u were seeing a guy who was straight out trifling!! I mean his apt is nasty w/pizza boxes, clothes, dirty cups, glasses & shyt just everywhere!! I mean he has condom wrappers everwhere...glasses in his window seal... I mean when I 1st met him that wasn't the case. Now everytime I go over I have to move shyt just to get thru the dayum door. I really like him & I can't just flat out say..."U NEED TO CLEAN THIS SHYT" so what should I do?
2007-03-22 10:02:20 · 15 answers · asked by Lovely Cappy Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Call one of those Junk Removal 1-800 numbers and have them call him to confirm the appointment and maybe he'll get the hint. If that doesn't work, clean his place for him one time real good and let him know if he trashes it again, that you aren't willing to date such a nasty, filthy pig! Why should you tolerate it? There are too many men out there with better cleaning habits. Besides that, it's very unsanitary, what are you waiting for-him to give you vaginitis next? He probably doesn't even wipe his *** right or wash his hands after he gets them dirty-GROSS!!!
2007-03-22 11:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should flat out say "U NEED TO CLEAN THIS SHYT UP" what's the problem? I mean the condom wrappers are they from when the 2 of you are together, if so why didn't you make sure he put them in the trash.
I mean someone that's not so clean I guess isn't that big of an issue because it can always be talked or worked out. If he doesn't like cleaning maybe he should pay someone to do ti.
2007-03-22 10:06:34 · answer #2 · answered by geminig 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to flat out say "you need to clean your apartment". Someone that choses to live like that is a slob and either tell him to clean it, pick up your own condom wrappers, clean the place or move on. I personally wouldnt stick around with someone who couldnt even keep their own place clean. When I met my husband the first time I was going to his house he KNEW it better be clean as our relationship progressed his "cleaning" skills were not what I considered "good enough" so I cleaned his place for him. But he was smart enough to wash dishs and throw out pizza boxes. Just gross is all I can say I wouldnt even move things to sit down if I were you because I'd have left
2007-03-22 10:08:57 · answer #3 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he needs to clean his apartment up. I mean if leaving condom wrappers on the ground is nasty. Even help him clean, if you get that tried of it. That's just gross.
2007-03-22 10:10:20 · answer #4 · answered by danicolegirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's trying to turn you off and get you to break up with him because you say he wasn't like that in the beginning. If not tell him it's nasty and offer to help him clean up. But be careful. Let him know that you won't do it again...you're not his maid.
2007-03-22 10:08:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can flat out say "U NEED TO CLEAN THIS SHYT" You can also add that you won't be coming back until it is. Tell him he can take you out instead of spending time in his garbage dump.
2007-03-22 10:08:06 · answer #6 · answered by Elt 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him is a matter of health to keep house clean. Or just stop visiting.
2007-03-22 10:08:18 · answer #7 · answered by Marquel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah u can jus say out right clean this shyt up lol.Or,dont go round there till he cleans it up,simple mate.x
2007-03-22 10:54:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
U should make things a joke that his house is kinda messy and could use some cleaning....etc
2007-03-22 10:08:17 · answer #9 · answered by Baby girl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well thats a tuff 1.........................you can invite him to your place insead of his or you can go for a date and just tell him "umm (name) i cant see you anymore (but u wont really mean it) unless u clean up a little" so thats all i hope this helps u
2007-03-22 10:26:11 · answer #10 · answered by luba l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋