leave a guy that you have been with for 1 year, love, know everything about, have givin up so much for and know that he's not willing to change the way that he treats you....
for a guy that shows you he cares in very way, is there when no one else is, have more thing in common with, has a outlook of what he wants in the future, and miss every moment of the day but aren't sure if it's the attention he gives you that you weren't getting or if he really does care?
PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
2007-03-26 09:38:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave the boyfriend, you have only been with him for a year. I understand you love him, but you are not getting what you want out of the relationship. Its obvious that is why you are seeing this other guy. Remember no one is perfect, but this new guys sounds great for you. I am a firm believer that actions speaks louder then words.
2007-03-26 09:44:02 · answer #1 · answered by Tabitha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just the part that he has a outlook on the future is enough to leave the other guy for. That, and if the other guy has not changed the way he treats you then most likely HE WILL NOT CHANGE. Men never really do change.
2007-03-26 16:42:36 · answer #2 · answered by Asian Mami 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say if your being treated badly or in a way you dont like by your current bf and he will not change to make you happy then leave him, not nesisarily for another guy but for you. If you like the other guy keep in contact with him and you can always ask how he feels about you if it works out lucky you if not at least you got out of a bad relationship with a douche bag.
2007-03-26 16:43:42 · answer #3 · answered by ByouTfull 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say take a chance, Because it sounds the way that you wrote it that your boyfriend does not treat you very well and this other guy is giving you the attention you need, I WOULD SAY GO FOR IT GIRL, You only live once and you might as well try to be as happy as you can wile her
2007-03-26 16:49:14 · answer #4 · answered by mystictoad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a little more time with the new guy, just so that you make sure its not just the attention hes after! But the simple truth is "You cant be unhappy in order to make someone else happy, for happiness based upon someone elses suffering is never fulfilling, and only desrtuctive." Give yourself time away from the guy who hurts you, and with the new guy just take it slow! GOOD LUCK*************
2007-03-27 21:08:26 · answer #5 · answered by AlessioItalianoBismillah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Knowing me id stay with the first guy if i was in love with him even if he treated me like **** but if i really really had feelings for the other guy i might get with him instead but NOT just to see what would happen in the future follow your heart!!!
2007-03-26 16:42:15 · answer #6 · answered by I love America♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well yes i for one would-and a year is nothing -it may seem like a long time to you but for relatioships it is not- but life is short and iwould move on -but that sjust my opinion
2007-03-26 16:44:00 · answer #7 · answered by roxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely give a chance to the guy who likes me , respects and treat me like a lady. And dumb the other jerk.
2007-03-26 16:43:28 · answer #8 · answered by julia1975 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sure...you gotta do what makes you happy as opposed to what feels safe...your current man feels safe to you because you'd rather have him around then not have anyone...but sounds like the other guy can make you happier...at least until the initial glamor fades
2007-03-26 16:53:47 · answer #9 · answered by anthony v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say figure out the first relationship before you jump into the next one.
2007-03-26 16:44:03 · answer #10 · answered by mudd_grip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋