I went behind his back & got his new cell phone #, that's suppose to be a business line that he wouldn't give to me. So I got curious & found it out on my own. I knew he was talking to other women on the phone so I went through his bill & called some of the frequently used numbers just to see if they were belonged to women, but I didn't say anything to the women.
He asked me about knowing his number to his business phone, & I told him that I knew it, but I refused to tell him how I got it. I never lied to him but now his calling me a liar & all these other things. I guess he 4 got when we first met, he got my email address & I didn't give it to him. He got it off an email that a mutual friend of ours sent him. Its' no big deal, cell phone numbers; email address aren't there more important things to be worried about finding out about a person, but he's made into this big thing & is ready to leave me now 4 it. What would you do if you were him or me?
2007-03-22 09:58:10 · 6 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, he could have women business friends, but more than likely, you know the answer to your question.
He's shady, he's hiding stuff from you and there are hundreds of thousands of guys out here, why are you worried about him for? If he is really as great as you thought (or think) he wouldn't be shady.
2007-03-22 10:02:03 · answer #1 · answered by bridetobebrandie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is willing to leave you for getting an email address or cell phone number, he is a cheating fool and he is ready to leave anyway. Do not waste your time. I promise if he has nothing to hide, you have no worries. if you call him on his business line and he gets pissed off because it is for work then you may be at fault.
2007-03-22 10:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by Clay R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not so much what you did but the principle. You didn't trust him enough to let him have his own privacy. Love is not just about knowing everything about a person but having that person want to let you know everything about themself. It is not a good idea to try and take information from someone if you want them to feel like it is important for them to be able to feel safe in what information they give you. He is hurt that you would just take from him without his will. It is like mentally raping him.
2007-03-22 10:05:57 · answer #3 · answered by Michael M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth that u got his number from where ever u did. tell him that u never have ever liedto him and u got curios and called a few frequently called numbers on the bill. xplain 2him and ask him wut he would do if he was u.. iguess that if he does leave u that he wasn't that guy u thought that he was.
2007-03-22 10:04:42 · answer #4 · answered by Baby girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both have trust issues and it's healthy to go separate ways
2007-03-22 10:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither one of you can be trusted.
I think both of you should seperate.
2007-03-22 10:03:04 · answer #6 · answered by jim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋