe that if someone REALLY loves you they will find the time?

2007-03-26 09:40:41 · 10 answers · asked by ebony r 1 in Singles & Dating

what do you lok for in a potential mate as far as looks and characterdoes race matter to you do you care about what people think?

2007-03-26 09:40:09 · 5 answers · asked by shyababy05 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfreind and I get in this arguement over some mutual freinds of ours that have started seeing each other romantically. I think it's cool that they were freinds and now they want to date each other; she thinks it's wrong and is overstepping boundaries.
So what's your take? Can close freinds date, or is that against the rules?

2007-03-26 09:40:00 · 2 answers · asked by TooMuch 4 in Friends

2007-03-26 09:39:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-26 09:39:03 · 9 answers · asked by marty 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-26 09:38:59 · 2 answers · asked by sugacityprincess 1 in Singles & Dating

leave a guy that you have been with for 1 year, love, know everything about, have givin up so much for and know that he's not willing to change the way that he treats you....
for a guy that shows you he cares in very way, is there when no one else is, have more thing in common with, has a outlook of what he wants in the future, and miss every moment of the day but aren't sure if it's the attention he gives you that you weren't getting or if he really does care?

PLEASE HELP ME!!!!

2007-03-26 09:38:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating