When a guy ask you if you're a virgin.Does he like you in any way,or may be attracted to you?
Plus before he asks you he says the question might make things ackward,and he gets kinda nervous...
2007-03-23 05:55:35 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He may be testing the waters as he may be as well, and it may help him if the both of u are, so he isn't the only awkward one...
2007-03-23 05:58:32 · answer #1 · answered by momof3 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I guess that depends on how close you two are..otherwise, it's really none of his business.
Wanna know what I find so weird about the "virginity double standard" thing? Most men dream of deflowering a virgin..being her first. There's an eroticsim about being the first...something that as a women, I don't get.
But most men also want a woman who's experienced in sex. That weird Madonna/Whore thing..you know. What's up with that?
ANyway, back to your question....only you can answer whether you think he's attracted to you. If he has "the balls" to ask you point blank about your virginity could be simply because he's curious.
How and when did he ask? You were guys like making out or somehting? If so, that would have been a rather appropriate question to ask. If you're sitting around and eating Buffalo Wings at Chili's and he asks that question then that would be out of bounds.
2007-03-23 06:02:39 · answer #2 · answered by I am Laurie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well guys ask me and I tell them, yeah I am a virgin" I am proud to be one, cause I am young. And they really don't mind..... And really if it causes the guy to not like you or have a change of heart then their not worth your time. But really most guys like girls who are virgins. it lets them know you aren't a skank. It doesn't make things seem ackward cause it's not that serious
2007-03-23 06:02:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you from a guys point of view. Usually guys want to take someones virginity just claim power or whateva. SOme however want to be the first (maks us feel special) Or like me, wants to save that special time for marriage. Depending on the answer, means whether yous a hoe or a clean girl. Or if you aint, that means that you have experience. which some guys want also
2007-03-23 06:01:00 · answer #4 · answered by Blax 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hard to tell... hard hard.... I would think that if a guy ask you that question is because he wants to have sex with you only if you're a virgin... or.... he doesn't like virgin cause he doesn't want to lose time teaching... or... well who knows, every mind is a world.. for me as a guy I don't care if a girl's virgin or not, but everyone is different
2007-03-23 06:02:41 · answer #5 · answered by PX 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so rude! It's like asking someone if they give bj's? Or some other very private matter. If someone asked me that, I'd just look at him and then go right back to whatever I was doing or saying. If he does like you, you don't want him, do you? Are you a virgin? None of your dam business!
2007-03-23 06:00:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First,and if you really can be as open as he was:Ask him back directly,this on your mind!!! Let him be open too,"gentlemen first" for once too.
I love Marie's answer,no craze on her,she is a quick "judo minded" master.Her flex nerves are more outstanding than those of any others w.reasonable thoughts,included mine.
See others out of your own mind set,and your stage perspective,the play revue.
Panties,sex on mind,etc.Another notch for his cock.Baloney overrated.
It may ocurs to you that he maybe wants to know what Virginity means to you,if you are one.Or how is for you that of others,if you chose not to stay on it.Yeah,what did you do about?
Did you ask him that of his,if he is?
This shows,how comunication doesn't work,when thoughts are not continued verbally in equal freedom of ideas,and all answers and questions are not asked,stated (regardless of being done more or less incomplete,imperfectly)but assumed and in the mind tryied for others to respond.
Communicate is not a chess match,nor it functions that goal!! It may have ocurred to him that you behave and REACT as one...That you still "incomplete"somehow in your own sexuality,(and comfortability around males).And that asking you,you may be worst.
That you question about "guys"answers in itself,you maybe know them in the body but you remain Virgin in your mind of theirs.
2007-03-23 09:22:30 · answer #7 · answered by Lucy,I'm honry! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well that's a pretty personal question for somebody that might like you.
You need to calm him down if you're interested in him and let things like that come up in due time.
2007-03-23 05:59:05 · answer #8 · answered by rjrmpk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well is he your boyfriend or a best friend? If not he is just probably looking for a virgin to take it away or some guys don't like virgins and want "experience," and might not like it.
2007-03-23 06:00:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy should NEVER ask a girl this?
A. Its none of his business.
B. Why would he need to know this information.
Nothing good will come of it if you answer. If you say yes, your a prude, if you say no, your a s_lut. SO answer "Thats really none of your business, and walk away." This way you keep your self respect & dignity.
2007-03-23 05:59:40 · answer #10 · answered by halloweenbride97 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don't know why any guy would ask that kind of question unless he just wants to be your first....he might like you but not for the right reasons...you need to be with someone who would date you regardless if you are a virgin or not....that's just my opinion.
2007-03-23 06:01:06 · answer #11 · answered by pocket aces 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋