I don't know if you remember my last question but here's a recap, I fell in love with this guy 9 yrs ago and I still have feelings for him, I have moved on and I have a great boyfriend, but everytime I see this guy I feel weak in the knees (STILL) I can't move on...
And just yesterday I patched things up between him and his girlfriend and when I got home I felt like depression just found a friend.
2007-03-23 19:18:56 · 11 answers · asked by M&U 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have to ask, how would you feel knowing your current boyfriend might have feelings for another woman that way? At some point you have to realize that after 9 years, if you were meant to be together then you WOULD be together. You need to take into account ALL feelings that are on the line, not just ONE feeling that you get sometimes. Stand by your man, after all you choose to be with him in the first place right?
2007-03-23 19:32:06 · answer #1 · answered by knowledge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are torturing yourself needlessly! Well been there, done that unfortunately. Broke up with my first guy 10 years back, and although we've been friends on and off, its tough sometimes. You will have memories, and even if you have a good relationship with you present guy, its human that you think back. That's where you should stop however! I don't see that you've got over that relationship, and its sad when you admit, that your new guy is a great boyfriend. "Weak in the knees," is too much. You need to ask yourself some tough questions - Where do I want this to go? Is there any chance that we can get back together? Why did we break-up earlier? Is he into you at all? Why are you willing to live in a dream that will/can never be? Is your present guy unable to make you feel weak in the knees ever? ....
After you do this introspection, you should be a little more focussed, and come up with a game-plan! All the best!
2007-03-23 19:22:15 · answer #2 · answered by fabby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny, usually people have the tendency to remember the bad.If it didn't work before what makes you think it will work now. The grass is always greener until you get to the other side.
If your so distracted your either not giving your new guy a chance and your full attention or he is just not the right one for you.
The guy you have feelings for may have possessed a quality that your new guy doesn't that you need in your life. Become that quality yourself!
2007-03-23 19:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of how ugly he will be in 20 years. I'm sure his kids will have mental health issues and have small hands or something.
2007-03-23 19:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by sole96762 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It very hard to move on. but some times we have to move on with are life's do not waste your time on a guy does not wanna be with you. because that stupid to be wasting your time thinking about being with him. when he does not wanna be with you.
2007-03-23 19:31:47 · answer #5 · answered by Carebear22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just follow ur heart only u can desied that
good luck=0
2007-03-23 19:22:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umhh. lets see? go out and get laid and have fun, live a little????????? How does that sound?
2007-03-23 19:22:55 · answer #7 · answered by Markoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else :P
im sure you will get over him in time, if time permits...
2007-03-23 19:26:15 · answer #8 · answered by Wilson J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is too short...live it to the fullest...
2007-03-23 19:29:55 · answer #9 · answered by anjana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u cant help it..................but atleast u can try to avoid him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ialso have a friend from the past 12 years and he loves me alot...................but still v r best friends........
2007-03-23 19:24:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋