i have a girlfriend that smokes weed and im a complete straight-edge (never drank, smoked, dipped, anything) and i worry about how that will affect our relationship. what should i do?
2007-03-19 13:02:26 · 9 answers · asked by bodaciousfan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and im a christian... raised in a christian home who are against drinking, drugs, etc.
2007-03-19 13:08:31 · update #1
Well, it's her choice, but you need to stay away from her when she's smoking weed. I'm not gonna say crap like, make her quit. Just, give her the idea that you're not really comfortable with her smoking weed and that you worry about your relationship. If she cares about you, she'll understand and try to work out a solution.
2007-03-19 13:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by Eden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, bein a female who smokes. i think its possible to be in a realationship with someone who doesnt. unless she uses to much like several time s a day then usshouldnt have much of a problem with it. i mean i think its equivilent to a guy goin out for a drink every nite after work. i really hope u dont let this affect ur realationship. talk to her maybe u two can come to a compromise bout maybe her only doin it a couple times a week. i kno u said ur a strait esge, but maybe u could smoke wiht ehr once to show her u made an effort and she may be more willing to cut down. goodluck
2007-03-19 20:11:18 · answer #2 · answered by meshelle2kz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I think it could work- but only if you weren't a Christain (nothing againist her). You will only regret in the future when you have more feelings for her that you stayed with someone who does not have the same morals and beliefs as you. Let me tell you after having long relationship with non-Christain when you are dating one of the most important things to start with are what you believe in. I know you may only be dating-but in future when relationships may lead somewhere why waste your and her time. You may be missing out on the people you really have something in common with. Good luck!
2007-03-19 20:31:22 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends if she pressures you to do something you are uncomfortable with. In a healthy relationship both people look out for each other's best interests and needs. If she puts you in a position and pushes you to compromise you values, it isn't a good fit. Good luck!
2007-03-19 20:16:55 · answer #4 · answered by Way of the Leaf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that It might be fun now but you have to think about what that fun is going to cost her. And if she really cares about you then she would stop and be with some body that cares about her Rather than dope heads that could care less
2007-03-19 20:12:54 · answer #5 · answered by playboy_girl_38663 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing.
Weed is pretty awful; it ruins your memory and your motivation.
She'll gradually smoke less and less if she stays with you.
2007-03-19 20:08:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WWJD??Pray for her, try and lead her in the right direction weed can destroy and lead to worse things.
2007-03-19 20:13:33 · answer #7 · answered by That Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what i can tell you. You can only help her ONLY if she wants to help herself. ONly if she want's to change. Do all you can, but in the end if she doesn't... then it's time to let go. sorry..that's how life is...
2007-03-19 20:09:34 · answer #8 · answered by The REBELution! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to party on down.... she sounds like a blast!
2007-03-19 20:07:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋