Family & Relationships - 23 March 2007

i fell for a guy who is a total player and i really like him, but now i just want to know what i can do to get past all of it..

2007-03-23 06:04:27 · 15 answers · asked by Jessica M. here! 2 in Singles & Dating

He realizes he is a heavy drinker, once in a big while he gets ugly and is verbally abusive..nothing else in 10 years
I've now left him and now he goes AA meetings and claims to change...I still love him but, I love me more...Now I don't know if that will work.
Guys ...have you been there? Advice.

2007-03-23 06:04:05 · 10 answers · asked by lotsofluv007 4 in Singles & Dating

I have a daughter and he has a son. We both like each other a lot. We talked dirty, we had sex once (It was great), we flirted and we were like crazy. We both no longer have feelings for our partner, that is why we both cheated on them.
We are both naughty, wild and we really have good n crazy times together. Only a week together.

Now we are apart (I'm in another state), he still texting me and say he falls for me and that he can't sleep thinking about me and that he misses me a lot.

I think about him all the time. I miss him too and so want to meet him. and now.. I'm stil here asking questions about him and still trying to figure out if he's really falling for me.

This f*cking crazy! I numb myself, i smoke, drink and am so depressed. I need to stop all this.
Where to escape from here?
What am i gonna do?
This feelings and emotions are killing me and I hate myself.
I'm a sl ut and he's a jerk.
I like him a lot and still figuring out if he feels the same.
It's crazy!

2007-03-23 06:03:38 · 18 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Does anyone know any love spells or websites that give you love spells? Just a bit of fun people! If you don't know any and just want to leave your opinion then don't bother!

2007-03-23 06:02:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Been on 4 dates, he calls everyday, we have only really made out, no sex. He has not once tried to sleep with me which I love bc it shows he respects me. We are both 20. How do I know if I am just a hook up or a potential girlfriend. He also is protective over me, (not too much though)

2007-03-23 06:01:44 · 12 answers · asked by Amy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 06:01:38 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-23 06:01:33 · 25 answers · asked by Kain 5 in Singles & Dating

The real question is I sent this guy chocolates with a note. from secret admirer. I do like him but I don't want him to ever know it's me. From day one I feel I one of the ones he thought it was from. When I would come over to his area to get something he would really look at me and my reaction to him. He had stopped coming to my area, but one day when I really looked at him he then came over and gave me big smiles. But a couple of days went by and then he acted grouchy to me. But after a whole month I still see him trying to get a reaction from me. He passed by me one day and raised his eyebrows when I looked at him. He does tend to do this but still. And most recently he told me about a piece of work and he really had this serious look on his face I just kind of looked down at the paper with not smile. After this the next day when I went to his area he didn't even acknowledge me at all. He's done this twice now. Does he now think it's me and he's mad?

2007-03-23 06:01:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do ladies ENJOY out of sex the most? What do they prefer in bed? What style do they like? WE just want to know to help you! so please just tell us. AND it caint be big.......FEET....wink. We know that. any advice would realy be greatly appreciated. thanks.

2007-03-23 06:01:26 · 19 answers · asked by Patrick D 1 in Singles & Dating

He's a heterosexual as far as I know.........Does that mean he has gay tendencies?

2007-03-23 06:00:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 05:59:13 · 23 answers · asked by *TURTLE* 2 in Weddings

what if you were born premature and you were still a minor and your dad had sex with you and you got pregnent how dangerous would this be for you and the babyby the way this didn't happen to mei had this thought for a long time now because i was born premature and my dad only offored me sex with a condom and he never raped me and i also have child services investigating the situation but why i asked this question is when i was born i almost died because i was very sick i was hospitalized for 3 months and i was wondering why you would abuse your kid let alone one who was premature and almost died you think you would be alot happyier because your premature kid lived how can i live with knowing all the sick things that happend to me over the years my parents still deny it today and they get angry when they find out i told

2007-03-23 05:58:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what turns u on?

2007-03-23 05:58:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have heard from most girls i talk to that its not good when it lasts too long. but it seems like conventional wisdom on that subject is that girls want somebody that can last forever. So, what do you,ladies, prefer?

2007-03-23 05:58:27 · 10 answers · asked by zach m 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a crush on a classmate of mine but it seems like he ignores me.
I catch him looking at me (turning his head and eye). I remember I wrote him his note this one time and he his hands were shaking and he was smiling while reading it. When we see each other outside of class he just looks straight at me , no hi or anything. is he shy?

2007-03-23 05:58:10 · 10 answers · asked by xlilazngrylx 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm 24, he's 30 and we have a 5 yr old daughter together. We have been married for almost 6 years in August and last month he kind of just stopped talking to me. After 3 weeks of no talking he then informed he that he was unhappy in our marriage and that he didn't think it was going to be able to work. I've accepted this and told him that I want him to be happy even if that means without me. He says he doesn't want a divorce but he moved out 2 weeks ago. I metioned yesterday that I was thinking of moving out as well (We've lived with his parents the whole time) and he flipped out telling me that if I do move out he will seek full custody of our daughter that I wasn't moving in with my parents (He hates them!)I know this is a form of abuse and it makes me even more sure our marriage is over.

Any advice for insuring if I leave how I can be sure to get custody plus tips for starting from scratch? I have no credit and haven't been considered working this whole time. Any advice welcomed

2007-03-23 05:58:03 · 24 answers · asked by roo_1683 1 in Marriage & Divorce

See, I have two people in my head, one says: he's moving on, so should you. And the other says: He still loves me, i can feel it, wait for him. Who should I follow? The person in my head, or in my heart??

2007-03-23 05:58:01 · 5 answers · asked by hsuen 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 05:57:59 · 24 answers · asked by pocket aces 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 05:57:00 · 16 answers · asked by canthearu12 1 in Singles & Dating

well do this really works, it said its a tummy flattener,, and its like spandex, but it more firmer..and it squeezes my tummy, im seeing some type of results but does this really work...

2007-03-23 05:56:49 · 6 answers · asked by dat_sweetmami 1 in Singles & Dating

Ever run into a co-worker with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) who keeps cleaning workstations and desks like a maniac making the whole area smell pungent? As if that is not bad enough, I had to share desk and equipment with this guy. When he took my spot he scrubbed the desk like it was littered with dandruff even though I had a beanie on. The earpiece on the company phone he kept rubbing with alcohol wipes until the caller on the other end sounded drunk! He blew air with a vacuum into keyboards and brushed the chair I sat on sprinkling it with room freshners before he sat on it. Well, you get the picture. Is'nt it an insult to me with all co-workers watching? Not that I lack in hygiene or take a mud bath annually. To make it worse he is now going out with my ex. So, I replaced the Lysol in his bottle with equally yellow urine with the same amount of froth. As usual he sprayed the desk and mopped it off with tissue. Should I carry on with OPERATION UREA? What u think will happen?

2007-03-23 05:56:45 · 14 answers · asked by Kaliyug Ka Plato 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 23 and I am completing my graduate studies. I have always found a balance in studying hard and hanging-out. Everyone knows how much I like to go out and how very outgoing I am. However, I broke up with my boyfriend about two weeks ago because he was being unreasonably jealous. It wasn't the first time that he was clearly upset in front of everyone. He is truly an amazing guy (i.e. incredibly considerate and fun) but I have difficulties dealing with his tantrums. The fact that he had custody of his 6 yr old daughter, the fact that he is a 30 yr old who was never able to complete his studies, and the fact that he is working as a waiter never bothered me because I saw in him some amazing qualities (he was much more than what he did, to me).
Should I go ahead and move on or should I try, once again, to work things out with him? I don't want to get involved in an abusive relationship and regreat being with him but I can't stop thinking about him. Any advice?

2007-03-23 05:56:35 · 12 answers · asked by Me 2 in Singles & Dating

What do u think?

2007-03-23 05:56:35 · 10 answers · asked by shoebettysue 3 in Singles & Dating

...Leg, if he had been bitten by a snake??

2007-03-23 05:56:34 · 4 answers · asked by Gabriel G 3 in Singles & Dating

When a guy ask you if you're a virgin.Does he like you in any way,or may be attracted to you?
Plus before he asks you he says the question might make things ackward,and he gets kinda nervous...

2007-03-23 05:55:35 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think about sex all the time, seriously. I am at work and almost every guy I see.. I imagine him doing naughty things to me. What the hell is going on?

2007-03-23 05:55:27 · 30 answers · asked by Nikki 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-23 05:55:10 · 16 answers · asked by stephanie 6 in Marriage & Divorce

How much you agree or disagree with that quote?

2007-03-23 05:54:43 · 1 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

What do you think is the perfect way to ask a girl out? love some advice.

2007-03-23 05:54:41 · 4 answers · asked by Patrick D 1 in Singles & Dating

ive also noticed that its the ugly people who insist that looks mean nothing

2007-03-23 05:54:35 · 2 answers · asked by Missy 2 in Singles & Dating