Family & Relationships - 22 March 2007

I havent had a boyfriend in so long i don't know how to treat 1 help?
i just got a new boyfriend but i don't know how to treat him cause i havent had one in so long. plus he' s white and im black and ive never whent out with a white guy!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-22 10:05:27 · 10 answers · asked by miss too cute 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband is funny, active, hard-working at work and at home. He tells me he loves me everyday, but at the same time feels that marriage is a institution of obligation?? He isn't really affected by my feelings and has told me that I'm lucky to be with him, that he doesn't want to be like me (doesn't admire me). But now, I'm so resentful that now I'm angry! I don't agree with his values, his way of dealing with love and people, his character or his conversation. Though when we were dating I thought he was awesome. Now he doesn't get me and doesn't take an interest in me at all. He's an emotional island where the only things that matters are his own feelings. I could be totally unhappy being with him and he would find a way to be happy no matter what. He actually said that. I don't get it. Is this just a MAN being a man or someone who refuses to let anyone in? Does he know what love is or maybe he just doesn't love me....I'm just unhappy and tired of feeling like this.

2007-03-22 10:05:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-22 10:05:01 · 8 answers · asked by George 1 in Singles & Dating

Larry The Cable Guy and Louie Anderson would then be sex symbols! Seriously - why just bold-face lie in those dating ads? Don't ladies really want a match? Or are they just lacking the confidence to address their shortcomings in fear they'll drive off Mr. Right?

2007-03-22 10:04:23 · 4 answers · asked by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 in Singles & Dating

My sister in 2nd grade and she has 2 invitations. Tommi &Briana's Party says "NOON"

But Emilie's party is "2:OO pm-4:00 pm"

She likes them both! Tommi and Brianas Party is at their house, and Emilie's party is at the Paint Your own Clay place. Those are like 10 minutes apart.

2007-03-22 10:04:18 · 5 answers · asked by Jelly 3 in Friends

i want to join a chat room to make new friends. no hooking up or dating sites please. dose anyone know of any?

2007-03-22 10:03:46 · 6 answers · asked by sarapooh 2 in Friends

p.s. I do not live by any beaches...etc. And I'm not a millionaire (I'm a broke college student). Nothing too corny please!

2007-03-22 10:03:42 · 15 answers · asked by kicker0927 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 10:03:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Theres this girl who i have gone out with on and off for like the last year and a half and recently we got back togehtor but had to keep it a secret and we said to each other we really love each other then the enxt thing i no shes saying shes not ready for a serious relationship and i don't o what to do now

2007-03-22 10:03:23 · 9 answers · asked by jacob g 1 in Singles & Dating

i might be a bit paranoid. yesterday a friend of my boyfriend came to our place. He came to hug me when he came in. But the hug is no tight and he pressed me against his breast so hard that it almost hurt me!! I feel very uncomfortable and i feel he tried to feel my breast. I don't know whether this kind of social hug is normal or not. And i don't know whether i should talk to my boyfriend about this...it seems a bit silly, but it really bothers me

2007-03-22 10:03:21 · 4 answers · asked by clarion 1 in Singles & Dating

OK SO I HAVE TO ASK ....I MET THIS SCORPIO GUY ON-LINE AND WE HAD THIS UNREAL CONNECTION! He thought he was falling in love with me after 2 weeks and then cooled things off drastically shortly after that-he came to visit me for a weekend a couple of weeks ago-we have spent hours and hours talking with eachother-e-mail contact and ichatting almost nightly for 2 months-when he came to see me we got along famously like we have known eachother our whole lives-t Then when I asked him what he was thinking about "us" or the possibliliy of "us" he said that I am not the one. That he loves me deeply but that he had no butterflies cause he felt soooo comfortable with me. He thinks I'm hot-the smartest woman he's ever met and loves kissing me and being with me and is attracted to me....blah blah but I'm not the one-what he feels for me is a deep kinship. Ok so since he has left he has e-mailed me about 5 times a day and ichatted with me for about 2 hours a day ect. What gives?

2007-03-22 10:02:56 · 5 answers · asked by PISCES G 1 in Singles & Dating

There is so much literature out there, so many statisticsm so many studies, but I want to know from real-life married men and women - can a couple really stay happily faithful to each other? Temptation will always be there, but is it possible to stay loyal without feeling resentful?

Are there any married couples out there who are still hot for each other?

2007-03-22 10:02:24 · 18 answers · asked by SB76 2 in Marriage & Divorce

u were seeing a guy who was straight out trifling!! I mean his apt is nasty w/pizza boxes, clothes, dirty cups, glasses & shyt just everywhere!! I mean he has condom wrappers everwhere...glasses in his window seal... I mean when I 1st met him that wasn't the case. Now everytime I go over I have to move shyt just to get thru the dayum door. I really like him & I can't just flat out say..."U NEED TO CLEAN THIS SHYT" so what should I do?

2007-03-22 10:02:20 · 15 answers · asked by Lovely Cappy Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

my best friend's boyfriend is a wreck. he is on cocaine and he drinks alot; he looks wild-eyed, he is impulsive and moody, i am a little scared of him, he doesn't wash as often as he should, he collapses and then gets up like nothing has happened. but she wont leave him- she says he is too beautiful to give up (admittedly i used to fancy him- he is stunning!) but not anymore, cos he looks awful.
she says what he is doing is 'romantically self-destructive' and 'exciting'- she almost takes pleasure in his drug problem. i am worried for him, but more for her, because he might start hitting her or something. what would you do??

2007-03-22 10:02:05 · 4 answers · asked by alice 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

The reason I say this is that my wife and I still like to go out disco dancing on occasion. We can still find it in the big city. Whenever I mention this to other men, they think that I am gay. I tell them that disco for me was all about the fun and that I love rock at home and in my car. Yet they still view me as possibly gay and I am just the opposite of gay. Why do some hetero men think of dancing as being gay? That is so f'ng backwardazz imo.

2007-03-22 10:01:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

HELP HELP HELP HELP

2007-03-22 10:00:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi! I am looking for a big picture of a wedding. It would have to have three bridesmaids, three flower girls, three groomsmen, an officiant and the bride and groom. Where could I find this? Or could I get someone to draw it for me?
The reason I am looking for this is because I want to colour the picture in about seven or eight different ways because I want to visualize the colour scheme. For example I would colour the bridesmaids dresses lilac and mint in one picture and pink and grey in another. I hope I've explained what I'm looking for. Thanks everyone.

2007-03-22 10:00:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Guys, you all expect us girls to wax, but complain about waxing ur chest.
Is that not hypocritical?

2007-03-22 10:00:32 · 10 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Singles & Dating

My 37 year old friend, who has been unemployed due to laziness..I've practically lead her to jobs that she's very qualified for (college degree and breathing. She has a degree..at times the breathing is questionable) has been seeing a 57 year old blind man who thinks she should apply for disablity and eventually marry him. I've never met the guy; her parents don't want her bringing any boyfriends around for at least 6 months into the relationship, so her 63 year old mom hasn't met him either. She's never married/no kids. He's been married several times and has grandchildren. What can these two have in common? Does this sound strange to anyone else?

2007-03-22 10:00:02 · 8 answers · asked by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 in Singles & Dating

He is a freshman I am a junior, he is emo, I am a hippy. A little differences in music and style, but he is really nice and funny. If i ask him out will he say yes? Im not really sure if he likes me, he used to stare at me but now he stopped after i told him i was a junior. He doesn't really talk much with anyone though. Do I have a chance with him?? What do i do to get him to like me??? And any tips on flirting??

2007-03-22 09:59:55 · 1 answers · asked by Colon 2 in Singles & Dating

I do not want to go over anyones house these days. Everyone(almost my whole class) wants me to visit them within the next month or so. I don't want to visit anyone or anyone to visit me outside of school.

I just want to be a computer geek, swimmer guy, golf guy, sleeping guy, and eating guy!

2007-03-22 09:59:30 · 5 answers · asked by Agent Joe 2 in Friends

I ate all the cheese.

2007-03-22 09:58:49 · 10 answers · asked by JFreezie 1 in Family

Hi everyone,

my mum will be 60 next month and the family were thinking of hiring a room in a local golf club, having a buffet and inviting 20 or more people - on a saturday night 8-10pm ish.

Does anyone have an ideas for entertainment - I'm not talking about hiring a band or anything, but i has thought of ideas such as a table quizz with questions about mum, maybe some photos of her fromchildhood etc around the walls.

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!!

Many thanks,

Sophia

2007-03-22 09:58:48 · 17 answers · asked by Sophia 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i feel like crap over my bf situation and my familiy problems i have past problems of suicide and i cant stop crying i feel like committind suicide to just stop everything but i love my bf so much but were having problems i cant deal with anything anymore soemone...please leave msg's on this or just IM me on yahoo messanger...i need someone to talk to because i cant deal with stress anymore im falling apart

2007-03-22 09:58:42 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I went behind his back & got his new cell phone #, that's suppose to be a business line that he wouldn't give to me. So I got curious & found it out on my own. I knew he was talking to other women on the phone so I went through his bill & called some of the frequently used numbers just to see if they were belonged to women, but I didn't say anything to the women.

He asked me about knowing his number to his business phone, & I told him that I knew it, but I refused to tell him how I got it. I never lied to him but now his calling me a liar & all these other things. I guess he 4 got when we first met, he got my email address & I didn't give it to him. He got it off an email that a mutual friend of ours sent him. Its' no big deal, cell phone numbers; email address aren't there more important things to be worried about finding out about a person, but he's made into this big thing & is ready to leave me now 4 it. What would you do if you were him or me?

2007-03-22 09:58:10 · 6 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

well my friend did something really embarrasing and i wont say because im not spreading rumors. someone who apparently saw him do this told people and they told more people and now its all around. Im not sure if its true, but hes so sad and he looks so miserable. i want to make him feel better but i dont know what to do. help please because i really like him

2007-03-22 09:57:54 · 2 answers · asked by ~* ☼ ♥ Summer Babii ♥ ☼ *~ 4 in Friends

I'm pretty much done growing and only 5'6". It kind of sucks because I know that women like taller guys. It really hurts me because there's absolutely NOTHING that I can do about it.

I try to make up for it by working out and staying strong and in shape. I work hard in my college studies to get a good job in engineering. I dress nice and practice good hygiene. Yet still, I feel inadequate because of my height. And it makes me lose confidence around women.

I've had some nice girlfriends but nothing major. One of them used to make some comments about my height, but I would never give a reaction. It really bothers me. Any advice?

2007-03-22 09:57:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 09:57:14 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been in a relationship for two years with my ex-or current (depends who you ask) girlfriend. I have a son with her but we are not married. basically my ex or whatever has a substance abuse problem combine with psychological problem. I've (lack of better word) been her dad for the past 2 years and has supervised her and teaching her the rope but she never gets it. I am mean you name the problems and we have TRO against one another (we never got physical against each other but always made treats back and forth. so she is in rehad now for to treat the substance abuse and philological issue. and I have a TRO against her but she really wants to give this relationship a try. what to do? I feel as though she will never change and i am feel affected by her heavy drug use to a point i snap a people when they even mention drugs of any knod for whatever the reason. it would take me 10 pages plus to explain the detail so this will have to do.

2007-03-22 09:57:11 · 17 answers · asked by moulin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my brother both have a chance to get to be in a sitcom. there is this class you can take at my modeling agency that costs 400 dolars. my mom said we both could go but only if we want to. my brother was like "i gues ok i dont care". and i was like crying i was so happy! i am only 13 and my dream in life is to be in a sitcom. every time i even watch tv i cry because i am sooo jel;ous! my brother is waaaaay cuter than me. im just average looking. if he makes it and i dont i will be crushed!!! HOW CAN I TALK HIM OUT OF BEING IN A SITCOM??????????? PLEASE! I REAAALLLY NEEED HIM TO NOT WANT TO!

2007-03-22 09:56:25 · 3 answers · asked by Melonater 1 in Other - Family & Relationships