Family & Relationships - 24 March 2007

I recently met this guy in january, hes 16 and im 15.(he goes to my school and rides my bus, i kinda have a crush on him, or did, im not sure anymore) me and him were cool at 1st until he started being friends with this other kid that rode my bus. the guy he started being friends with used to be really racist towards me, and i guess it started rubbing off on him
so then both of them began being racist towards me, but then the other guy stopped and it ended up just being my "friend"
and i told him to stop and called him a racist ignorant bas.tard and etc
and then he got all offended saying he wasnt racist, he said something like "why are u callin me racist you know im just messin with you"
however im sick of it. and i dont know how to get him to stop
he apologized like 2 days ago but i told him i wasnt talking to him anymore, and then he just started back up again
any good advice?? it would be much appreciated.
thanks.

2007-03-24 10:45:09 · 5 answers · asked by ChiTownsFineszt 1 in Friends

hugo boss, axe or whatever and please tell me how much they cost in canadian or american dollars!!. Thanks.

2007-03-24 10:44:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now but im only with him because my parents dont want me to leave him?

2007-03-24 10:44:39 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 10:44:13 · 6 answers · asked by Sarah 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey ladies. I've been with my fiance for four years. We had a great sex life. Lately, she doesn't feel 'hot' anymore. We even went to a romantic Mexican getaway and...nada! She says it's not just me, but generally, she doesn't even feel like having sex. What bothers me even more is that we don't even live in the same city while she is in school. We see each other about every 2 weeks, you'd think she would be excited...right?

If you are wondering, I don't believe it is the sex itself. What ever she asks, I give...and vice versa. It has to be something a little deeper than that. Ladies, help me understand.

2007-03-24 10:43:52 · 3 answers · asked by qumungis 2 in Singles & Dating

i'M CONFUSED ON WHAT i SHOULD DO. sHE PUT HER TRUST ON ME BU T NOW i'M IN THE MIDDLE... help!

2007-03-24 10:43:32 · 15 answers · asked by lvsshanom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-24 10:43:26 · 3 answers · asked by libra5 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this girl a couple of months ago and we talk to each other a few times on the phone and e-mail each other alot. We went on five dates and from the third date she showed all the signs that she wanted a kiss, especially during the end of our dates. For all these times I attempted once and it was kind of awkard after that i was just too nervous to do it. What should I do now, I hope that she will still go out with me because I don't want to seem like a wuss. I talked about our awkard moment and she told me i don't have to feel this way. I still did not kiss her on our next date!! I feel like kicking myself! but she is a shy girl...

2007-03-24 10:42:26 · 1 answers · asked by danny lsh 1 in Singles & Dating

okayy so i met this really cute guy online and im afraid to give him my number, incase you know, he finds out where i live, i really want himto call me well he lives on da whol other side of da country. should i give him my number or not????

2007-03-24 10:42:21 · 14 answers · asked by curious 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i want to my guy friends house tonight and we played a game. its a mix bettween smear the quear and football. well i took another guy friend with me. when we were waiting for my brother to come i was all wet cause we had been playin abit. well, i had my hair up and i pulled it out and and it cinda like flowed and flopped, like in the movies when hott women walk torwards guys and they do the hair thing and then i leaned back bent over and shock my head. then i stood back up, like in movies wjen hot girls get out of a pool and they fling their hair back. i got the 2 guys lookin at me. both of their mouths where droped and the look on there face was a mix between " what the heck are you doin?" and "o my god, she is soooo hot" i laughed and they picked up theyre mouths. i think i gave the one a hard on cause his pants cinda moved out. So what were they thinkin

2007-03-24 10:41:58 · 6 answers · asked by redneck girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 49, and my wife is 44. We are facing a divorce, and it is my wife's choice. We have only been married 16 months. A lot has happened. We both messed up, and it just can't be fixed. So, I have found someone who is almost 20 yrs younger than me, and is a true child of God. We both are. Is age to be a barrier for someone we both have strong, and bonding feelings for??...We have alot in common, and we share more in common than my wife and I did. We also are 1700 miles apart. My feelings for this young woman is so so strong, that I feel we both need to be together. So was just wondering if age faces a dark spot with society??

2007-03-24 10:41:33 · 6 answers · asked by Scatter 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-24 10:41:27 · 7 answers · asked by macho c 1 in Singles & Dating

One of my good friends is a guy and this kid started spreading rumors that we were dating!! So now, me and my friend are the butt of the joke for everything. We don't like eachother like that! We both like different people but neither of us can make other people believe that. How can I stop the rumors?

2007-03-24 10:41:15 · 21 answers · asked by blueJay 5 in Friends

Initially i apoligized to this girl for ways i came acros in the past,and she stormed out and didn't take it well,but i saw her a month later and she smiled at me,but we kept our distance from each other.(me respecting her space)What do i make of all this.

2007-03-24 10:41:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 10:41:00 · 3 answers · asked by shaimaa mohamed 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

A close friend got married. 4 months after he got married, we got a lot closer. Nothing major - spending time 2gether, flirting etc. About 4 months ago we kissed. I said that it was a drunken mistake &wouldn't happen again - it did. Over last 4 months we have kissed a few times but after each time I say "no more, you're married" & each time it happens again.

I know a lot of you will think I am an evil bit** from hell because I know he is married but I have really fallen for this guy. Last night after a month of being friends he came over & we ended up kissing. He also hypothetically asked me to marry him (I said no).

Since then he txt'd 2say he was making a CD for me & was there anything I wanted on it(!) I sent him txt this eve saying that this couldn't carry on. He replied that he'd been thinking about it all day & it had to be last time. Problem is I have REALLY fallen for him... What do I do? Want 2do right thing with him being married but it hurts so much...

2007-03-24 10:40:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

has it faded away? The Signs: . I let her have my seat once, she said "Really? Thank you so much!"
2. She sat in front of me, smiled, asked when my bday was
3. Came up to me on the bleachers, said she thought iw as cool, if i had a girlfriend, what my fav color is.says we're in 1 class together
4. Her and her friend enter the room, point and laugh at me, i ask em why, keep laughing
5. I think that she looks over at me sometimes
6. Hear her say "My first and last name" to her friend
7. Doesn't talk to me for 1 month
8. Asks if i was in her class (though shes in the only class ther is, and im not in it) thought that was a little weird
9. Runs in gym class really fast to catch up with me, we dont say a word
10. sits next to me that same day, multiple times, doesn't say a word (we were probably 3-4 inches apart)
11. comes up to me ad asks if she can see something in my hand, does sumthin fnny
12. family sat bhind me at schol performence, didn't say hi,, but sat w friends ltr

2007-03-24 10:39:49 · 13 answers · asked by sklinckyy 1 in Singles & Dating

Don't get me wrong, I like kids and spending time w/them. I just don't have this overwhelming need to have my own. I am worried that there won't be anyone out there who shares my view.

2007-03-24 10:39:37 · 4 answers · asked by IceIt71 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 10:39:35 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Friends

2007-03-24 10:39:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Im Handsome

2007-03-24 10:39:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I used to be popular, but I' m not now. There was this girl who I completly hated, and now she tries to be my friend. She is kind of gross. When she sneezes, she wipes in on her face! Anyway, she always says hi and tries to get in on our private conversations. I really don't like her, and she's annoying. I have no idea waht to do. Help!

2007-03-24 10:39:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I really, really liked this guy. We got along GREAT. Like perfectly. And it wasn't fake. Well then we had a school break, and we lost touch, I went to Paris and he stayed in town.

I'm guessing he met a new girl because I went on MSN when I got back and he said "He can't say anything bad because he has a GF." I was like whatever.

Then something happened, bad. With my friends. I told him I couldn't talk or see him anymore, and he was like "Please, no, please I'll do anything..You're a great friend I love you." He always used to say he loved me.. AS A FRIEND.

I signed off MSN because I couldn't take it, I was so tired of having my heart broken. Well I signed online and now I have an offline message from him. He sent it that night that I told him I couldn't talk to him, but like 3-4 hours later.

It says.. "I love you alot..." I'm crying so hard. It's like he keeps breaking my heart over and over without really doing anything.

Do you think he means as a friend? More on details

2007-03-24 10:38:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Monday my boyfriend was in the hospital (where i work) overnight. I stayed until 1am when he sent me home "to get some rest". Then I found that he called his ex right after I left and she was there for a while. I came back at 630 and he told me she was there. Before all that I had paid his $500 ded. on his BlueCross.
Next day I forgave for the ex thing and went and got his prescription from the pharmacy and paid his water bill since he couldn't leave the house. We spent Wednesday 2gether watching movies and hanging out. It was the perfect day until 9pm when he called me to tell me that he had suddenly decided to move.
I was heartbroken until the next day (well i still am) when I saw him and his ex in a car 2gether. I haven't heard from him in 3 days.
I don't know what I did to make him run to his ex and he hasn't called me , he won't pick up his phone and his family hasn't heard from him either. I know he's with her. He didn't show up for tests I paid for him to have done 2day

2007-03-24 10:38:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why does she there is blood everywhere when I go to her house she is 14 like me and her parents think it is funny why does she do this I ask her and she ignores me on that question!

2007-03-24 10:38:07 · 4 answers · asked by coconuts 4 in Friends

Ok heres my question... does anybody have any good names for a baby boy? i have 3 girls and this is my first boy and i got no idea what to name him. im thinking about Dylan. Can you give me some ideas? Please, thanks in advance!

2007-03-24 10:37:35 · 12 answers · asked by kaitlyn 1 in Singles & Dating

Well first of all God know I love my husband of eight years, but latley we have been fighting alot latley, well he is a good husband good dad and everybody loves him, well I just had my last daughter 8 month ago and have been feeling very depressed and I guess I just always want my husband to be more open with me about our mairrage and when I brign it up he never wants to talk about it all he says is lets do it my way, well what is his way I have no idea I guess it is egnore me and try to always pretand as if there is nothing going on well I have been doing this for two years now and I am very tiered of it I feel I have to be here cause of my kids and cause of all our bills and car payment and ect. well I am very confused right now that is why I am hear pouring my heart out please tell me what i should do.

2007-03-24 10:37:15 · 22 answers · asked by jozlilnanjos 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-24 10:36:56 · 8 answers · asked by kj 5 in Family

i wanna know why would that be.. i mean we both like it but, its just weird and should i ask her??? pls dont play around be serious when answering ok...only girls ok...!!1

2007-03-24 10:36:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have known each other for about 10 years, and we both promised that we would be in each other's weddings. He was in my wedding, but when it came to his it was a different story. I'm a larger size woman, and his financee was aware of this. She promised to accomendate all of the girls sizes with her dress choice, however she wasn't. All of her friends (they vary from larger sizes to very small) were taken in consideration (in my opinion) but I wasn't. It felt impossible for me to be in the wedding with her dress choice which I told her, and they didn't seem to care or mind. Now though we were very close at one time, I don't even want to go to the wedding because I feel very wronged. I'm very hurt.

2007-03-24 10:36:22 · 16 answers · asked by Sonni 2 in Weddings