This girl asked my boyfriend out and he told her no he has another girl. When he sees her all upset and what not,he offers to give her a hug, She tells him she don't want to give him a hug,but then he says i wants to give her a hug. What should I do???
2007-03-19 12:56:14 · 21 answers · asked by buddafly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should chill out! If you don't trust him leave him. A hug is a hug....what are you afraid of?
2007-03-19 13:02:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he gives her a hug in front of u then u give the girl a hug also and that will kill her little feelings and u will look like the better person. If hugging her is a bit to much then don't let your feelings show and that will make him see that u are a strong gf not a jealous one.
2007-03-19 20:04:05 · answer #2 · answered by sweet p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Determine your list of non-negotiable behaviors-- those behaviors that would be "deal breakers" for you. If fraternizing with other women is a problem for you, lay down the ground rules for how much of this behavior you are willing to allow for him. If he goes over the boundary, say for example, kissing another girl, then you know for sure he does not respect you and you need to move on. My husband hugged other girls while we were dating, and I told him I didn't like it, because there are certain hugs that could imply more than a "friendly" touch. He laid off of it after I made mention of it.
Know what you expect and what you want, make it known to your partner, and you'll be MUCH happier with whomever you are with.
2007-03-19 20:09:04 · answer #3 · answered by chermoe06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did the responsible thing, let him give the rejected girl a hug. He stood by you so whats that one little gesture matter? I think the problem is more your insecurity than your boyfriend. He sounds like a great guy, he acted loyal to you and not like a jerk to the other girl.
2007-03-19 20:01:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it he obviously felt bad b/c she was upset so he thought giving her hug would help. He cares for you and at least you know he's not the cheater kind. And now you know he has a kind heart for others.
2007-03-19 19:59:36 · answer #5 · answered by reptar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a very sticky situation...maybe watch HOW he hugs her. your instincts will tell you if he wants to hug her a little too much. And even so, if your uncomfortable with it Tell Him. if he's a good guy he'll listen and try to understand your hurt.
2007-03-19 20:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by Jenna M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing....for now. Sounds like he was trying to be a sensitive fellow, and you'll like him for that later, and let this girl down gently. Which means that he cares about women's feelings, and you'll like him for that later too. You might want to simply ask, "Is there anything here that I need to be worried about?" and when he says "No", believe him and move on.
2007-03-19 20:00:57 · answer #7 · answered by JennyP 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be able to trust him. It's just a hug. Maybe that person really needs one.
2007-03-19 19:59:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
calm down its just a hug and after all he said he wouldent go out with her soo calm yo self
2007-03-19 20:03:09 · answer #9 · answered by Tee blaze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should do two things and in this order
1) don't worry because a hug never killed no one.
2) pay WAY more attention in your english/grammar classes
2007-03-19 19:59:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋