Family & Relationships - 14 March 2007

i am 21 &i've never really had a serious boyfriend. i mean i have been linked to a couple of guys but i never felt comfortable with them-either i wasn't really into them or i felt they were just after one thing that i wasn't prepared to give; yes i'm still a virgin. the thing is i've met this guy & although we're not really that well acquainted i want to be his girlfriend for some strange reason. in the past i've been under pressure to have sex but it never really affected me. But i just know that if i got together with this guy I would be really want to experience it with him. not bc i dying to have sex it's bc i want to be close to him and there's something about the way he is with me that tells me that he's interested in me and not just my body. Assuming we ended up dating how long should i wait before i let him u know?

2007-03-14 12:44:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 12:44:04 · 5 answers · asked by babygirl27 1 in Friends

Sometimes I get the feeling my friend likes me, but I keep telling myself it's not possible. Whenever he sees me he smiles - a proper, face-lighting-up smile. He sometimes smiles at me across the room for no particular reason. When we're walking somewhere he walks really close to me, but I might be imagining that. He'll often sit next to me, either when we're at friends' houses or at church (where I know him from). Recently he's started apologising if he doesn't sit with me - saying things like 'I've just got to go and talk to ...' when I'd made no mention of him sitting with me. I talk to him a lot, and sometimes he asks me questions like when my birthday is. He tells me a lot about himself and his family, and has confided in me when he's had problems with one of his friends. He'll always talk to me when he sees me, and sometimes I get the impression he's trying to be close to me or coming to things because he knows I'll be there. He's shy so it's hard to tell what he's thinking.

2007-03-14 12:42:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

im bored. tell me ur deepest and darkest secret =] and/or a tounge twister. or something else =]

2007-03-14 12:42:13 · 2 answers · asked by kittycat31 2 in Friends

i am 14 years old. i am a virgin. all my friends aren,t so im kinda pressured to have sex. i am a freak and a very horny young man. so if i think with my dick i would have sex everytime i got the opportunity. but im thinking with my head. and i have been told that sex is something special that should only be shared with someone special. i have also been told i am too young for sex. if sex is something special, how come men all over the world go to clubs with the intention of meeting a girl, taking her home and having sex with her than never see her again? im also worried that in the middle of the sex i will have to stop and say to my partner i am sorry i can,t continue i don,t know what im doing. so any advice? should i wait until im grown, or is it ok to do it now? and if so should i only do it with someone special or any girl i know who is willing?

2007-03-14 12:42:05 · 45 answers · asked by Riddles 2 in Singles & Dating

on the e-mail i am looking for a telephone number. is it possible

2007-03-14 12:42:03 · 5 answers · asked by anna n 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just looking for some great books for my fiance and me to read together. We are LDS (mormon), but any decent books would be great. Thanks!

2007-03-14 12:41:54 · 13 answers · asked by lovin' life 3 in Marriage & Divorce

she calls him all the time. She buys him gift. She takes him everywhere in her car. What goin on. I can't be second. She did lose her virginity to him. She was his first love. I wish I was first.

2007-03-14 12:41:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a friend whose 30 and divorced with 2 kids and no job currently living with her mother and her ex-husband just cut her off completely so she is pennyless. i tried to loan her some money but she wont take it. so i came up with an idea to anonymously mail her a few hundred bucks every week just so she can make ends meet and if confronted about it i will just deny it all the way.
the only thing is that when i send the money the first time i want her to know that this will be a weekly payment. what do i write included with the cash. i was thinking of something like "this is the first of a weekly loan to help till things get better" or something along those lines.
what can i write that will make her feel comfortable and wont be too personal. im not too good with words so please help.
thank you.

2007-03-14 12:41:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been married for 3 years now and i just dont know if i should call it quits. I am worried if i do call it quits he would freak out on me, maybe get violent. where do i turn when i feel that i am just a bad wife, one who cant do anything right or have anyone love me. Is it because i am not pretty enough to keep my husband happy with me or is it because i am not meant to be around this person? How do i pack up my life and leave? Where do i go? What do i use for money because i dont even have accsess to the checking account? Should i just stay put and deal with this because it is life? is it normal to cry everyday when your married?? i know i sound really dumb but i just dont know where to go! please someone help me!

2007-03-14 12:41:25 · 15 answers · asked by burningmanluver 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so I'm really serious, guys are always hitting on me in the street and all my girlfriends tell me that I'm pretty and stuff. My bf thinks I'm beautiful. I'm known for being the 'pretty' girl. I love fashion and I try to dress myself in the latest trends that fit me and look good on me. In the country I live in green eyed blondes are almost none existent and thats why it feels likeI stand out among the crowd. That all sounds great BUT my problem is whenever I look in the mirror I see a fat ugly worthless peice of sh!t. I cant stand my face, my body is what I really can never like. Sometimes I wonder how people think I look like and if we're all seeing the same thing coz they cant see what I'm seeing and still think I'm pretty!! I saw this girl on Oprah and how she suffers from BDD, I cried my eyes out watching her talk about her condition and I was able to relate to most of what she said *although I didnt hate my look as much as she hates hers* I'm confident otherwise! What to do!?

2007-03-14 12:41:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to get to know him better. At first, I didn't like him that way and then I started to, and now I can't really talk to him at all without freezing up. HELP

2007-03-14 12:40:03 · 4 answers · asked by Ashley 4 in Singles & Dating

I have the courage to go up to them and dance. However, when it comes to finishing, I'm just at a loss. What's the best way to mantain her interest, and hopefully go home with her? And, I mean concentually, obviously.

2007-03-14 12:40:01 · 4 answers · asked by taker4life666 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 12:39:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please help me!

My best friend Jessica for some reason after Chorus she hasn't been my friend. Maybe because it's from my other bestfriend because she usually runs away after Chorus and goes some where but then I find them and they're like totally my friends and I just start hanging out with Jessica and we'll go help a classroom.


Please give me tips on how to get my best friend back!

2007-03-14 12:39:38 · 9 answers · asked by fool_4_u_9159 1 in Friends

Really gonna miss you, it's really gonna be different without you
time is gonna be hard & slow, for the rest of my life, I'm gonna be thinkin about you, yes I am, time came when you had to go, I'll miss you my buddy, I'll miss you my friends, I promise my love for you will never end, in you're finest hour I was there with you & without you things won't be the same, but there's a higher power that we answer to & you heard him callin your name, really gonna miss you, everything about you, your smiling face, yes, i know you want us all to be strong, really gonna miss you, I know you've gone to that magic place, singin you a brand new song, I'll miss you my buddy, I'll miss you my friend, I promise my love for you will never end..............really gonna miss you......

2007-03-14 12:39:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm 6'4", 16 years old, I have brown hair and sometimes I spike it, i have blue eyes, I play hockey, most girls tell me that i'm sweet and cute, i'm a really nice guy, i'm normal looking or athletic, I'm not a jock lol but i'm like average, i like to listen and talk to girls, i love rock music, i wear glasses but i'll be geting contacts later and i'm Canadian lol

2007-03-14 12:39:30 · 19 answers · asked by Alex 2 in Singles & Dating

in pre-school, kids dont always look forward to nap time. It seems that now in High School, all we want to do is sleep insted of doing our work.

2007-03-14 12:39:11 · 8 answers · asked by Socastee_Angel 2 in Friends

I am in a tricky and difficult situation. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and 1/2. At the beginning,it was great but over time I began to realize that I was slowly changing.I wasn't as outgoing, or fun or just not myself. In all honesty, he is a great guy but we have nothing in common.He doesn't like to be wrong (who does), he doesn't want the same things out of life as I do, always has a different opinion and he doesn't like change. In the relationship, I only see him 2 times a week (if that sometimes) and he lives 10 min down the road. I've only gotten 2 "i love you" in the whole time period of being with him.I know I can be difficult at times and how I come across sometimes. But lately, the spark isn't there, I don't want him to call and I act "tired" when it comes that time. I am seriously thinking of ending it, but do not know if it is the right choice. It is my first big relationship, and am worried I am just being stupid. Should I stay or is it best to end it?

2007-03-14 12:39:07 · 4 answers · asked by baby_sunshine_4eva 2 in Singles & Dating

ok me and my boyfriend have been arguing and thinkin of takin a break but wut can i do to make him see i am like the best gurl for him.becus he hasnt had a gf as good as me.the other ones were whores who slept around.what do i do to make him see that i love him alot and like what would make him start wanting me more.i need help im sorry i some things are mispelled.

2007-03-14 12:38:57 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...what should i say to him?
...for the summer im going to go to orlando . i have a lots of friends and cousins there.

so last summer i met one of my cousins neighbor.one of my cousins told me that their neighbor liked me a lot. it felt kind of weird ...but i liked him to .i was too ashamed to tell him so i said that i did not like him back. afraid of wut would happen cuz i just got out of a relationship

i still like him . and he still likes me but he is convinced that i wanted only to be friends but now this summer that im going back i want to make it different ..and i want to tell him how i feel but im not sure how to say it to him

what should i say???

2007-03-14 12:38:27 · 11 answers · asked by sk8r_princess 3 in Singles & Dating

I went to my moms office today cause it was for a class project and all her friends at work kept treating me like a baby. I was like ummmmm hello I'm not a kid!!!!! weird huh?

2007-03-14 12:37:59 · 3 answers · asked by Amy Ashley 2 in Family

2007-03-14 12:37:52 · 9 answers · asked by robo man 1 in Family

Every time I take a shower I look at my vagina and i want to kiss it but I can't reach it. Please tell me wat I have to do to let me get over my relationship or tell me how I can make it work

2007-03-14 12:37:50 · 12 answers · asked by LOSER64 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 12:37:29 · 6 answers · asked by babygirlmahoney 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, my parents never let me have fun at all....i would just sneak out of the house but i live like 30 minutes away from all my friends. my boyfriend just asked me 2 go on a date with him and i am sooo afraid to ask my parents. Everytime i ask them a simple question they get so freakin mad at me! and i really want to go on this date! This is my first boyfiend ans i am sooo excitied and they don't seem to care. how can i get brave enough to ask them. And if your gonna put something mean and pointless...then don't put it at all because i hate that

2007-03-14 12:37:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I invited them even though I don't really like them, but they didn't show up!!!!!!!!!!!!! Why

2007-03-14 12:36:44 · 8 answers · asked by Amy Ashley 2 in Friends

My roommate will spend hours on end, locked in his bedroom, playing that ridiculous game. Its the first nice day outside and when i leave to go to class then come back, he's in his room... I go out and shoot hoops, come back... in his room. I understand that it is addictive, and people have died from it due to lack of nutrients. I want to help him, but at the same time, not step on any toes. How do I help a friend in need? Or souldn't I help him?

2007-03-14 12:36:29 · 2 answers · asked by runnerguy 2 in Friends

Ok, i like this guy, dakota. He isn't the type of guy u just ask you. here's the story, dakota is sweet deep down. ive seen that side. well, He swears lol to this girl in my math class me and her are friends i think he just does it to impress other people bc i sit right next to him and she sits behind him.but we all laugh after class. but i like him im speachless about it . I turn beat red when im around him. I have the guts to ask him out but its just, i'm a *****, i have the problem of being mean the the guys i like which scares them away i think. Like he came to skool w/ chapped lips and i spread a rumor that he wears lipstick. I know its a serious problem. just help me to solve it plz.but today i was nice and gave him my chips cuz he didnt have enough money to buy lunch lol.

2007-03-14 12:36:13 · 1 answers · asked by JAzZy <3 1 in Singles & Dating

I am totally in love with my husband. So its not that. I love my family. I just have zero patients, zero motivation, zero anything lately. I dont know why. I have had a hard time sleeping. Nothing really sounds good. I dont want to go running. I dont want to watch tv. I just dont want to do much of anything. What the heck!

2007-03-14 12:35:53 · 22 answers · asked by Kari R 5 in Marriage & Divorce