Family & Relationships - 23 March 2007

l im 21 and i think i may have a problem, I have been engaged to my finance for about 8 months now and weve had a bunch of problems, with an apartment complex, so we moved out to his parents we or should i say I got kicked out of there house because they dont like black people which i didnt find out till later, my parents offered us to come live with them and thats what we r doing now, we r looking for work and going to school online anyways im starting to question it because he acts weird sometimes, like sometimes hes really nice and such a sweet heart and sometimes he doesnt really show me any attention or he does other things instead of being with me, he yells, curses, and sometimes when we play wrestle he gets rough, he talks to this girl online and tells he loves her and cares about he and when asked he just tells me that shes a friend and hes know here for a long time, what can i do to save my relationship? What can I do to make us spend more time together, should i plan stuff?

2007-03-23 19:35:55 · 3 answers · asked by renee_0102 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a crush on this girl since junior year of high school. We rarely talk to each other, probably you could say never. We stare at each other(eye contact) during class but never say anything. She always turn around to talk to this boy but then looks at me.She moved but i saw her working in the mall one day but i dont know how to start a conversation. It been two years now, i just want to be her friend.

2007-03-23 19:35:07 · 3 answers · asked by lampchop 1 in Singles & Dating

I dated my first boyfriend for about a month... he was....um... a jerk. He kept on putting me down on my personal appearances (he wasn't like this until the second week that we dated... I guess that you don't know someone until you date them). Either way, I am still a bit "sad" because it didn't work and he turned out to be that way. So how can I get over this and remind myself that he was rude to me?

2007-03-23 19:34:46 · 10 answers · asked by Sloane 1 in Singles & Dating

i need real advice on my boy situation everyone stop talking about me because i`m 11 if you look at some of the questions i`ve answered you couldn`t tell.now what do i do if someone likes me but he`s bisexual and i`m trying to go out with someone else?i can`t help laughng myself while i`m typing this.if your in napoleon ohio go to west elementery school and find me.i hate my teacher she is such a racial ***** but i`m there.

2007-03-23 19:34:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 18 and last night after going out and having some drinks my close mate fell asleep in my bed again and half way through the night he started holding me again and this time he kept 'rubbing' me down there. he fakes to be sleeping while he does it. and i keep calling his name and pushing him away but he acts like he doesnt know what hes doing. is he faking that he doesnt know what he does or can he really be sleeping while doing it?

2007-03-23 19:33:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

-he always talks to even when he can see she's busy
-he always gives her what she wants
-he always jokes around with her
-when she's sad he always apologises
-he always makes her feel his muscles
-he said she's pretty
-he always tries to touch her arm
-he always asks her about the guy hr thinks she likes

the girl is my friend and the guy is my soul mate, i want him to like me but im having doubts of who he like!
i tried to get over him but i just cant he never talks to me or acts like how he does with my friend but i think he likes me NOT HER.. what do you think?

2007-03-23 19:30:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If guys constantly complimented girls and always gave the flowers then that guy would be clingy or desperate, if a stranger gives a girl some flowers then he's a stalker, have we become a society where we are too paranoid??

2007-03-23 19:30:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy i know is basically a loner. he hates long term relationships. but being that hes human, even he wants some attention every once in a while. basically he will stay single with no friends for a really long time, then hell date a girl for about a month or 2, long enough to get her to do stuff. then he will go back to being a loner again. hes a strange guy, just wondering what you thought about this???

2007-03-23 19:29:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-23 19:29:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She does not make enough to pay taxes, after we are married her income will become taxed. married filing seperate gives no real relief, but if we are only married before god and not to the state we would be able to both file as head of household, this would give us a huge tax benefit of $6500. Together we have two kids in college and one in high school, we cannot afford to be legally married.

2007-03-23 19:28:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just feel that I always end up with some guy that I really like that can't spend the money to have a good time together, which means I end up paying for myself or both of us. But, the guys I really don't have an attraction for, always have the money to spend too much for both of us! Is there a guy in between that is fun and can budget his money for going out? Have you ladies found a guy like this? If so, where?

2007-03-23 19:28:38 · 6 answers · asked by hpage 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok so i really like this guy....lets call him fred...and i have liked him since the beginning of the school year...and i thought he liked me cuz in class we would constantly look at eachother...but then my friend confessed that he liked him to fred..but he didnt like her...2 other girls in the class liked him but idk about them now...then my friend confessed to me that she kinda liked jake even though she has a bf who is like freds best friend...then we asked him if he liked her and his first answer was so what if i do? but then he said no...but he was grinning when he did it...but that was in like november...they pretty muched liked eachother...and my friend is the one that just hangs out with him alot and they flirt...but he still looks at me...and we do make fun of eachother...and have fun..but i still feel hurt...recently i just decided to give upon him and move on...but i still cant stop thinking about him and looking at him...what do i do? and no asking him oout OR find som1 else

2007-03-23 19:28:00 · 1 answers · asked by ☀☁❄☀❄rawr 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 19:27:06 · 21 answers · asked by crazykaty28 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I understand that guys fall asleep, after sex. I've mentioned this to my boyfriend, and he's been better about "trying to stay awake." Tonight, we had sex and then a few minutes later (5-10) we got back into bed. We were massaging each other and then he was touching my genitals. It was starting to feel REALLY good when he stopped - I looked over and he was asleep!! I don't know whether to be mad, hurt and/or offended!? Anyone have this happen to them - either on the giving or recieving end? All answers appreciated - from guys and girls.

2007-03-23 19:26:58 · 5 answers · asked by Michelle 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been and seen wedding but i never help put one together. i am getting marry soon and i do not know what to do. like what all Accessories is there for bride and the Bridesmaid and for the a there stuff. cuz i get lose at that is stuff

2007-03-23 19:25:18 · 15 answers · asked by locoperraalvarez 1 in Weddings

There is a woman I asked for a date and she gave me her e-mail address and asked me to e-mail her. By the way, she is a nurse and too busy for phone calls. Is this a good sign?

2007-03-23 19:24:40 · 7 answers · asked by Phillip 4 in Singles & Dating

Hey, im only 14 soo if it doesnt work out...there are SOOO MANY MORE FISH IN THE DEEP BLUE [but lonely] SEA...right?!

2007-03-23 19:24:19 · 3 answers · asked by Victoria <3! 3 in Singles & Dating

since 3 years i am trying for job . but i didnt get it . all my friends got job.since 1 year all my friends are not talking properly with me. they are talking formally.i dont know why they are doing like that . In my college day i am very close to evry one . i talk.and chat with all my friends .in school days also i was very close to evry one . but now no one is talking properly with me.
Even my best friend is not talking with me properly. is they are not talking because i didnt get job or any thing else. please answer me

2007-03-23 19:23:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

see, thismy permanent prblm that im always jealous or insecure when someone i like(any sex) bcums close to someone else. has happened with my siblings too. but im now in college nd hostel life's not easy.I THINK ma roomie doesn't wanna be ma best frend. she never talks to me the same way she talks to other ppl. nd i dont want her to be best frend to someone else(esp d one who she keeps talking to all the time)
nd im never able to convey my feelings to others properly so please dont advice me to have a conversation .

2007-03-23 19:23:37 · 5 answers · asked by e t 1 in Friends

I have a very difficult time attending bridal showers if a couple is living together. Bridal showers are intended to help a couple establish a home together. If a couple already has that home, I feel that a shower is a poor and greedy way of "upgrading" their stuff. Look...you've lived together for a while now, and you have registered for everything!!!...You mean to tell me you've been living without bed sheets this whole time??? I don't think so!
Sometimes I feel alone in this issue. Does anyone feel the same way?

2007-03-23 19:23:02 · 12 answers · asked by Melissa B 2 in Weddings

I want 2 impress my boyfriend and get in control in the bedroom cuz he likes that sort of thing, any ideas besides me being on top, we already do that. And i feel stupid wen he can do stuff better than me, i want 2 blow his mind... any Help?

2007-03-23 19:22:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why does a man want so much when he has everything?

2007-03-23 19:21:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am in luv wit a guy who is 29 and i am21.v r in luv 4 six yrs. He luvs me SINCERELY and we ve had *** many times.he scolds me severly if i don obey him.he always used 2 think after al 'i am a gal'.wenever noone is tere at his home he used to cal me 4 havin ***.since he is financially weak i ve helped him many times by givin jewels and money and he hasn't returned it. he used 2 cry wen i tel him tat i ll go away from him.wenever we fight we ll stop contactin each other for some days and only he used 2 cal me back this shows he luvs me a lot.he is not tryin 2 cheat me bcos he has been wit me for 6 yrs.i introducd my best friend to him but tey stopped talking bcos of me.so both of tem told tey ll not contact each other.she too avoided him and he also hates her.few days back he himself askd 4 my friend's no. and contacted her.wen i asked him y he wants 2 talk wit her.he told me its jus 4 friendship.my friend called up and asked me y i gave the no.to him.wats happening here.?i am confused

2007-03-23 19:20:27 · 6 answers · asked by anjana 1 in Singles & Dating

I often fantasize about holding my man's penis while he urinates. I don't know how to ask him. What do you think?

2007-03-23 19:20:02 · 6 answers · asked by Katie M 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't know if you remember my last question but here's a recap, I fell in love with this guy 9 yrs ago and I still have feelings for him, I have moved on and I have a great boyfriend, but everytime I see this guy I feel weak in the knees (STILL) I can't move on...
And just yesterday I patched things up between him and his girlfriend and when I got home I felt like depression just found a friend.

2007-03-23 19:18:56 · 11 answers · asked by M&U 4 in Singles & Dating

when i met my man, i was very specific about not wanting a commitment, being i was recently divorced with 4 kids. He stressed he wasn't looking to commit either, he was recently divorced too. we clicked from the start, he would drive 62 miles just to see me. we took it slow by the second month i became his girlfriend, he did everything to reassure me his intentions where good and long term.by the fifth month i was in love like i never been. he moves me out of my apt. and we moved in to a new one. we lived together for a month then he deployed to iraq, the second month he was in iraq he proposed, asked me to do a tubal reversal, i was skeptical but i accepted, He would send me engagement ring pic. online and swore that he would re-propose face to face as soon he came home, Even went as far as set a wedding date, he always reassured me he couldn't. wait to marry me, i waited 7 months, when he came home in feb. he was different, cold non -affectionate,non-chalont,called off the wedding,

2007-03-23 19:18:09 · 13 answers · asked by boriquacj 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ever seen the movie what about bob? except bob was jolly and nice in a crazy way...but did u see how he annoyed the doctor? shes the bob but add a derange psycho deadly liar harasser to the bob and thats my MIL..im going depressed my hubby doesnt wana move hes their only son he feels he has to stay with his parents cus they r alone..i hate him for that but cant leave him for it,,his mom is a serious trouble maker she stirs trouble between us we always argue..how do we over come this how do i make him listen to me? sex? money? being his slave? what what what? tell me

2007-03-23 19:17:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i hate how my step dad controlls me when my siblings can do whatever they want and yet they think i havent been exposed to the world and they try to keep me from it but i have already been there. i need a good thing to say to my parents so they will listen and understand how i feel(trapped)

2007-03-23 19:16:59 · 16 answers · asked by tomi 2 in Family

ok well we had a dance to day. And when i waz dancing with my friends there was a guy that i just got over crushing on. i was sure he didn't notice me at all...he is in a grade before me yet while there was a slowdance song i didn't slow dance but then then he slowdanced with this ugly girl well...my opinion...anyway he kept looking at me but then i thought i don't need sum1 like that so me and my friends walked away from there. then my cuz came to talk to us about sumthing...but the guy came over and talked to us all and then when we were all talking he stood next to me... but then he stood exaclty behind me back to back (not touching) while i danced with my friends i pretended not to notice but then when the smoke stuff came out me and my friends ran over there...apart of me wants to forget about this guy,...but the other part of me wants to crush on him again...idk i barley talk to him...so does he like me???

2007-03-23 19:16:32 · 2 answers · asked by ♥Chanel♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

taking a girl skydiving is a good or bad idea?

2007-03-23 19:16:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating