see, thismy permanent prblm that im always jealous or insecure when someone i like(any sex) bcums close to someone else. has happened with my siblings too. but im now in college nd hostel life's not easy.I THINK ma roomie doesn't wanna be ma best frend. she never talks to me the same way she talks to other ppl. nd i dont want her to be best frend to someone else(esp d one who she keeps talking to all the time)
nd im never able to convey my feelings to others properly so please dont advice me to have a conversation .
2007-03-23 19:23:37 · 5 answers · asked by e t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need some self esteem. And the only way you can get some is to quit being hard on yourself. And having more than one friend at a time might help. See if you are only getting one persons opinon or advice on yourself.. then you are apt to think they are just saying that to make me feel good... but when you have say3-4 people saying the same things to you or about you then you have no choice but to know they are right. This will help you kill both of your problems at once. It probably harder to do than to say but I have faith in you. anyone can do anything they set their minds/hearts too
2007-03-23 19:33:57 · answer #1 · answered by Alley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a dog. And keep it in a box where only you can be with it. Don't ever let it out to see anyone other than you.
2007-03-24 02:54:35 · answer #2 · answered by LELAND 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First work on your self esteen and like and respect yourself, then the rest will fall into place.
2007-03-24 02:27:51 · answer #3 · answered by Sergeant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you dont want any advice. cuz u are again trying here to control our responses to ur question. u need to relax a bit and stop trying to be so controlling..
2007-03-24 02:48:23 · answer #4 · answered by braille 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want your room mate to be your friend, you have to be a friend first. Mostly just be yourself.
2007-03-24 02:29:14 · answer #5 · answered by jthessen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋