okay i am 14 and my boyfriend wants to kiss me. none of my other friends have kissed a boy yet and i don't want to be the first one.. but i really like him alot. all of my friends say that we are too young and i kinda think so myself but i really like him... and its nothin but a kiss? right? help please
2007-03-19 13:01:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweety, if you wanna kiss the boy & vise-versa, thats ok, as long as THAT IS FAR AS IT GOES! I realize a chemistry at that age is a termendous feeling, I just don't want him to think he's going any further with you. PLEASE DO NOT allow him to feel up. Once a guy doe's they think you're "easy" he'll try every trick in the book to get what he wants! If he is sincere of
you, he will wait until u r older, 2 yrs. if not u'll know all he wants and you don't want to lose r Virginity over a person like that! When I was in school I must of "thought" I was in Love at least 100 times. It's just lust, he's likes me, WoW, we'll be together forever, mean while all he's doing is thinking with his penis as most out there do! One kiss can get heated up Sweety & if he goes to r breasts, you'll know what's on his mind. He could start saying lies about u, spread it threw the school. That's why I want u to be real carefull about what I said
and should you continue to see each other hug, but don't kiss
at school or others will start rumors like you'se already did it
do you understand what I'm saying? And if u see a condomn on him RUN! I just don't want to see to you get hurt like I've been. You are a WOMEN now and whatever YOU say goes!
I hope this will help you & by kiss I don't mean necking! I have
faith in you & pray you will chose wisely.
Take good Care of You,
Summer
2007-03-19 14:17:17 · answer #1 · answered by Diana D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmm....the decision to kiss someone shouldn't be influenced by your friends, either to or not to kiss! What should be deciding factors is:
1. Do you like this guy?
2. Does he like you?
3. Does he respect you?
4. Do you respect him?
5. Are you prepared emotionally for "kissing"?
The first kiss is something that remains in the memory of most all women. Hopefully yours will be good, sweet, tender, and not too invasive (meaning that he wants to check out your tonsils while he's there!)
2007-03-19 20:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by JennyP 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, kissing is a very strong emotional sign of affection.
If you do not want to kiss your boyfriend, you do not have to!!
This is not competition with you and your friends. The decision is YOURS ONLY.
And yes, 14 is very young. Not that I am saying too young to kiss. I am saying, you have a loooonngggg life ahead of you. You will have many, many opportunities to kiss a LOT of boys!!
Let him kiss you on the cheek. This is not like on soap operas or in the movies.
2007-03-19 20:05:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where I'm from kids start kissing each other when they're 10.
I think you're old enough, just go for it if you really like the guy. You should be proud to be the first one. Kissing is in no way slutty if you're afraid that's what your friends will think. You can set a cute example for your peers :)
Good luck!
2007-03-19 20:05:28 · answer #4 · answered by Bo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A kiss at 14 is fine. Just make sure not to get so involved that it leads to other stuff.
2007-03-19 20:09:50 · answer #5 · answered by beebee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with a little kiss at 14. It doesn't need to be a long drawn out kiss. just a nice little kiss. why not? NOTHING else though. got it?
2007-03-19 20:06:23 · answer #6 · answered by JEANNE B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know how old your boyfriend is or what he expected out of previous girl friends,but you don't have to set a time and date that your first kiss will occur on .and you don't have to be pressured into it.when its time for that first kiss--you will know it.it will , or should be very special. and i am sure it will be.believe me-there's nothing wrong with a little sugar ,just make sure that thats all thats on his agenda.you don't have to do it to keep him ,or to be popular and being first in your crowd is not required of you. just don't do something foolish--know what i mean ,vern.thats why god gave you a fingerprint--so you could be yourself --- you will know when its right time.
2007-03-19 20:33:59 · answer #7 · answered by thurmond gump 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you arent ready then dont do it. Dont push yourself to do something you feel you might not be ready for. If you go ahead and do it remember one thing. A kiss can lead to more so keep that in mind and dont let it go any further than that, ok?
2007-03-19 20:05:36 · answer #8 · answered by shirley e 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that kissing means nothing but it inevitably leads to other things. So as long as kissing is where it stays no problem.
2007-03-19 20:03:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be tender and thoughtful, when the time is right. If you come on too strong, it might come off the wrong way. Tender and thoughtful is a good indication of respect and expecting the same in return.
2007-03-19 20:05:49 · answer #10 · answered by OP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋