i'M CONFUSED ON WHAT i SHOULD DO. sHE PUT HER TRUST ON ME BU T NOW i'M IN THE MIDDLE... help!
2007-03-24 10:43:32 · 15 answers · asked by lvsshanom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell your brother's wife, either you come clean or I'm going to tell him!! Did she really expect you to not say anything - it's your brother!!??
2007-03-24 10:49:52 · answer #1 · answered by Zabes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't be the one to tell your brother that his wife cheated on her it's her place to be honest and if she is never planning on telling him then she doesn't really love your brother as a wife should.. Besides all it will do is cause her to hate you from betraying her trust and also cause a problem between you and your brother because she could come back and say it's your word against her's.
2007-03-24 18:52:54 · answer #2 · answered by rebelprincess6379 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your not your brothers keeper but how do you think he going to look at you when he finds out shes cheating and trust me shes going to tell him that you new all along .Say your not getting some of that are you?
2007-03-24 17:54:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she told you because she wants for you to tell her husband.
But I would not go for that. Let her do her own dirty work.....stay out of it.....he may forgive her, then what?
Do they have children?
Distance yourself from her, she needs to know that her values are immoral, that she is an adulteress, and furthermore ,that ,with her action she may put her husbands life in jeopardy, regarding a sexual disease.
If, at one point your bro finds out that you knew, tell him that you preferred not to get mixed up in his affairs, but that you are always on his side.
I'm sorry some thoughtless person has put you in the middle of this, and I hope that everything turns out alright in the end.
2007-03-24 18:07:42 · answer #4 · answered by Sabine5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since she has told you you should confront her that if she doesn't respect her husband and your brother enough to
tell him then you will have know other choice then to spill the beans. She haven't placed thias burden on your shoulders
realizing your his family and you would feel gulity keeping this to yourself.
God Bless and You must be old enough to make the right decision?
2007-03-24 17:59:21 · answer #5 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her an ultimatum .Either she tell him or you do it give her 3 days to do it and on the third day tell him just not over the phone and not in public don't embarass the poor man
I hope she feels like s-hit
2007-03-24 17:58:28 · answer #6 · answered by mom 2 a queen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try and tell her you love her,but will not telorate any mess fro her.tell her if she does stop you report to her family or say church member.Or better still you will anull the affair since you are not safe with her anymore.
2007-03-24 17:53:00 · answer #7 · answered by ebiyedinak 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him. I mean , to me at least, you have family loyalty and should keep it. You should go and tell him but get proof because at first he may be in denail. Like maybe pictures or a recording.
2007-03-24 17:53:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your brother!! Your loyalty should be with him - not her!!! If he finds out that you knew and didn't tell him, he will be sooo hurt!!! Ask him to take you out to dinner, and then tell him the truth!!! Good luck!
2007-03-24 17:51:42 · answer #9 · answered by Kailey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should tell your brother; no matter what blood is thicker than water.
2007-03-24 17:49:36 · answer #10 · answered by Invictus 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋