How to I let a girl know I like her?

Question

Well there is this girl that I liked for a while, we always talk at school and sometimes "flirt"? ahh I don't know what to do. Like we NEVER see each other out of school and we are like total opposite but I don't even know if she likes me. I want to let her know I like her but I don't actually say it. Im really shy.

Well she does flirt well not really but talk to other guys but its just different for me I just don't know how to tell. this sounds kind of corny but around her I act like a complete idiot and make a fool out of myself. IM WAY TO SHY AND I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO! and I have one class with her right now, ENGLISH we have to do a play right now but we are in differnet groups....

haha I keep thinking of more things, well in class I used to sit beside here and I would notice she would stare at me while I took notes. And when I would fall asleep she would figure out a way to wake me up. She would lightly slap my arm when I made fun of her. I would stare her in the eyes and she would think we were having a staring contest and I would always smile at her.

Answer 1

Just come right out and ask her to lunch with you, or something. If she's waiting for you to make the move, and you don't make a move, then it'll never happen.

Answer 2

Hello. Actually, I'm kind of a girl who wishes someone would do what you are currently trying to do. So here's how I'd like a guy at school to tell me that he likes me.
First off, I'd want some sort of hint; make sure you talk to her a lot, take time when you could be talking to your guy friends to talk to her, and (I don't mean this in an inappropriate way) try to use some physical contact. Hugs, even brushes of the arm can help. Always look into her eyes when you talk to her, and be CONFIDENT! That's important.
When you tell her, don't worry about being shy. Actually, shy guys are adorable. It shows you have emotions. Tell her by herself, not with a group of friends, and try not to make her feel "forced" to say something. Just tell her something like "I wanted to tell you that I like you." It doesn't have to be too complex, because it's awkward enough without a long speech.
I hope this helps a little! Good luck!

Answer 3

This is how my current boyfriend (my second) told me he liked me/asked me out:

He sent me a text message saying "Meet me at my house at 5pm." So I went over to his house and he blindfolded me and lead me somewhere. It was a few blocks away so it wasn't really far. Then the next thing I knew he had me sitting on the ground still blindfolded. When he took the blindfold off, there was a CD player, two champagne glasses, a blanket we were sitting on and it was sunset. He started playing "Poetically Pathetic" by Amber Pacific, my favorite song. We were laying on our sides facing each other when he asked me "the question." "Miah, will you go out with me and be my lawfully girlfriend?" All I could do is smile at his romantcism and sweetness. I said yes inevitably. We then made out and talked until dark. We've been together for 6 months so far.

This is how my first boyfriend told me he liked me/asked me out:

I will never know to this day how Taylor arranged this but he asked me to go the mall with him after school one day and we had just done some hardcore shopping and we went to the food court to get something to eat. We had ordered from FUSA and then went to sit down. About 5 minutes later
music starts playing all throughout the mall and its "Are You Gonna Be My Girl" by Jet. Then there's this person from DQ coming up holding an ice cream cake and sets it down on our table. There was a message in frosting on it saying, "Are you gonna be my girl? Love, Taylor" and I took my finger and spread some frosting on his lips and kissed him. He took it as a "yes." We were together for 14 months.


But if you're short on $$ just be as romantic as possible. Try to do it publicly in front of her friends. Read her something sweet but not stupid. Play music if you can. Just be romantic and sincere.

Answer 4

the only way to know is to get to know her. maybe ask her to chill out with you, or do something. That's the whole purpose of dating, to figure out what the other person is like. Just be careful of ur being "total opposite", as u said. Get to know her, and find common ground. If you turn on some charm, then you won't have to worry about her saying no, and if there's anything b/w u, then she'll say yes the next time you ask her out. Don't be shy! Girls like confidence!

Answer 5

Try calling her outside of school, if you already don't, and when talking to each other on the phone isn't awkward, or becomes a regular-basis kind of thing, ask her out. If she goes to the movies or something, she probably likes you too. In the mean time drop a few hints on her in school. She will probably get the point and might already like you!

Answer 6

rather than focusing on telling her you like her start by seeing her out of school.. one day when your talking mention what your doing after school ... ex: " oh man i forgot i have to go get a new (item) from ( a store), hey would you like to come down with me? i hate going to town alone its no fun" just something causal... if she says no lay off if she says yes hang out with her and get to know her better before deciding to tell her you like her... after all you might not know her as well as you think! dont worry about being shy just be yourself the worst that can happen is she dosen't like you like that... at least you wernt pretending to be something your not (which is what alot of people do to try and make someone like then)... either way good luck :)

Answer 7

very carefully...

try to become more comfortable around her first...maybe suggest going somewhere with a group of friends outside of school first, then try just the 2 of you, see where that goes

if she agrees to that, she probably likes you, so try to make plans that are casual and simple but romantic enough to get the message to her and tell her
i suggest a park by a lake, something that is withdrawn from the city

Answer 8

ok, so pretty much the same thing is happening to me right now, but if the guy would just TELL me he likes me if he does, I would be VERy happy. As a girl in this situation, I think it would improve (the situation) by just telling her already! Good luck!

Answer 9

Just Be Like i was wondering if u wanted to go out to a moive or something just start hanging out with her and get to know her and ask her if she likes u and then tell her u like her

Answer 10

ask her 2 dance. it doesnt mean ur going out