i have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now but im only with him because my parents dont want me to leave him?
2007-03-24 10:44:39 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What the hell do your parents have to do w/ you r relationship, if u dont love him dump him, stop wasting ur time, u will be miserable later on!
2007-03-24 10:52:18 · answer #1 · answered by Zorro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your together for the wrong reasons then. If you don't love the person your with stop with the act and tell them. Its like that guns n roses song,
"Cause nothin' lasts forever
And we both know hearts can change..."
It is cheating if your with someone, but just break it up, stop making the poor guy think everything is ok. Talk to him about it, and, tell him the truth. This will probably be very hard for him if he cares for you much. But, just tell him if he really cared for you he would let you be happy even if that means it doesn't include him in your life. You never know, you might want him back later, so maybe just stay friends, and talk once in a while.
2007-03-24 10:55:28 · answer #2 · answered by DJ Ov3rD05e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well who is with him you or your parents? I went through the same thing a few months back and i told my parents that if they loved him so much that they could have him. Its your life and its unfair top both of you because he probably thinks you love him and maybe he loves you but you are just wasting his time and yours being with him. My advise is to end it now before he gets way too attached and things get real messy. Tell your parents your not going to be with someone they like you are going to be with someone you like. You should not cheat on him because you are probably going to feel guilty if you do since you posted this question. Well do what you feel your heart tells you OK. Hope it all works out
2007-03-24 10:53:34 · answer #3 · answered by elizacandle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do him a favor. Break up with him. We all deserve to be with people who appreciate us. You can't help who you love, so if you don't love him, that doesn't make you a bad person. Leading him on just to keep up appearances? THAT would make someone a bad person. If you are old enough to date, and to CHEAT, you are old enough to be honest with this guy and with your parents. Doing things to keep everyone else from being mad at you is actually very selfish, whether you know it or not. I know you are just trying to spare feelings, but if you are just trying to keep everyone happy with YOU, it's still all about YOU. Stop wasting this guy's time, don't cheat...and may the both of you go on to find open, honest relationships with the right persons.
2007-03-24 10:52:34 · answer #4 · answered by lipsndimples81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry hun,but cheating is wrong already...If you don't love the person your with tell him the truth,if he finds out himself he will get hurt even worst :)
And another thing are your parent gonna tell you how to live your life or what,you need to make a choice
2007-03-24 10:48:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your parents relationship. IT"S YOURS! So if you don't feel the same about him, then you need to leave. Why put him through the bullshit. He could be going out and finding someone that does want to be with him. You're wasting his time.
Not to mention, what goes around comes around, and you should give him the same respect you'd like him to give to you. Cause if he went out and cheated on you, I guarantee you'd be flipping out on him. So show some respect.
2007-03-24 11:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by LaLa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think You Should Break Up With The Person You're With No Matter How Hard It Will Be (freaky cause I just went through the same experience)
2007-03-24 10:48:15 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should put your shoes on his feet. If he thinks you have a serious relationship would it hurt his feelings and possibly your friendship if you cheated on him. Would you appreciate it if he cheated on you without telling. Maybe you should talk to him and find out how he feels about you and what kind of relationship he thinks you two have before you ruin a good thing and wind up homeless.
2007-03-24 10:50:08 · answer #8 · answered by mychellturner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is no longer feeling like your soul mate you have to end it no matter how your parents feel. After all they are not dating him you are; and if your ready to cheat on him your ready to move on. Just get it over with before your in a dead relationship for 3 or 4 years of wasted time.
2007-03-24 10:48:37 · answer #9 · answered by rosser_girl_68 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes! It's always wrong to cheat. What about his feelings? I need to leave him. Who cares what your parents think. You need to think about what makes you happy. It wil only make things worse.Break up with him. It will be hard but it's only for the best. good luck
2007-03-24 10:48:36 · answer #10 · answered by Dollyrocker 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋