how to get my girlfriend back?

Question

my g.f dumped me today we got into yet another argument and she just dumped me i tried asking for one more chance and she refuses, now my g.f is a tough girl she doesnt show emotion and she wont talk about n e thing, i love her dearly and im hurting supper bad she wont evan talk to me what can i do im desperate

Answer 1

The last thing u wanna do is chase and grovel. She'll have loads more respect for you (and curiosity) if you back away completely.....go find something to take ur mind off it. It'll be hard, but if u continue to pursue her, you'll push her even further away. Chicks don't dig weak-looking men. So stay away while you're hurting. This is where your mates show their real value. Good mates should be able to take ur mind off any woman any time.

Then, maybe in a week or two, call her to see how she is.

Answer 2

How about making an effort to show that you are really sorry for offending her?
If you play too hard to get she may assume you are playing away and caused the argument on purpose.
That may encourage her to look elsewhere.
It's not always the case that absence makes the heart grow fonder.
You could always write a letter,send a card or flowers something that takes a little time and effort to show you care.
Put up a fight (in a nice way,) show some guts.
What have you got to lose?

Answer 3

If only there was some kind of super ultimate mind changing device that we had that could change the minds of the ones we love and lose, so easily. Weigh out the options. Maybe sometimes the hardest thing and the right thing to do are the same. If you honestly want her back and know that the love is genuine then prove to her. Show her that you love her and you wont go down without a fight just dont get your hopes up. I was once in the same situation and after 8 months of suffering and trying to prove that I really did love him, he shut me down. Dont go down without giving it all you have.

Answer 4

The best thing to do mate is give her space!! It aint gonna help if you are in her face trying to patch things up. If she is stubborn enough not to talk then leave her to come round in her own time. Its hard and it hurts but you will gain alot more respect this way. Time will tell, if your girlfriend really loves you and there is a chance for a reconciliation then it will happen in due course, if not, depending on what the argument was about, then you will have to respect her decision and get on without her Im afraid. Time heals and maybe in time she will talk, GOOD LUCK XX

Answer 5

Make her a scrapbook of your relationship or a photo collage. Anything really that you put some effort into will at least make her consider speaking with you again. When you get the chance to speak with her lay it all out on the table, feelings & all. If she doesn't respond the way you want her to, move on, there are plently of fish in the sea. Life is too short to waste but you don't want to miss the chance to try to make amends.

Answer 6

Give her some space. Some girls like to know that a guy is hurting over them. Let her know that you really love her, but will let her go if that is what she wants. After that, dont contact her, if she wants you she'll come around. Never show desperation, it's just an opportunity to get taken advantage of.

Answer 7

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Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.

The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.

Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.

Answer 8

Give her a day to cool down fro starters.then get her a card to say sorry - the biggest you can lay your hands on.flowers, something like roses will do & maybe a big box of chocs.
Tell her you're sorry.get down on bended knees to show you mean it.promise her you'll try to never hurt her again -ever
Tell her you love her more than anything in the world & can't live without her.It worked for me.Good luck!

Answer 9

write a little letter to her, telling her how you feel, contact her and explain to her that even though she dumped you, you would like to give her this letter, just say look i have to give it to you, please take it home and read it by yourself and if you still don't want to get back together i'll understand. be very matter of fact with her, don't go all mushy when you see her, no begging, the less interested you appear the more appealing you'll become, don't contact her after you give her this letter, let her contact you. i know it feels like your world is falling apart but i think this might work. give it a go and the best of luck mate

Answer 10

Just give her some time and spce to cool off and let her come to you. I'm sure she's just angry right now but once she's calmer she'll be more open to reason. Good Luck.