Family & Relationships - 18 March 2007

my boyfriends mother is somewhat domineering whereas she wants things here way in her world and the thing is she's too controlling to an extent. Her son and I have been a couple for many years however she feels he isn't ready for a commitment-- we've had problems and she's been there to mediate, help and advise however I feel she should be supportive and not like a third wheel on our relationship decisions. By me confiding in her have I created an irreversible "monster". she is a sweet person isn't married and has no other interesting affairs in her life...what do you think

2007-03-18 09:30:17 · 5 answers · asked by Diva 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I observed love wears out easily among men than women. It takes them seconds to fall in love and less than a few weeks they are already fed up the whole thing and already looking for another babe

2007-03-18 09:30:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 09:28:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I met this girl and we have gotten to know each other quite well. We have become quite close and we are now best friends. We can talk to each other about anything, anytime. Recently, as I have gotten to know her much more I think I have started to like her. She likes to tickle me and touch my hair and stuff. We always talk and hang out together. She always tells me how much she misses me and that she thinks about me a lot. We talk to each other about our dreams, and she tells me she dreams about me almost every night. However, she already has a boyfriend. I am not the kind of guy that will try to get them to break up or something, I actually talk to her about relationship problems she has with him. I am confused and I don't know what to do. I can't stop thinking about her. I always want to be near her when I'm not around her. My question is, should I tell her how I feel? And does it sound like she likes me? I'm afraid that our friendship will be ruined. Please help. Thanks in advance.

2007-03-18 09:28:40 · 17 answers · asked by qwerty 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy i work with and i think he likes me too. anyways we work in totally different departments so we dont see eachother while we are working, but when i go to his department to do something we talk to eachother a lot. i like him a lot so how do i keep in contact/see him him outside of work, thanks

2007-03-18 09:28:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'd like to know new people but i dunno what site i can go to so i can meet peolple do you know of some???

2007-03-18 09:27:24 · 20 answers · asked by GMORAM29 3 in Singles & Dating

And although I agree with everything asked in the divorce and am ready to proceed, when I asked what to do, they said if I agree to everything to not do anything? I find this hard to believe, they said only filed a response if I disagree with anything. Also on the issue of spousal support it says "TERMINATE ISSUE" and the box that is checked is the one for the responder (me) to not be able to ask for spousal support. Now I don't plan on asking for any at all, but can she can ask for some if it says "TERMINATE ISSUE" and no boxes are checked next to it? And do I really need not do anything if I agree to what's in the divorce papers(Let it fall into default as the cop said)? She's asking for nothing at all, I'm asking for nothing at all. We were really young and we both don't have anything, I just want to make sure what I was told was correct. I live in California.so this is a CA divorce, we've been married just over 4 years, we don't have any children or anything of real value...

2007-03-18 09:27:05 · 6 answers · asked by SoCal662 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My biggest regret is hurting those i love! just wish i had thaught before i did the things i have done!

2007-03-18 09:25:55 · 7 answers · asked by meow 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my dad was married twice, and I am from his scond marrige...so he is older than my mom. way oldeer. Just wasnt to know if any body has that too...meaning an old parent

2007-03-18 09:25:21 · 20 answers · asked by Hershey's Kiss 4 in Family

of the opposite sex. Yeah, yeah, yeah. We are divorced. But my kids are 2 and 5 and wander at night. My husband believes that itis perfectly OK if the kids walk in on him boinking his latest conquest. I don't. I date but I don't have anyone staying over on my half of the month.

I am asking for information from people who successfully placed this in their orders. How did you do it? What evidence did you present? Thanks.

2007-03-18 09:24:42 · 6 answers · asked by tiaburkeangry 1 in Family

of the opposite sex. Yeah, yeah, yeah. We are divorced. But my kids are 2 and 5 and wander at night. My husband believes that itis perfectly OK if the kids walk in on him boinking his latest conquest. I don't. I date but I don't have anyone staying over on my half of the month.

I am asking for information from people who successfully placed this in their orders. How did you do it? What evidence did you present? Thanks.

2007-03-18 09:24:30 · 6 answers · asked by tiaburkeangry 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Men, what is your intent behind asking an attractive girl (who is very interested but unavailable to you due to work positions at present) flirty, sexy questions? A man I would love to be with will often ask me about things I would do if we were together such as: Would you give me a massage, would you talk to me online, would you go out with me if we could, if I could give you one thing, what would you want? I always tell him yes in the hopes he will actually plan on making a move but so far no moves have been made. We have these hot conversations and then before I know it someone at work needs him and it's a week before we have another one. Is it just for the ego boost of a positive answer or is he planning on getting everything straight in his mind before he makes a move?

2007-03-18 09:24:09 · 7 answers · asked by jewels 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend and I had a huge fight over me going out to a party. I guess she got mad because she didnt have anything to do so she's been mad at me and has been posting bulletins on myspace saying im gay and stuff and poor but yet my parents make more money than hers. My dad is a doctor and her mom is a private duty nurse. How much do private duty nureses make anyway? How much do pharmacists make? What should I do?? Help me please. Thank you

2007-03-18 09:23:25 · 3 answers · asked by Stephanie R 1 in Friends

2007-03-18 09:23:16 · 3 answers · asked by Celticgreen 2 in Singles & Dating

I devoted everything to this girl, and i tried to make her happy in anyway i could. it lasted over two years, but now she has decided that she wants to move on. it wasnt a story book relationship ( are there really any?) but i imagined the rest of my life with her. she says that she doesnt want to make it work anymore. i know it could work if she put effort into it, but she doesnt want to and i cant make her. i hear everybody's suggestion and understand them, but its so hard to move on. it really hurts. how is it that we could love someone so much and try to do nothing but the best for them and not get the same in return?

2007-03-18 09:23:05 · 2 answers · asked by Jim+ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

its just a random question i want to know.

2007-03-18 09:22:47 · 12 answers · asked by Asia P 2 in Singles & Dating

My best guy friend just revealed to me that he likes me a lot. However, I already have a boyfriend and don't plan to leave him anytime soon for anyone. My guy friend just told me today that he wants to cease all contact (i.e. no hanging out, talking online, writing letters) NOTHING... I really don't want to lose him as a friend. He says it hurts too much being around me & wanting me & knowing he can't be with me. I understand that & thus plan to respect his wishes. However, I wanted to know if there was anything I could do because I really don't want to lose my best friend??

2007-03-18 09:22:36 · 9 answers · asked by Love Me or Hate Me... 4 in Friends

For as long as I can remember, one thing I've always wanted was a girlfriend. When I went to college I thought it would be easy, but... that was 6 years ago and I seem to be incapable of getting one. I'm not unattractive, and during some years lots of girls seemed to hold this opinion.. but none of them seemed to want to bother with me seriously. What I figure is that I'm not that tall.. To girls this seems to mean more than everything else combined. The thing is, lots of these girls were significantly shorter than myself.. in fact, most often it was the shorter girls who were most adament about dating a tall guy.. This is lame IMO, or at the very least hypocritical.

2007-03-18 09:22:36 · 5 answers · asked by stratguy1313 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 09:22:22 · 2 answers · asked by Optimistic 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

well I like this boy and he likes me! Then this other girl asked him out and he said no but she thinks no is yes so he dumped her then I promised her I would not go out with him because she was crying all crazy!! But then I really want to go out with him because he likes me and he likes me! what do i do

2007-03-18 09:21:31 · 9 answers · asked by ♥™♥™ 1 in Singles & Dating

I have met this guy :) he is almost too good to be true! the only thing that troubles me is that he is always talking about their past exploits, which includes relationships/ex girlfriends /girls who he almost got it on with (which it seems to be a lot of), and past 'shady dealings'. Also, they also he always talks about how everyone is always chatting him up!! I am not sure how I should deal with this (i am not jealous, I just find it odd), I have never really come across people who talk like this - is this normal? Its been a good few years since I was last in a relationship, that I have almost forgotten what its like?! :)

2007-03-18 09:21:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you stay calm on a first date and around women in social settings?

2007-03-18 09:20:53 · 6 answers · asked by Brandon M 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a teenager & I have a laptop that i have and use in my room. I also use my dads computer that the whole family uses aswell. Well, my dad can actually check everything I'm doing on the computer from his work! Even if I clear history. Is this fair?? Does anyone have any sites that can prevent my dad from doing this

2007-03-18 09:20:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My girlfriend for 6 years just left me. During these years we have broken up many times but always gotten back together. During those times she would tend to see some new guy friend and hang out making me jealous but after a while she would always come back. This time she hangs out with a new guy she just met and she tells me he is just a friend and that she would stop seeing him if it hurt me so that i can get over her. I want her back badly, but she is just so cool about it and says that i should move on and let her move one too. That this new guy has nothing to do with it etc. Even though she spends a lot of time with him now. I thought of testing her to make her jealous with another girl she knows and who is really pretty. But before i could set my plan into action she recommended that I'd go for that girl! What should I do now to get her back?? I really want her back, she is perfect. I didnt nurture the relationship well enough to keep her. I need to get that 2nd chance. How?

2007-03-18 09:19:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 14 and i weigh 112lbs and I'm only 5'1! how can i loose weight? any tips or websites would be greatly apprieciated. I get called fat a lot and i believe im the fattest of all of my friends.

2007-03-18 09:18:57 · 23 answers · asked by baby gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

I always give her something along with a card.

2007-03-18 09:18:21 · 11 answers · asked by Joe Guy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been talking to this great guy for quite a while now. Last night we confessed to having a crush on each other. I decided that I'd better tell him about my daughter today. (I hadn't before because I met him online, and I don't tell online people about her for safety reasons, you know?) I'm really worried about how he'll handle it though. Is there anyway to tell him that might ease the situation. I might be able to tell him by phone, if that would be better.

2007-03-18 09:18:06 · 6 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Singles & Dating

them any tips

2007-03-18 09:17:49 · 3 answers · asked by robert 1 in Singles & Dating

im an attractive/friendly girl who gets approached by guys alot, but theres one guy that i really like @ school, because he's sweet and has a great personality although he is very shy. i've been getting a feeling that he likes me, and last week @ a party he approached me and spent the whole nite with me, i must admit he was drinking, so i'm sure he lost some inhibitions. the next week at school things were back to normal, i still caught him looking/smiling at me, but he didn't approach me and it almost seemed like he was avoiding me. i got angry, because i liked him and thought he was avoiding me. so this past weekend @ another party i completely ignored him and we both ignored each other the enitre nite. later on i overheard one of his friends ask him if he was ok because he looked really upset. the problem is i still really like him and im afraid i hurt him and he doesnt like me anymore. how do i rectify the situation and let him know that i like him? and do i still have a chance?

2007-03-18 09:17:22 · 12 answers · asked by bella 2 in Singles & Dating

im with this guy- jesse that im in love with- we love eachother so much-my parents told me to breack up wit him b/c he has prolbem - medical(he goes to the doctor alot) b/c of head problems and sceggers- what can i do - should i listen - or follow my heart

2007-03-18 09:16:54 · 8 answers · asked by cassie b 1 in Singles & Dating