So...he's amazing, but we're from different lifestyles. He (28yrs) has a bunch of tattoos, and smokes/drinks, which I (24yrs) dabble in as well, but within reason. He doesn't have a plan for himself like I do, and he's in & out of jobs. My parents don't approve MAINLY because he came over on x-mas and made up a few things about his time in the marines, and they caught it. Big negative. I understand he was nervous meeting them, and he has a lot of baggage and skeletons in his closet etc, but I'm so willing to deal with all that and help him be everything he can...and I want him to feel secure if he were to meet my family again.
Basically, I want to ask him to be honest with me about everything...the marines, why he left, what he wants for the future, cause then I can figure out how to approach my parents & how to shape our lives together. I love him more than anything, but if he can't give me that level of a relationship, then I don't know what to do...how do I say this properly
2007-03-14
13:17:22
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