i fell for a guy who is a total player and i really like him, but now i just want to know what i can do to get past all of it..
2007-03-23 06:04:27 · 15 answers · asked by Jessica M. here! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl! i had the same problem, my guy totallly played me! he would flirt with my friends behind my back, had TWO other gfs at diff schools, UGH! but you know how i got over it? by dating other guys! you need a new crush! its the ONLY thing to get you over him, otherwise you are always thinking of him...get yourself a boy
2007-03-23 06:08:31 · answer #1 · answered by puppyluv 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off don't get a rebound guy...that never works out b/c u will just be going w/ him to get over someone else and that wouldn't be fair to him or you. You just need to give it time and keep busy go out with your friends and have fun..after a while you'll stop thinking so much about him, besides do you think he's moaping around over you??? NO he's probably out having fun..so u can do it too girl! be strong and independent u don't need a man to make u happy.
2007-03-23 13:14:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep busy. Do something for your self. I know that when I'm going threw a break up. I always get my self ready take off to the beach with my friends and mingle with boys. Just don't get that close to guys have fun.
2007-03-23 13:15:58 · answer #3 · answered by SARA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hard part about players is that they often are very good talkers and like to keep lots of women, so they usually don't help you at all. Players often know the right things to say and are usually very convincing. Mostly you have to realize that & repeat to yourself constantly. For me my biggest success & I have recently been in this exact situation, is that everytime I saw him or thought of him I pictured him with all these skany dirty girls and thought of him talking to them the way he talks to me. That seemed to gross me out & help.
2007-03-23 13:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by stepss1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not jump to someone else. Prove to yourself that you can manage happy life. Not let him take advantage of your loneliness by enjoing your loneliness. Well hair cuts, movie, dining out, there really a lot of fun stuff to do on your own. Thing about big picture, your goals, happy family, with man who will value you.
2007-03-23 13:12:54 · answer #5 · answered by Alex B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is the only rememdy for getting over somebody. So just take one day at a time and try to keep busy
2007-03-23 13:09:26 · answer #6 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go boy shopping. lol. there is a better person out there for you. Just ignore him its the best way to get over a guy.
2007-03-23 13:28:48 · answer #7 · answered by Rocker_chika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just know that you are the better person who stuck the relationship out, and remember what comes around goes around KARMA
2007-03-23 13:07:19 · answer #8 · answered by Skye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were looking for a guy when you met him werent you? Just keep your head up and continue on with life. Believe me it gets better. And what ever you do, dont show him your weakness for him.
2007-03-23 13:15:02 · answer #9 · answered by tom c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know previously that he is a player then go and pray for forgiveness.
2007-03-23 13:07:50 · answer #10 · answered by Sara007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋