suicide...?

Question

i feel like crap over my bf situation and my familiy problems i have past problems of suicide and i cant stop crying i feel like committind suicide to just stop everything but i love my bf so much but were having problems i cant deal with anything anymore soemone...please leave msg's on this or just IM me on yahoo messanger...i need someone to talk to because i cant deal with stress anymore im falling apart

my bf doesnt love me, he doesnt care about me..we broke up again yesterday he wants me to leave him alone for 30 days..completely ignore him..he wants me to block him on aim, and not to calll or txt him. if i committed suicide he wouldnt feel pain..and if he did..atleast i'd know he cared when i died..cuz he doesnt care now

Answer 1

Suicide is a permanent answer to a temporary problem. Please call the suicide hotline in your area. Talk to someone.

Answer 2

Hi. You know what? No one can take your pain away. The only person who can stop you from committing suicide is you. I know it hurts so much that you just want to stop feeling the pain. I've been where you are and actually did it and to this day I am thankful that I didn't die - which is why I am telling you this .Take each day by the SECOND. I hope you never snap - there is always that risk in every suicidal person. Just live by the seconds and you'll make it through the day. And hopefully tomorrow.

If you do decide to do it, choose a method that is reversible. Do it where someone can find and help you. You know why? You don't want to die. Just feel like because of the pain and hopelessness. You need support. But please, there are people who loves you. It will be very traumatic for them to see you do this. They are more than willing to be there for you rather than watch you hurt so talk to someone. People who really have given up don't ask for support anymore. They just do it.

You need support so I am volunteering. I would like to help you go through this. I know you feel so much love for your bf and the thought of him not being in your life just shatters you. Lets talk. Contact me anytime okay?

Answer 3

First of all the thing you should immediately do is call information for the Suicide Hotline in your town. Call information, or I think it is in the front of your telephone book. You can talk to someone who will try to help you and refer you to a psychologist. Now think about it...everyone has problems, and tommorow could be the best day of your life. So get those thoughts out of your head right now. What I would suggest, is for you to go for help with a psychologist. You need professional help and the doctor may prescribe some anti-depressants to help you get over this hurdle. But the first thing is the hotline I mentioned. Also maybe a family member can help you. You really should not be alone at this time. You are in a state of deep depression and must get help immediately. The problems you are having are all repairable, but you have only one life, and to end your life would be a sin against God and a tragedy for all that love you. I wish you well and I will pray that you will be alright.
God Bless You

Answer 4

Suicidal thoughts stem from depression. Mental illness runs rampant in our present society. It's not socially acceptable but I heard that approx. 80% of people suffer from some form of mental illness. You need to talk to your physician first and foremost. It's good that the love you have for bf. Please, get tapped into some sort of support network. I don't know where you live but here in Canada we have Mental Health and a crisis line to call into. My girlfriend is going through MAJOR crap right now. She's in remission at the moment but everyone around her is dying from other forms of cancer or accidents and she's facing another deadly form of genetic cancer and awaiting results. This has been going on for over 2 years. She's only 40 with 2 teenage kids. I made her promise to see a doctor because she felt she couldn't take it anymore. If you need to talk more, and no one else is able to be there for you, contact me through this format. Suicide has some serious reprocussions. It might let you out of your pain, but there are so many others it affects as well. Try to bare that in mind, please. I've also known suicide victims. The fallout isn't pretty.

Answer 5

If you have attempted suicide in the past then you Know it doesn't do anything but make things worse. I have been where you are and I would not of gotten better if I didn't go to a doctor and take medication and I also believe that a year after that I was saved. Which means I asked Jesus for forgiveness for my sins and I felt like the whole world was lifted off my shoulders. For now you need to go to the emergency room at the hospital, or if younger tell your parents you need help and ask if they would take you to the doctor. A mild sedative may help you for now to stop crying, but then you need a doctor and medication for depression. I truely understand what you are saying about how you feel. Please get to a hospital and if they want to check you in for now, its okay they will help you with the pain your in.

Answer 6

Perhaps it is time to get some counseling and try to move on?

I remember times when I thought my heart was so broken that suicide could be an answer, but that thought never lasts for long and many years later I don't even think about that boy anymore.

You're caught up in the here and now, things will change and get happier. Life has it's ups and downs. Please talk with your family and friends.

No bf is worth suicide!!!

I saw someone suggested the Suicide hotline...
1-800-SUICIDE

Answer 7

I fairly recognize the sensation.. I've been so nearly suicide with atenolol tablets however I used to be simply scared they would not kill me and I'd be left throwing up with broken inner organs for the leisure of my lifestyles. And yeah I chickened out at final minute. Check my query, I self damage alot.. I'd be a critic if I advised you the whole lot will determine simply nice ultimately purpose I consider like to be able to not ever occur for myself. But the first-class I can say for you, is cross see a physician or discover extra peers on-line, and set your self a target to paintings closer to. It will also be some thing, colossal or small. Hope I helped, well success..

Answer 8

Hello, Listen sweetheart, I know how you feel, you are so brokenhearted and feel so rejected by someone who was suppose to care for you that you don't care about yourself anymore...but listen God said that" He lays before you life & death..blessing & curse, so therefore choose life"...so that's what you got to do ..you have to choose life. You know why, because even though everything is falling apart around you right now you've got to believe that things will get better & trust me things will get better..this craziness will only last for a little while..you will get over him, you will feel better, and yes you will find that special someone who will love you like you so deserve to be loved. I really think that you need to go to church & get close to God. Because God can fill that hole in your heart better than some guy can. I don't know you, but I know how you feel, because I've been there and I made it out and I'm a stronger person because of it...Life really is worth living! ..ok? write me if you feel like talking ok? I'm wishing the very best for you...What doesn't break you makes you stronger...goodluck....bye bye

Answer 9

O.K girlfriend, I tried to IM you. Can't for some reason. Suicide is a bad way to go... Please don't do it! Here is a true story- My neighbors husband commited suicide 6 months ago. Locked himself in the bathroom with a gun. We heard the shot go off. He died on the gurney on the way out of the house. She has a baby and just had to sell her house. It is the most selfish thing you can do on this planet (besides taking someone else's life) YOU CAN'T get your life back if you change your mind. There is nothing on this earth so bad to kill yourself! You read what a few of the answers people don't even know you have left. Strangers love you and will help you in anyway they can! You get a hold of me at amie underscore maree @ hotmail.com. I want to help you !_

Answer 10

A male hung himself from the playground 2 doors down from my house. I walked there, and saw him. Its the worst thing Ive ever seen. I wish that he had got help. I dont know who it was, and Im praying that I do not know them.

Im on anti depressants now. I have been disgnosed with depression and an anxiety disorder. I see a councellor type person once a week. She helps a lot. Ive only been on medecine for a few weeks, so it hasn't helped a lot yet.

I know how you feel. Ive felt suicidal before. Im lucky, becuase my parents are very supportive. They got me the help. If your parents arnt there to help you, dont worry. Call a suicide help line (look in the phone book or yellow pages). If you dont feel comfortable talking to them, talk to a close friend. Help lines are good becuase they are free, dont require you to tell them your name or number or anything! Dont commit suicide, life WILL improve. BE STRONG. Btw, Im 14.

Answer 11

I wish you the best and beg that you not listen to people that a re stupid leaving answers that just make no sense. Your better than suicide. You deserve a long healthy life and if you have problems you need to find someone to lean on. If you want to talk you can email me and I will be happy to help you in any way!! ok. Take care.