I've been talking to this great guy for quite a while now. Last night we confessed to having a crush on each other. I decided that I'd better tell him about my daughter today. (I hadn't before because I met him online, and I don't tell online people about her for safety reasons, you know?) I'm really worried about how he'll handle it though. Is there anyway to tell him that might ease the situation. I might be able to tell him by phone, if that would be better.
2007-03-18 09:18:06 · 6 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been talking to this great guy for quite a while now. Last night we confessed to having a crush on each other. I decided that I'd better tell him about my daughter today. (I hadn't before because I met him online, and I don't tell online people about her for safety reasons, you know?) I'm really worried about how he'll handle it though. Is there anyway to tell him that might ease the situation? I might be able to tell him by phone, if that would be better.
Please answer quickly, I'm talking to him right now.
2007-03-18 09:20:18 · update #1
Just be honest, tell him that you want to tell him now before thing go any further, any man woorth your time will accept the both of you. As it was with me, you come as a pair...or not at all :) good luck
2007-03-18 09:23:04 · answer #1 · answered by Misty M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have never met this person and don't need to be concerned with what he thinks. Tell him immediately that you have a wonderful daughter. If you two decide to ever meet and develop a relationship, he will be aware that you come as a package deal.
Good Luck!
2007-03-18 16:25:05 · answer #2 · answered by Little sis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel comfortable in telling him then go ahead. If he really likes you he will accept the fact you have a child. If he cant accept your child then he cant accept you. You should tell him over the phone and explain to him before your relationship can progress u have somthing to tell him. It is better to get things out in the beginning then him finding out thru some sort of accident
2007-03-18 16:26:48 · answer #3 · answered by godlovessbd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. Whether he's ok with it or not, the fact that you have a daughter is gonna come up at some point, right? It's best to be honest with him right from the start, or he'll be pi***d that you lied to him.
Good luck.
2007-03-18 16:24:54 · answer #4 · answered by Jenni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
itold my boyfriend the first time we met he was cool with it and now we've been together 4yrs and hav a daughter just tell him he will either accept it or not and if he doesn't you can move on before you get too attached
2007-03-18 16:27:53 · answer #5 · answered by badluckbear1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter how you tell him! If he has a problem with it, then bye-bye to him! You're worried about how he's gonna handle it!?!? Girl, please!!! You're child comes FIRST!!! Simply tell him about her and if he doesn't like it, simply tell him goodbye!!!
2007-03-18 16:30:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋