do guys like it when a girl makes the first move?guys please post your opinion. thanks
2007-03-14 13:16:02 · 26 answers · asked by jenny 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some guys do and some don't and some are indifferent. It depends on the guy. Personally I Like women that make the first move. A Confidant woman is right up my alley. I am certain it is not so for all guys. Some guys feel insecure around confidant women. My opinion is too bad for them, and if they have a problem the woman probably shouldn't waste her time on them anyways. That is just my opinion though. I am pretty sure that for guys who think it matters it's around the 50/50 mark. Best bet is to inquire about his past and from his friends to see which sort he is.
2007-03-14 13:21:59 · answer #1 · answered by Malcolm L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES DEFINATELY, if a girl makes the first move then this will set the tone for the rest of the relationship. The guy will feel like he is a 'catch' and probably behave much better. i.e- not being paranoid or over defensive etc etc. If the guy belives hes at least in equal 'leagues' when your going out then the chaces are the relationship will last alot longer and be much happier, as nobody is likely to get insecure about not being good enough for one another...........and in my exprience its us guys who usually do that.
2007-03-14 13:25:22 · answer #2 · answered by G-prince 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont, im old school I love making the first move and if a girl does i would probably say no, unless its kissing or something then those are the moments that just happen but when it comes to asking somebody out let it be a mans job
2007-03-14 13:19:28 · answer #3 · answered by tripp j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys will get offended because its viewed as "non-masculine" if the girl makes the first move. I personally don't mind.
2007-03-14 13:18:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely
2007-03-14 13:18:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this will make no sence, but, It makes us feel not as nervous for you to make the first move because would know how to respond by how you are as if you are ready or not???
2007-03-14 13:23:08 · answer #6 · answered by grab_a_booty_37 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because guys usually fear that the girl would reject the move or that the girl is not ready yet.
2007-03-14 13:21:07 · answer #7 · answered by joey2045 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of Course!
2007-03-14 13:20:50 · answer #8 · answered by Larry T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, it's always nice because it's a compliment. We love it. In fact- girls need to do it more often. Spread the message.
2007-03-14 13:19:21 · answer #9 · answered by chrisser665 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,theres alot of stress making moves.
2007-03-14 13:19:51 · answer #10 · answered by I Bleed Black & Gold 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋