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Question

i am in luv wit a guy who is 29 and i am21.v r in luv 4 six yrs. He luvs me SINCERELY and we ve had *** many times.he scolds me severly if i don obey him.he always used 2 think after al 'i am a gal'.wenever noone is tere at his home he used to cal me 4 havin ***.since he is financially weak i ve helped him many times by givin jewels and money and he hasn't returned it. he used 2 cry wen i tel him tat i ll go away from him.wenever we fight we ll stop contactin each other for some days and only he used 2 cal me back this shows he luvs me a lot.he is not tryin 2 cheat me bcos he has been wit me for 6 yrs.i introducd my best friend to him but tey stopped talking bcos of me.so both of tem told tey ll not contact each other.she too avoided him and he also hates her.few days back he himself askd 4 my friend's no. and contacted her.wen i asked him y he wants 2 talk wit her.he told me its jus 4 friendship.my friend called up and asked me y i gave the no.to him.wats happening here.?i am confused

Answer 1

You are being used by a man and a bad one at that .You are so young what the **** are you doing with him.So much fun out here and you are wasting away and you don't even no it.This man don't love you and you will find out the hard way.Lets just hope your not weak and try to kill yourself when he tells you good by .

Answer 2

So you were 15 and he was 23 well now that is a horse of a different color you need to find some one a little closer to your age 8 years is not a lot but! in a while he will be 30 and then he will change and not for the better if he scolds you now weigh a year or two!! He might even hit you !

Answer 3

He's not worth it. Stop letting him use you and start hanging out with your girls more because guys like him, don't deserve your love and respect esscpeacially if he scolds you. If you want to stay with him don't let him force you into anything. Remember the relationships about the two of you so you should have a say in it and let him know that. If he bosses you round he's only using you for his pleasure.

Answer 4

You are not only confUSED you are being USED. It is time you woke up and smelled the coffee. He is using you as a cash cow and giving you sex once in a while to pacify you. He probably has two or three other women just like you who are keeping him financially afloat. It sounds like your girlfriend sees through him and wants no part of being part of his working harem.

You shouldn't worry about losing him, there are plenty of guys who would be willing to take his place, not because they love you but because they want the cash. These guys are called gigolos.

Answer 5

well
you should be confused
first of all
you should not even love a guy who scolds you
or gets mad at you
hes using you to get the money out of you for his own needs
he then might go to that friend of yours and hook up with her for money
it doenst matter how long you have been together
men are men
mankind and human nature is in everybody
obviously
one uses another for their own needs
face it
he might as well be cheating on you to get money out of all of your girl friends
think about it
be the woman that you are
and dont do the weird indian writing thing
its hard to understand
im used to it tho
haha

Answer 6

dear ......... first of all this guy is taking advantage of ur emotions........okk ...............it seems u r a very emotinal gal.................he is using u to fulfil his needs whether of physical and money matters.............u r more younger than him he is supoosed to act sincerly........he is already 29 ......if he calls u back that is for reason of fulfilliong his needs...........if he has the priviledge of calling you whenever he feels then there is no sense of asking for the no. of ur friend ...........he wants to do all the same he does 2 u.........

so dear u are already 21 u should undrstand wats guys want.............dont flow in emotions rather act with brain ...................think of career now .........u have had already enjoyed having*** u r educated so donts let others use u like other womens....................... u can make ur life or spoil it it is up to u.......................................