When to break things off?

Question

I am in a tricky and difficult situation. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and 1/2. At the beginning,it was great but over time I began to realize that I was slowly changing.I wasn't as outgoing, or fun or just not myself. In all honesty, he is a great guy but we have nothing in common.He doesn't like to be wrong (who does), he doesn't want the same things out of life as I do, always has a different opinion and he doesn't like change. In the relationship, I only see him 2 times a week (if that sometimes) and he lives 10 min down the road. I've only gotten 2 "i love you" in the whole time period of being with him.I know I can be difficult at times and how I come across sometimes. But lately, the spark isn't there, I don't want him to call and I act "tired" when it comes that time. I am seriously thinking of ending it, but do not know if it is the right choice. It is my first big relationship, and am worried I am just being stupid. Should I stay or is it best to end it?

Answer 1

I feel that you are the best person to answer this question. Every relationship always startbwith a spark and as time goes on the spark will gradually fade away. We cannot tell you if you are right or wrong in ending this relationship. It depends on how you feel this relationship will end.
If you feel that by staying on this relationship, nothing will work out well then it is better to end it earlier than later.
I personally feel that it is better for you and your bf to try to work out something on this relationship first. But the final decision is yours.

Answer 2

You are making me depressed and I don't even know you. End the relationship and get yourself back to the way you were.

Answer 3

just end it sweetheart.

Answer 4

PLEASE HONEY!! Drop him like the hot potatoe he is!!