when i see him and he sees me he smiles at me and says hey, but if we're in public with several other people or a bunch of his friends, he wont talk to me. if i flirt with him he flirts back and he'll watch me walk away when i have to leave. he used to always IM me first and we would talk for hours about nothing, but now he won't even send me a message to say hey. im so confused and i dont know if he likes me or not.
2007-03-12 16:29:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he won't even send you a message, I'd call that a very clear signal. It's possible he's just not that into you.
2007-03-12 16:32:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i dont feel hes into you, i think hes just sayin hey as a friend and doesnt want to be any more involved then that, i mean he wont talk to you around other people that there speaks for itself, women pls dont let men treat you this way stand up to em, they need to be put in their place, why is it men can treat us so bad and think its ok but if we did it we feel really bad, cause men have no heart thats why. he shouldnt be treating you this way friend or vice versa, just let him be and find other male friend or another bf. men like him isnt worth the time of day
2007-03-12 16:37:47 · answer #2 · answered by MOVIE BUFF 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He liked you, but now he thinks that you're a psycho. He's kind to you in private so that you won't stab him or shoot him or something like that. In public he feels safer, so he isn't as afraid to show his lack of interest in you. He watches you walk away to make sure that you're really gone so he can feel completely safe. It's either that, or he's just some insecure guy who likes you but doesn't want to show it in front of his friends. Either way, your best bet is to leave him and join a gun club. You're sure to meet lots of secure, even-tempered men there.
2007-03-12 16:37:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
seem, you 2 are no longer even courting and you're jealous? what's up with that? you have no longer even asked her out and dated long sufficient to circulate unique and you choose to regulate who she hangs with? in case you're this controlling it appears like this female won't positioned up with you for long. what's incorrect with going some days without texting you? She is unfastened to do or no longer do despite the fact that she likes. you're no longer her husband. If a woman acted such as you're, men may well be calling her needy, clingy, and an entire host of nasty names. So, my suggestion is relax. you're thank you to up in this female's stuff. that's no longer healthful for you nor will it help you in case you choose to be round her. whether she does make you jealous, be cool. Act such as you ought to care much less. it is your job to textual content textile her, no longer any different way around. you ought to textual content textile her first. yet you ought to have another pastimes that occupy your concepts and time. It seems such as you have some shallowness themes to artwork out. Yeah, ask her out, yet you do no longer very own her whether you have some dates. At 17, you do no longer choose to be so involved by yet another individual. There are going to be plenty extra ladies and lots extra dates and lots extra years earlier than courting so relax and have relaxing.
2016-11-24 23:46:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he does like you but his embarrased maybe. The whole talking to you while it just you two and not while your around people indicates this. But as he has changed and is not messaging ya maybe his confused on his emotions too. Why dont you do what i do and ask him flat out do you like me or not...
2007-03-12 16:37:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are not stupid who ever said that is a douche
Look it sounds like he may be a lil tired of giving sweetness and he wants a little back. Try being sweet before he has the chance
2007-03-12 16:35:51 · answer #6 · answered by Stupendous Man! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he's lost interest. He is merely being polite, but isn't going out of his way to inter-act with you. I would write him off as an aquaintance only.
2007-03-12 16:33:58 · answer #7 · answered by xobacookies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He figures you just wanna be friends.
Its not mixxed signals at all. If you dont tell him you wanna go out WITH HIM, how is he meant to know?
MEN ARE STUPID.
Women assume we understand them. Trust me. We dont.
2007-03-12 16:32:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate it when guys do this. He is basically playing hard to get. My boyfriend did this to me before we started dating, so I went face to face with him and asked him "do you like me?" He said yes, maybe its the same situation for you, just ask him.
2007-03-12 16:36:42 · answer #9 · answered by Runner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is wondering the same about you. Maybe he figures if you do like him, you will go after him.
2007-03-12 16:33:36 · answer #10 · answered by Woody 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋