My girlfriend for 6 years just left me. During these years we have broken up many times but always gotten back together. During those times she would tend to see some new guy friend and hang out making me jealous but after a while she would always come back. This time she hangs out with a new guy she just met and she tells me he is just a friend and that she would stop seeing him if it hurt me so that i can get over her. I want her back badly, but she is just so cool about it and says that i should move on and let her move one too. That this new guy has nothing to do with it etc. Even though she spends a lot of time with him now. I thought of testing her to make her jealous with another girl she knows and who is really pretty. But before i could set my plan into action she recommended that I'd go for that girl! What should I do now to get her back?? I really want her back, she is perfect. I didnt nurture the relationship well enough to keep her. I need to get that 2nd chance. How?
2007-03-18 09:19:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
After years of breaking up and going back together she is probably tired of it all, and I don't blame her. You should have thought of how perfect she was and how much you loved her a long time ago. Now it's time to leave her alone before you do more damage. You have no one to blame but yourself.
2007-03-18 09:27:42 · answer #1 · answered by inmate3685 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing, Do not over text her. She will get annoyed and if you keep telling her "TAKE ME BACK I LOVE YOU." Learn here https://tr.im/FT7kf
She will not want you even more. You need to show her that you don't need her and can live your life without her. She still cares about you I am sure. Maybe try "flirting" with other girls around her to make her jealous. I know its bad, but if i saw my ex flirting with someone else it would make me REALLY ANGRY. However, you still need to show her you care about her too. Show her what she's missing and remind her of it. Be confident and don't show your broken heart. Try ignoring her? Girls hate that. You want her to come to you. Once she does this YOU have all the power.
She will realize what you mean to her and she will hopefully come crawling back. (I am in the same situation as you, except I am the girl trying to get my ex back). Try not to be so clingy and give her space. But try to be around so she sees you, but don't talk to her much. Keep convos short and if you txt her, which you shouldn't, then also keep it short and bland. This will be hard to do because you just want to let her in your life again, but you can't. If you show her that you are desperate to get her back, she won't go for it. Make her come to you and REMIND her of all that she is missing out on. Hope this helps. And trust me, I know how you feel. Girls usually come around easier than guys so you should be lucky. ughh wish i could say the same.
2016-07-20 01:33:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/9Ppvf
Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-29 01:14:48 · answer #3 · answered by pennie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself, if you keep breaking up and don't really maintain the relationship while you are in it, why do you really want to get back together?
It sounds as if you only want what you don't have - and your ex is right - its time to let her move on. Six years of on again / off again would be a pretty huge emotional drain on the poor girl.
Move away and move on.
2007-03-18 09:27:58 · answer #4 · answered by iliketorideigohago 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry love - too late. Six years?? If she wants to be friends only then please do that - she is a very important person in your life and you should want to hold on to that friendship. As for the romance, it's probably gone and she's giving you the best advice - move on. Look for new love and tuck away your fond memories of the lost love.
2007-03-18 09:24:50 · answer #5 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋