This guy i know is basically a loner. he hates long term relationships. but being that hes human, even he wants some attention every once in a while. basically he will stay single with no friends for a really long time, then hell date a girl for about a month or 2, long enough to get her to do stuff. then he will go back to being a loner again. hes a strange guy, just wondering what you thought about this???
2007-03-23 19:29:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sounds to me like he is totally afraid of commitment and that he isn't looking for a relationship so he wants to have fun with these girls so that he doesn't feel too lonely. That would be fine as long as he is upfront and telling these girls what the deal is instead of leading them and letting them think that something more couldcome of the relationship.
2007-03-23 19:33:47 · answer #1 · answered by Erin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he sounds like a loner but also, he tries relationships, too. I think that adage about how 'there's a lid for every pot' is true - finding the right person is a matter of luck but when you find the person at the right time in your life, something clicks. It will probably happen that way for him, too.
2007-03-24 02:35:27 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, shallow people are relationship jumpers. They go from one to another like popcorn. Zip, zap, zowie! They usually have archaic ideas about the opposite sex. If it's a guy, women are to be meek, obedient, basically a trophy wife. Big boobs and a little brain, and sex maniacs. If it's a woman, guys are to be tough, manly, workaholics, that allow the wife to cheat without repercussions. This guy you are describing seems a bit twisted. Not shallow, or superficial, just not worth the trouble.
2007-03-24 02:48:22 · answer #3 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is afraid of getting into relationships and not into commitments. Relationships, wheter good or bad, all have problems and I think he's sick of that. Friends, family, gfs/bfs all bring a lot of drama into your life and cause a lot of stress. he wants to avoid all that, so he's isolated himself from everyone and be loner.
2007-03-24 02:37:06 · answer #4 · answered by =P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this person isn't really what you're looking for and he especially doesn't know what he's looking for. If you want to put up with it, that's up to you. I would suggest though you find someone stable who is actually looking for a relationship possibly and not just someone looking to get girls just to 'do stuff' when he gets the urge. Good luck!
2007-03-24 02:42:35 · answer #5 · answered by tnstdel 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a loner, or a take advantage guy? he will date a girl long enough for the girl to do stuff? what kind of stuff? sex? oh,geez!
2007-03-24 02:45:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound shallow, doesn't sound like he takes advantage of people either. Why? Well, it's not like women need to be told lies to jump into bed or whatever or that they don't like loveless ******* and relationships that are completely casual. One or two months is always loveless and casual.
2007-03-24 02:59:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not shallow, just a loner!
2007-03-24 02:45:49 · answer #8 · answered by thepeacelover01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He ain't strange :) In fact I think he embodies all 4 letters of male. He is insecure, afraid of commitment and only want one thing in a relationship.
2007-03-24 02:33:29 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel2312 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he really values his solitude, aslong as he ventures out for loven every now and again I think he'll be ok!
2007-03-24 02:36:03 · answer #10 · answered by ☆♥•´`•.¸ ;-) •´`•.¸ ♥☆ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋