how dangerous would this be?

Question

what if you were born premature and you were still a minor and your dad had sex with you and you got pregnent how dangerous would this be for you and the babyby the way this didn't happen to mei had this thought for a long time now because i was born premature and my dad only offored me sex with a condom and he never raped me and i also have child services investigating the situation but why i asked this question is when i was born i almost died because i was very sick i was hospitalized for 3 months and i was wondering why you would abuse your kid let alone one who was premature and almost died you think you would be alot happyier because your premature kid lived how can i live with knowing all the sick things that happend to me over the years my parents still deny it today and they get angry when they find out i told

Answer 1

it would be emotionally damaging to have that type of relationship with a parent and the baby would be SEVERLY retarded both mentally and physically i'm sure.

Answer 2

How in the world you being born premature has anything to do with all of this is beyond me. If you do not want the advances of your father simply tell him NO. Go live with a relative if he won't stop. Why get social services involved? From your other questions it seems like you blame everyone for your problems. Start standing up for yourself.

Health issues in babies happen all the time, regardless who fathered the child. It really depends what health issues are in the genes to begin with.

Answer 3

If you had a baby, the baby would most likely have serious health problems. You would think that a dad would never had these type of inclinations weather you were premature or sick or nothing wrong, but it sounds like that is the way it is. Unfortunately your mom isn't willing to talk about it, but you need to. You need to find a good counselor to talk it over with and get yourself straight no matter what about them.

Answer 4

This is a very sad situation. I gather from what you've written here, that your mother must be aware of your father's advances towards you and yet, she has done nothing to protect you.

I'm pleased to hear CPS is involved. Parents owe it to their children to protect them above all others, regardless of prematurity or whatever else.

I'm sorry you've had so much grief and strife happen to you. Is there any trusted relative you can go and stay with?

Your father is a sick man and should never think of you in this way at all. I pray your mother opens her eyes and gets you out of this situation.

Remember to be totally honest with CPS when talking with them....I hope you get out of there very soon.

You're in my prayers.

Answer 5

You are in a dangerous situation yes! Please Leave this life you described behind you! Come into a safe and helpful house your social worker needs to do more then look into the situation they need to get you out. You are not to blame that is the most important thing you need to remember. You are a miracle and gift. Stand up for your self and find a safe place.

Answer 6

first of all your dad is really sick and needs help(no of fence). it would be very dangerous because you are not physically stung to have a baby.if you happen to get pregnant, you put you and the baby in a tough position as she might die before child birth or if she survives might be premature at birth.when it comes to you, you have a great risk of death at child birth.(hope am not scaring you) it's all right because i could be wrong.

Answer 7

I aggree with peggy. I think your dad needs shot. I am a momma to be, and if I EVER thought any one, let alone daddy was planning to, or actively abusing/sexually abusing Lauren, I would slit their F**cking throat.

You need to get out of there, and never forgive those horrible people. You deserve a better life sweetie.

Answer 8

it sounds more like youre looking for an answer to why your parents did this to you. You may never know! some people are just sick (believe me i know how sick some can be) just get away from these sick people and try to put it behind you. try to heal. you dont want to live the rest of your life asking why.

Answer 9

thats not normal hun. the only thing i can say about that is that he is sick in the head and needs to find jesus. thats gross. and you are right for feeling this way and for involving children and families. they can help you and/or your parents. i was sick as a baby myself. i have no pics before 4 months old cause i was in hospital with yellow jondice really bad. i guess that why i was spoiled a bit lol. but parents never did anything like that to me i mean uuugh yuck. sorry but it makes me shudder to think about it. a father offering his own flesh and blood daughter sex. not only is it illegal but also immoral. to answer your other question they get angry cause they dont want anyone to know about it. itll get them in trouble for one and they dont want to be embarrassed. but i will tell you this, you should ask god for strength and endurance to get you through this and forgive your parents for their sins as god forgave you for yours and ask for jesus to come into your heart and be lord of your life. you dont have much too lose as far as i can tell an everything to gain. i hope this helps you sweety and good luck . i will keep you in my prayers.

Answer 10

premature has nothing to do with it as long as NOW you no longer are having health issues
IF HE DID WHAT YOU SAY, then he is SICK and he needs shot

Answer 11

Sick & dangerous! You need to get out of that house! Go to the police!