he did it again?

Question

im 18 and last night after going out and having some drinks my close mate fell asleep in my bed again and half way through the night he started holding me again and this time he kept 'rubbing' me down there. he fakes to be sleeping while he does it. and i keep calling his name and pushing him away but he acts like he doesnt know what hes doing. is he faking that he doesnt know what he does or can he really be sleeping while doing it?

on another occassion before this he even kissed me. why would he do this if he has a girlfriend too?

Answer 1

sounds like you are definately in a jam. If he falls asleep again in your bed..sleep in the floor, on the couch, anywhere other than with him bc it makes you so uncomfortable when he does this stuff. You might even want to start spending less time with this person due to the fact you are starting to have trust issues. You don't know if he is lying plus he has vilated you asleep or not. Have respect for yourself and don't go through this anymore.

Answer 2

I'm not really sure but if I had to guess I would say that he is faking it and he problay thinks that if he did that and acted like he was sleeping and then you pushed him away then he would know that you didn't want to do anything with him but then on the other hand if you let him go on with it and you two started messing around then it would be okay sounds to me like that's what he is trying to do. Don't let him go to your house anymore if you don't feel comfertable. Good Luck

Answer 3

actually they can. my hubby does it to me sometimes. i mean hes totally asleep and still does it cause i woke up from it and had to shake him awake and tell him to leave me alone or finish what he started lol. just dont let him sleep in same bed with you if you know he does this and you dont want him touching you like that. hope this helps.

Answer 4

why keep going back ...maybe he's trying to get further and you stop...QUIT TEASING

Answer 5

he was probally drunk