Family & Relationships - 19 March 2007

This I think is really weird but out of nowhere this guys starts calling me his best friend. Truth be told I never really did in the past pay him any attention. Now he claims me as one of his best friends. It's not that I mind or anything. I just want to know what other peoples opinion on this are? This make the third year that we have gone to the same school but the first year that I have even noticed him. So what are peoples opinion on this middle school best friend thing? Thanks for the help! Any other information that yall need just ask.

2007-03-19 13:04:00 · 11 answers · asked by livvy 3 in Friends

I just met this guy, and he's nice. Cool to hang out with, and we did hang out yesterday. He told me he likes me and I like him, too, but I think I'm purposefully trying to push him away cuz I was deceived recently by another guy whom I thought liked me and had good intentions. The guy I met has been constantly telling me he likes me, so I wanna believe him. And then I think to myself that maybe I'm scared of the feelings I'm starting to have for him. I'm just wondering if my thoughts are justified....

2007-03-19 13:03:42 · 15 answers · asked by Licia 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 13:03:26 · 10 answers · asked by MiZz SuNsHiNe 1 in Singles & Dating

I stopped smoking about two and a half years ago. Since then, I have put distance between my friends who smoked (which was most of them) I'm scared to go to their houses in case I start smoking again. And they are made to go outside when they come to my place a I can't stand the smoke. The thing is, i'm losing them as friends and I don't know any way around it - please help!

2007-03-19 13:03:15 · 13 answers · asked by Peace 2 in Friends

Honestly, I always meet the man of my dreams, then 3 months later, I feel extremely bored, and always meet someone better. I do not want to settle down, but that seems strange. Even though I am almost 25, and feel quite young, a lot of my friends are getting married, engaged, pregnant and all that crap. I never envisioned that for myself. Almost all my friends are guys (and I slept with most), but after awhile I wonder if they have feelings for me. I am domineering and powerful, with a tenacious, ferocious personality (which my boys love), but I have a sweet side haha somewhere. It rarely comes out though. I am a party girl; I love clubs and bars, hooking up then leaving him behind. Do I sound like a man? Actually, I feel great being single and messing around, but then we get to guys like my manager who is married but I knows wants to bang me, I cannot say no! I am a total Hedonist. Should I control myself, or just go out, live my life, and have fun? I do not possess regrets!

2007-03-19 13:02:50 · 7 answers · asked by pitsargenaf 4 in Singles & Dating

my best friend isn't going to finish school even thou this is her last year in high school and she's left to go with her two-timing boyfriend!who cheated on her with a girl i know and who used-to be my best friend until she backstabbed me?my friends bf cheated on her twice with that girl !!!

2007-03-19 13:02:49 · 8 answers · asked by babygurl_lovaz 1 in Friends

i have a girlfriend that smokes weed and im a complete straight-edge (never drank, smoked, dipped, anything) and i worry about how that will affect our relationship. what should i do?

2007-03-19 13:02:26 · 9 answers · asked by bodaciousfan 2 in Singles & Dating

hi it's me again looking for wedding colors. due to some complications my husband-to-be and i have decided to move the wedding up to june so i need different wedding colors how about these:
1.black pink and cream
2.black baby blue and cream
3.black silver and cream
4.black toffee and cream
5.black pink and silver
6.black red and silver

if anyone else has color ideas for a june wedding please feel free to answer, just so you know i need three colors and no i don't look good in earth tones so no brown and i hate bright bright colors! thanx

2007-03-19 13:01:31 · 16 answers · asked by Kyra 1 in Weddings

okay i am 14 and my boyfriend wants to kiss me. none of my other friends have kissed a boy yet and i don't want to be the first one.. but i really like him alot. all of my friends say that we are too young and i kinda think so myself but i really like him... and its nothin but a kiss? right? help please

2007-03-19 13:01:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I never expected this, thought I'd be feeling free and relaxed. I feel like part of me is missing. I'm not clingy or overprotective, just have strong ties to my children's hearts. How do you cope with this feeling?

2007-03-19 13:01:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well in 2 weeks i have to move to california but my best friend lives in nevada and we hang out everyday and we tell each other everything but i am scared that our friendship will just start going away slowly what should i do PLEASE HELP

2007-03-19 13:00:34 · 5 answers · asked by stars52006 2 in Friends

I am just wanting to be able to help my stepchildren. I would like to ask if there is anyone who is being raised or has been raised as a small child by a lesbian mother, if they could express their feelings about this. I am not asking for opinions on if its right or wrong or not looking for any mean answers and not looking for people to say im against this lifestyle or im for it. Just some things children have to go through when mothers decide to raise their children in this situation. I have 2 stepchildren and they live 2 weeks with their mom and her lover and the other 2 weeks with their dad and stepmom. I just want to know what I can do as a stepmom to make things easier for them. I am married to their dad. One is a daughter under 7 and the other is a boy over 10. Thanks

2007-03-19 12:59:57 · 5 answers · asked by Justaskingquestions 2 in Family

Should i wait or call tonight?
i have been chatting with this girl for a while i made plans with her fo thursday for a lunch date should i call tonight or do it tomorow


what should we talk about if i call tonight

2007-03-19 12:59:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend talks to other people about me like he's more superior than me. He says things like he's cuter than me and no one can compare him to me. What should I do???

2007-03-19 12:59:43 · 14 answers · asked by buddafly 1 in Singles & Dating

how do you handle days when you feel insecure about things in your life? i don't know why, but i get very insecure sometimes, and i was just wondering what i could do to get past this issue. thanks...

2007-03-19 12:59:32 · 3 answers · asked by *KiM* 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-19 12:59:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so i met this guy on my cruise, we had a thing and liked eachother a lot and after the cruise he contacted me and we talked a few times but then things died down a bit cause we live far away from eachother. about 2 months after the cruise i went to surprise visit him. he was really happy, and acted the same exact way as he did on the cruise. i was only there for about 20 minutes cause i had to go somewhere else. he contacted me after the visit and then things died down once again. 4 months after that in february, me and my friend contacted him because we happen to be going to college by where he lives in a few months and we were auditioning for dance. he said, of course, come hang out with us. we went there and hung out and once again, he acted the same exact way. he explained to me how me visiting the first time he was really happy but it was like giving him a puppy and then taking it away from him. he kept asking the question "can i keep it..is it mine?"..which was really cute. me and him talked for about an hour alone about everything. i left and he told me to text him when i got back to the hotel. he asked if i was mad at him for not talking to me all the time. i said no, and he said he can tell i was. but i wasnt, not at all. he texted me that night saying "thanks for coming cant wait to see u again." we spoke for awhile about the night and how we had fun and later on i said "goodnight have fun"..and he said "im going to sleep..all my fun left already." that night he commented me on myspace saying he had fun and he hopes to hear from me soon. two nights later he texts me again saying hey and we talked for awhile. i asked him to come to ny to see me, but he feels weird cause he doesnt know anyone and he feels as if everyone will "like him..then hate him" he said he would think about it, and i even said "we can go to the city." he told me "way rather see you then the city"..meaning it doesnt matter what we do, as long as i can see you..which was really cute. he then sent a couple of funny videos and one night his friends called me from his phone. i heard them say something about girlfriend in the background and he laughed and got on the phone and kept apologizing for calling so late..he told me he was really sorry and hed call me the next day. he was drunk when he called the last time, so he probably forgot the entire night because he didnt call the next day, and now we havent really been speaking..

does he like me a lot but finds it hard to talk to me because we live so far away from eachother and he doesnt want our relationship to develop anymore..and hed rather wait until im there to do it the right way?

2007-03-19 12:58:58 · 10 answers · asked by lindsay m 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont wanna jus say no to him cause he might take it as disrespect

2007-03-19 12:58:32 · 11 answers · asked by Bibs 1 in Friends

ok there is this guy & i am in total love with him! he says he doesnt like me, but all the time i catch him looking at me & then he looks away! I asked him out b4 but he says no! My friend says that he likes me cause she can tell but i dont know! do u guys think he really does like me? & if so.. how do i get him to go out with me?????????

2007-03-19 12:58:13 · 13 answers · asked by ChocoLatte092 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 12:57:33 · 12 answers · asked by dyamonddorsey 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been through arguments and so called " breakups" but we've always stayed together. Shes been trying to get the point into my head lately that she needs her space, that I dont have to get pissed if she makes plans with someone other than me. So last nite, we get into another argument. I said some hateful things and grabbed my stuff and left there believing we could be finished. Now she has always stayed with me and I feel if I just give her her space this time she will come back and realize wht we have together. Is this a reasonable assumption considering she feels i am always over her shoulder? Would it be wise to let her come to me, not call her or see her for a while until she calls. and HAS THIS APPROACH EVER WORKED FOR ANYONE? And trust me, she is the type of person that needs her time alone after a bad argument and i never have respected it.

2007-03-19 12:57:31 · 3 answers · asked by Carlos 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We tried to raise a stable, interesting child. He is 19 now and wants to have nothing to do with us. He is depressed and confused. We are not overbearing, have given support, opportunities, love... He's ready to "be free", and he is old enough. But Mom's heart is broken, I hurt when he hurts, and I feel like a part of me is gone. I know I'll get over it, but I am overwhelmed with pain, like a bear losing it's cub. Support?

2007-03-19 12:56:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This girl asked my boyfriend out and he told her no he has another girl. When he sees her all upset and what not,he offers to give her a hug, She tells him she don't want to give him a hug,but then he says i wants to give her a hug. What should I do???

2007-03-19 12:56:14 · 21 answers · asked by buddafly 1 in Singles & Dating

whats should i do with my LD bf when he comes down for 2 days as we never had this much time together.


please no sexual comments

2007-03-19 12:56:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

who should i like evan, christian, or cody????? they're all cute

2007-03-19 12:55:17 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

What is a place that me and my boyfriend could go this weekend besides the mall because we've already been there twice and the only reason we've been there twice is so we can go watch a movie and be all "touchy feely" i guess. lol so any idea's?

2007-03-19 12:55:14 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I lost him for a bit. But when I went to go find him. This girl that tried to break us up in high school. Was having sex with my husband in the ladies room. He did not even know I was there till. I threw my wedding ring as his head. I just can't believe he would do this. Now he keeps trying everything to contact me. My house looks like a florist I have 200 messages from him on the Answering Machine and my cell phone. Please someone help with some advice. See my and my husband are the same age and we were always together we were never apart. From the time we were born. We were one day apart. I mean we would date other people like in JR High. But from HS to wedding its been just him and I.

2007-03-19 12:54:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-19 12:53:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when you are walking by

2007-03-19 12:52:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy, we're a couple years apart and he's really nice. I spent like 1 and 1/2 hrs w/ him 2day and i had alot of fun. he was talking to me totally normally and he actually looked @ me when he was talking. he was so easy 2 talk to i just like told him entirely about what was going on in my life and he sat there and told me stuff too. i don't have the most exciting life but he seemed pretty interested.

I was also just in a musical with him and beacause the practice hours were so long, i spent a pretty long time w/ him. he always seems ready 2 listen and ready 2 talk. he's just really, really easy 2 talk 2. how do i know if he likes me back?

2007-03-19 12:52:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating