I have the courage to go up to them and dance. However, when it comes to finishing, I'm just at a loss. What's the best way to mantain her interest, and hopefully go home with her? And, I mean concentually, obviously.
2007-03-14 12:40:01 · 4 answers · asked by taker4life666 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The word is "consensually," buddy, and you better learn it by heart, because it will have a big impact on your college life. Remember:
-females in college are *women*, not girls.
-they are *people*, not walking sex toys or whores.
-they are just as horny as you, believe it or not, but they have different needs when it comes to sex - they need to feel respected and safe, not cajoled and pushed.
Think of it more as you are giving her a chance to express her own sexuality - to whatever degree and in whatever manner she wants, rather than you are trying to see how much you can get before she says stop. Treat her as if she is a beautiful and incredibly sexy woman no matter how much or how little she does with you. This is a very seductive, effective, and sadly under-used method. Dont' ask if if you can go home with her; wait for her to invite you.
As cheesy as it sounds, honesty, humor, and a modest confidence are incredibly attractive in a guy, so focus on that. By the end of the night, ask the girl for her number, if you can take her out the next weekend. Tell her when you'll call (it should be within two days), and call her when you promised to.
2007-03-14 13:01:59 · answer #1 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually have a conversation with them instead of bumping and grinding
2007-03-15 03:03:10 · answer #2 · answered by Tino 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to marry you.
2007-03-14 19:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by Yahoo Con 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get out the beer bong!
2007-03-14 19:42:49 · answer #4 · answered by duvalicious 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋