Family & Relationships - 12 March 2007

She has decided this in the past, and then sent gift to EVERYONE but me. I don't want a gift, but I think if she makes that decision, she should stick to it. My husband disagrees and says she'll do whatever she wants and he can't control her and he'll still send gifts to her if he wants. I feel like he's slapping me in the face and not standing up for me. What would you do? What do you think?

2007-03-12 16:32:19 · 12 answers · asked by shygirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-12 16:32:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Aside from the ones on here of course. They exist, just none anywhere in the "real world".

2007-03-12 16:31:42 · 24 answers · asked by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 in Singles & Dating

I was very young when I did, and I was wondering if anyone else was as young as I was? Please be honest. Dont lie to sound cool or something like that, and please dont waste my time by preaching to me about how sex is wrong, ok?

2007-03-12 16:31:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I personally get turned on everyday and there are times when i gotta have it all the time and even when i cant get any from a guy i do it myself some people think thats wrong what is ur opinion?>

2007-03-12 16:31:11 · 4 answers · asked by omarionsgirl1983 4 in Singles & Dating

In the last year there has been no intimacy between us, she has lost 30 pounds, she has become mean to me and the kids, she has cut her hair short and yet I don't see where she could have time to be cheating. I don't what to do.

2007-03-12 16:30:34 · 22 answers · asked by ramon 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when i see him and he sees me he smiles at me and says hey, but if we're in public with several other people or a bunch of his friends, he wont talk to me. if i flirt with him he flirts back and he'll watch me walk away when i have to leave. he used to always IM me first and we would talk for hours about nothing, but now he won't even send me a message to say hey. im so confused and i dont know if he likes me or not.

2007-03-12 16:29:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

get tired of always hearing how you're thoughtless,only care about sex, and lots of other not so lovely things that some jaded women say about you? I was just going over some of my old questions when I was confussed and sad about stuff and seeing how many kind and wonderful answers I got from men. Just wanted to say I don't agree with those women. Yes, there are some bad guys out there, but there are bad girls too. Also, wanted to say thank you to the MANY MANY nice,kind,caring, considerate guys out there. The women in your lives are very lucky. : )

2007-03-12 16:27:46 · 5 answers · asked by freedove06 3 in Friends

get tired of always hearing how you're thoughtless,only care about sex, and lots of other not so lovely things that some jaded women say about you? I was just going over some of my old questions when I was confussed and sad about stuff and seeing how many kind and wonderful answers I got from men. Just wanted to say I don't agree with those women. Yes, there are some bad guys out there, but there are bad girls too. Also, wanted to say thank you to the MANY MANY nice,kind,caring, considerate guys out there. The women in your lives are very lucky. : )

2007-03-12 16:27:00 · 13 answers · asked by freedove06 3 in Singles & Dating

my g.f dumped me today we got into yet another argument and she just dumped me i tried asking for one more chance and she refuses, now my g.f is a tough girl she doesnt show emotion and she wont talk about n e thing, i love her dearly and im hurting supper bad she wont evan talk to me what can i do im desperate

2007-03-12 16:26:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I rec'd many responses telling me to get over it, well more details...these things still continue to happen, daily, and as far as knowing him b4 marriage who really does everyone is on their best behavior, and our "dating" consisted of two dates one to dinner and one camping. so im not just dwelling on 3yrs ago, its current happenings. i have had to beg for communication, Its all about him, i have done for him hopin he would see and treat me and touch me the way he wants to be treated , does not work. his idea of romance is a bj?, i can walk into a room naked and he doesnt even notice, he is too busy watching other women mast on web , he acts like he is listening but he doenst really "hear" what im saying. i suggested therapy abt year after marriage and got the reply "well dont spend $10,000 on it? what happened to compromise 50-50 im not "allowed" to even watch tv in bed cuz it disturbs his sleep. yet if i sleep in the guest room he is pissed? i dont understand u men

2007-03-12 16:26:44 · 20 answers · asked by jane d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

for example
confident?
sweet?

be specific please!

2007-03-12 16:25:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are getting separated and I am moving out. We are not legally separated yet, and everyone keeps telling me I am entitled to part of his BAH. Some people say Im only entitled to it until we are legally separated, others say I am only entitled to it after. Ive also heard Im not entitled to it at all. Can anyone clarify this for me?

2007-03-12 16:25:19 · 14 answers · asked by Ashley M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my brother is addicted to drugs and he calls us me and my other brothers and sisters and ask for money, we know it is for the drugs but he says the dealers know where he lives and if he does not pay, than they will hurt him and our family, but if we give him the money he might just buy more drugs, he is in his late 30s, and he feels his life is worthless, filled with failures, he did get his ged, he started hanging out with the wrong crowd as a teenager and I guess he never grew up, he is older than most of my siblings and we constantly worry about him, I worry that he might wind up dead one day, and the worst part is that he does not care if he gets hurt or not, we tell him that he is hurting us and our parents too but he always find a way to get back into trouble, drugs, alcohol, fights, how do I help him?

2007-03-12 16:25:09 · 8 answers · asked by Nina 2 in Family

tomorrow is my birthday and I cannot feel any weirder about it and actually think that I am depressed cuz of it.. Today all of a sudden it hit me.. Has anyone ever felt that?
Why do you think it is...

2007-03-12 16:25:09 · 9 answers · asked by Jackie 4 in Friends

2007-03-12 16:25:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here is the deal: I was top of my Lawschool class, had a great job and then I decided to start teaching instead, sacrificing a great salary for personal satisfaction. I don't regret it one bit. I have helped some of my students overcome things like anorexia and insecurity, but every time my brother calls he says that I am a waste of intelligence and that I shouldn't have gone to Law School only to end up being a teacher.
It hurts like hell, not because I regret my choice, but because he basically thinks I am a loser and a waste of talent.
How would you tell him to just lay off that topic?
He does the same with the baby issue...I am trying to conceive and he calls me every month to see if I am pregnant, which only makes it worse, cause it is beginning to stress me out.

2007-03-12 16:24:46 · 6 answers · asked by White 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

i need an idea for a heroic journey/ story ... PLEASE HELP!!!

2007-03-12 16:24:30 · 2 answers · asked by Delicious! 2 in Friends

so this relationship i had with this guy is complicated to explain.. but basically his best friend 'dumped' me (we were never officially bf/gf) for this other girl. then this guy was there for me to pick up the pieces and he became my really good friend.. and we hung out together. then he told me he Really liked me A Lot.. then i didn't want him to be a rebound cuz i didn't want to hurt him like i had been hurt.. but he continued to like me for like 2 months. then i realized i did have Real feelings for him too. so we went on our first date-amazing.. and he was all touchy/cuddly and stuff on it, and told me after he had wanted to hold my hand all night but wasn't sure if i wanted it. then on the day we were going to have our 2nd date he says basically: i like someone else. (which days before he had told Me he reallly liked me). but what doesn't make sense is that he said he thought it was ok to date multiple girls at once.. so that means it was just ME actually right..?! i don't get it

2007-03-12 16:24:09 · 1 answers · asked by coolio 4 in Singles & Dating

dresses, tuxedoes, invitations, and decorations

2007-03-12 16:22:52 · 9 answers · asked by Trouble 1 in Weddings

the kids she means her four kids and their spouses and the eight grand kids. My son is only 16 months old and I feel this is a wasted trip. Not only will he not remember it or be able to do many things (he can't even walk yet), I will have to take a week off of work and a quarter off of school in order to drive the 700+ miles to get there. Once we are there, it will be a nightmare because when we take a long trip, my son gets "off-schedule" and cranky. I suggested everyone go without us. Everyone thinks I'm a spoil-sport because I think we should wait until the kids (ages 4 months, 16 months, 2, 3, 4, 5, 9, 12) are a little older. What do you guys think?

2007-03-12 16:22:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Well there is this girl that I liked for a while, we always talk at school and sometimes "flirt"? ahh I don't know what to do. Like we NEVER see each other out of school and we are like total opposite but I don't even know if she likes me. I want to let her know I like her but I don't actually say it. Im really shy.

2007-03-12 16:22:46 · 13 answers · asked by xplosive012 1 in Singles & Dating

Imagine that you take you ex-girlfirend (but still love her and plan on getting back with her in the future) to a bar and guys are hitting on her right and left. How would you feel? This happened to me and my ex-boyfirend said go dance, have fun. but I could tell he really didn't want me to and he stayed with me the whole night. how do you think he felt? how would you feel?

2007-03-12 16:21:35 · 6 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Singles & Dating

I am going to Davids Bridal in a few days and I was wondering if anyone has purchased one of their Davids Bridal Woman wedding gowns. I can wear anything from a size 18 to a size 24. (the size 24 seems to always run big on me though) I have a big chest and big hips and I am just worried that they won't have a good fit for me!

2007-03-12 16:21:27 · 18 answers · asked by Bunny83 2 in Weddings

2007-03-12 16:21:17 · 13 answers · asked by RANDA G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And if so, do you think it's natural/healthy?

2007-03-12 16:20:55 · 9 answers · asked by Casey 4 in Singles & Dating

hey, im in highschool and in love with a college guy. we are so meant for eachother. we want to get married, but we have to wait till i get out of highschool. do we have to take a test to get married? is that for all marrage? is there a certain age when you dont need to take the test? what happens if you fail the test? whats the point of the test? oh also is getting married in such a young age bad as people say it is?

2007-03-12 16:20:47 · 12 answers · asked by Curious 1 in Weddings

guys if you received a box of chocolates from a secret admirer. How would you act toward people you might think it is. This guy acts like I'm one of the people he thinks it is. He acted really happy and sweet at first and then he acted grouchy and now he's acting nervous and seems like he can't look at me. Why would a guy act this way does he think I'm repulsive or something?

2007-03-12 16:20:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What about someone from the opposite sex? I would date a woman, or a person of the opposite race if I had real feelings for them.

2007-03-12 16:19:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my question is simple. I am wondering if anyone thinks there is hope for a soon to be single mom of four that is 35 years old. By hope I mean for a relationship with a decent guy? Every man I meet shy's away from the thought of a woman with 4 kids? Be nice but let me know what you think could help or if there is no hope left

2007-03-12 16:19:23 · 15 answers · asked by jst4me 1 in Singles & Dating