get tired of always hearing how you're thoughtless,only care about sex, and lots of other not so lovely things that some jaded women say about you? I was just going over some of my old questions when I was confussed and sad about stuff and seeing how many kind and wonderful answers I got from men. Just wanted to say I don't agree with those women. Yes, there are some bad guys out there, but there are bad girls too. Also, wanted to say thank you to the MANY MANY nice,kind,caring, considerate guys out there. The women in your lives are very lucky. : )
2007-03-12 16:27:00 · 13 answers · asked by freedove06 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To Butterfly.......not trying to pick up any men. Just being nice. Try it sometime. ; )
2007-03-12 16:33:02 · update #1
Nope, not wrong. Just not jaded as some women (and men) answering this. Just take some deep breaths and it's all good. ; )
2007-03-12 16:38:45 · update #2
I'm sorry Clemintine, but I'm not jaded. I wouldn't have thanked all the nice guys out there if I was. Sure wouldn't have been brave enough to say if I didn't mean it. (Trust me, getting the aftermath from the jaded females)
2007-03-12 16:56:53 · update #3
Yeah sometimes I do get tired of hearing how bad men are. But here's what I do to get over that:::I always use the skills that my mother taught me as a young man growing up and that is treat all women with kindness. I respect all women because they are somebody's daughter and I would not want my daughter (if I had one) to be treated badly. I do everything that I can in life to discredit the myth about men in this world and to prove to women that chivalry is not dead. Not all of use hit women, cheat on women, have 9 baby mama's, have a criminal record, on drugs.....Need I continue? There are good men in this world and women who have been done wrong by a man can't blame all men for one man's actions.
2007-03-12 16:45:21 · answer #1 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You said it!
I for one am sick and tired of some women saying that "all" men are terrible! Indeed some men are real jerks - and some men are really decent, and most of us are somewhere in between.
And that's true of women too (and, confession here, at times I've been one of those guys who's griped about how terrible "all women" are - and I'm man enough to admit I was wrong!!!)
And, reality check - a lot of women who complain about "alll men" always date jerks, and never give nice guys a chance!!
The same is true of men - a lot of the guys who complain about "all women" are always drawn to the female jerks and never give the nice girls a second look!!
So it's a self fulfilling prophesy, on both sides of the gender line!!!
2007-03-12 23:36:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think that for every one guy that does us wrong that we blame another 5 for being dogs for that reason.
it's not right, but it goes both ways. i can't tell you how many guys i hear say that women are heartless, and they 'walked out on me'
we all let out our frustrations. when i am happy i write nicely. when i am upset the opposite.
when i like 'boys' i tell the world. when i hate them, same.
but yeah, you are right there are good guys out there. alot of times they are just hiding.....LOL
2007-03-12 23:36:55 · answer #3 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea right your probably one of those there women........and it really really bothers us nice guys when you constantly go for the "bad guys" who arent worth a dam(not that i know them personaly but you know what i mean) thats the main reason most guys turn to jerks.............you get no where being a nice guy................
2007-03-12 23:50:29 · answer #4 · answered by Clementine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you sweet. And you no doubt are a blessing to some guy too.
2007-03-12 23:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by GoodGuy53 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes im very happy-thanx baby-i know you'll read this! lol
2007-03-12 23:32:30 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should listen to them, because we mostly are like that. We try to be kind, caring, and considerate, but eventually all we want is sex.
2007-03-12 23:30:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
lol ur very wrong. even some guys admitted it. i guess you havent met enough guys to know
2007-03-12 23:36:09 · answer #8 · answered by cierra 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Best woman I have in my life is the one I have now.. NONE LOL
2007-03-12 23:30:45 · answer #9 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Thank you very much!
2007-03-12 23:29:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋