they say im strange because i dont talk with nobody and because i speak slowly, they also say that i eat strangely, walk strangely,etc. why do ppl say that? or what can i do?
2007-03-14 13:16:52 · 17 answers · asked by Euskera 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
IS THAT THE WAY YOU ARE?
IF SO BE PROUD OF THE WAY YOU ARE, IF NOT, TELL THEM TO BACK OFF!!
2007-03-14 13:21:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People may say you are strange. Although.. There is no normal person in this world, because nobody knows what is normal. You must enjoy what you do and how you are not talking to anybody, I know that i love it. I speak very fast and i don't eat many foods, and i love to be on my own and not talking to people. Not even on the phone. There is no definition of normal in the world. Because people just believe in what they think is normal, which could even be in some cases getting tattoos all over their body... Just because you are not like them.. Does not mean you are not "Normal". I hope this helps.XxX
2007-03-15 09:44:36 · answer #2 · answered by charlotte a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"There is no harmony when everyone sings the same note". People are meant to be different. Whether you can help it or not. You are not wierd, you are unique. Those are 2 VERY different things. Things made by God are not different, they are unique. Everything, and everyone. My advice:
1) Pray to God for help
2) Ignore those bullies and give them the pityful look(I went to a bully meeting once in my school, and they said that bullys only bully becasue they want to feel that they have power, they are insecure with themselves, so they bully to get back on their feet; to feel that they have control, so dont pity yourself, pity them, becasue they are the ones who are not into position.)
3) Talk to someone about it. Someone who you can help. Talk it out. It always helps.
I'll pray for you. Pray to God to, because He is one of the best who can help you. He forgives people for their unforgiving sins, He loves. I'm not going to say good luck, because you dont need it. You are you. Be proud of that. Situations could be worse. Think of that. Hope this can help!
2007-03-14 13:49:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beacuse they are a bunch of idiots. They are insecure. Hell with what they or anyone else says. be who you are don't try to be someone who is following a recepie on how to walk talk , eat etc etc.. they are robots and slaves to a flipping system
Are they "optimized" people for society ... B O L L OC K S you be an individual and dont let them put you down.
And Yes I am PEEEEEESSSED off at them now.
2007-03-14 13:25:17 · answer #4 · answered by singing_saagar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel the need to change. Their perception of strangeness is relative to how 'normal' they consider themselves. Most people have certain oddities/ eccentricities in their character. Once you can accept who you are, everything will be ok. Don't worry. As long as you're not harming anyone, there is nothing wrong with you (in my opinion.)
2007-03-15 06:41:32 · answer #5 · answered by Fragile Rock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey Lkol,
i think you should ignore them. just be yourself. people call me strange too because of how i speak etc. you don't purposely do all the things they mentioned just so that you can be different, it is just the way you are. so next time whenever somebody say that you are starange, just do what old_woman_84's suggested, smile and say thanx.
by the way you are not strange.(i'm sure) enjoy life! :-D
2007-03-14 16:31:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget approximately approximately it. that's human nature for human beings to seek for undesirable circumstances. In right this moment's international plenty undesirable stuff is happening that human beings are on pins and needles. i think of what your doing is powerful. infants choose stable, stable human beings to assist them relish life. besides how do those human beings comprehend that are no longer your brothers and sisters? whilst i grow to be sixteen i exploit to hold my neice to the shop with me and positively everyone assumed she grow to be my baby. and that i regarded youthful than what i grow to be. so as that they in all probability theory i grow to be a whore!!
2016-09-30 22:40:17 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them they must be strange if they cannot see how unique you are stuff em they sound strange :)
2007-03-15 01:36:29 · answer #8 · answered by clare w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. If people are undermining your confidence by saying these things don't listen to them, its a form of bullying.
It's how you feel that matters.
2007-03-14 13:25:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different. Please, do not let it bother you. Just tell them that you are original. You wouldn't want to be like everybody else. I know I wouldn't want to be like other people. I am me and you are you.
Just smile at them and say "thank you".
2007-03-14 13:55:14 · answer #10 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Embrace your quirks, and don't give those tossers the oxygen of a responce.
2007-03-15 05:26:32 · answer #11 · answered by christine s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋