Family & Relationships - 9 March 2007

im writing a few things to enter in a creative writing competition with no limits on the number of entries per person and has very loose criteria. The one im working on now is a... im not sure what it is.. i guess a story... about what i would do if i only had one day left...

does this sound like a good idea? i mean.. i have the worst luck and my life is a big irony full of deja vu and freaky coincidences... i mean.. i dont want to like... jinx myself...

which leads me to my next thing... its a something (i guess another story) about the nightmares i've been having for months and how afraid i am for all of my friends and how im so scared that every time i say goodbye it will be the last.. i mean...

does it really seem like a good idea to toy with fate just to try to win the $100 prize money?

i'm beginning to think not...

any ideas?

2007-03-09 13:11:22 · 2 answers · asked by janna w 2 in Friends

I mostly want the ladies' opinion on this.

Anytime I see an attractive woman with a nice butt I find myself fantasizing about rimming them - I just love rimming a fine assed woman. Does this make me a pervert?

Some women I've dated really love it but some of them are revolted at the very thought of it. Fact is, I simply can't be with a woman who won't let me munch her butt. Is this wierd?

2007-03-09 13:11:20 · 3 answers · asked by Arthur J 1 in Singles & Dating

Dear Readers

I am a fairly normal looking, tall and lanky/scrawny 15 year old. All my life I have had difficulties with relationships, mostly because I don't buy into the whole American teenage concept of casual hookups and stuff... I like people to actually have some substance. So mostly I stay aloof and alone, sharing my thoughts with a select few females who one could only call friends, not girlfriends.

Yet in my orchestra I have met a girl who seems to be interested in the same dimension of relationships I am. She is good-looking and very intelligent, a bit on the quirky side. For example, she often spends breaks in her school's library, randomly pulling philosophy books of the shelves and reading them. Just the kind of substance I desire... but here's the rub:

She's a college freshman. I'm a high school senior.

I'm not exactly sure what her age is, but I know she's at least 17. She's only going there part time. I know these relationships can work other way, but your opinion?

2007-03-09 13:10:41 · 8 answers · asked by sam_we_is 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so like with my other questions my gf who is 15 wants a baby and me I'm about to start college in the fall. Well yesterday she told me she wanted a baby right before we were about to you know and that stopped me from doing it and I tryed talking to her about it. Well today I went to her house to talk to her more about it and tell her that I'm not ready for one but someway somehow we ended up doing it with a condom and after everything was done I damn near crapped myself cuz I realized what just happened. So after it was done she kissed me and said "thanks hun you can go now till tomorrow when we try again" I'm like what the f... How in the world did she break me down that quick cuz I mean I came in there strong and ready to tell her no and then that happened. What should I do? What is her deal?

2007-03-09 13:10:34 · 7 answers · asked by spayhappy 4 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I am Lori's husband, I have had a problem showing my wife I love her for about the last 5-6 years. She finally got fed up after years of trying to make me understand. By the time I opened my eyes as too what my problem was and started reading books and trying to fix it, she had pretty much given up on me. She had prayed that I would wake up and now that I have she says it is too late. Can a woman open her heart to the same person again after he has hurt her that long? She knows she still loves me but fears I would revert back to my old ways once I gwt comfortable with our relationship. She says if she could open up I would be the best husband she could ask for at this point. The last 6 months have been a real eye opener for me. She has agreed to go to a biblical counsler to see if she can overcome her fear. If not, she will be gone. What can I do? She is so scared of me and I love her with all my heart. I would love to hear from another woman who has overcome the same situation.

2007-03-09 13:09:47 · 15 answers · asked by 0000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-09 13:08:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love her to death so please dont be negative and say move on because deep inside I know she is the one there is not one day goes by and I wouldn't think about her....so please be unique and creative whats that one thing that would melt her and would take me back?! thank you in advance!

2007-03-09 13:08:53 · 6 answers · asked by Mike s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My son has been accused of child abuse in the state of Illinois. He was suppossd to have made a bruise about the size of a quarter on the leg of his step-daughter. His lawyer has told him he is confident that the judge will declare the case "unfounded". Being the pessimist that I am, I still wonder what if. So my question is this, what kind of punishment could he receive if the judge still thinks abuse happened. My son has never had anything like this happen before. He has no record of any kind. The step-daughter has told DCFS several times there was no abuse. The biological father though keeps pushing the case. Could they make my son leave the home? Could they possibly have him take parenting classes or something like that instead? Thank you for your time and answers.

2007-03-09 13:08:52 · 3 answers · asked by redjamesjr 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-09 13:08:46 · 8 answers · asked by likeold74 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He broke up with me before because of arguing, is he worth the time anymore?

2007-03-09 13:08:17 · 7 answers · asked by Music Is My Life!!!!! 2 in Singles & Dating

say u like this boy and he likes u.and yall are feelin each other in some way and yall want 2 go out with each other as boyfriend and girlfriend maybe,but the problem is u'll wont see him like that.only at school and at lunch and maybe on weekends if u can.what should i do?how can u exlpain that 2 him and do u kno if a guy is really feelin u?

2007-03-09 13:07:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Anyone have a partner or a spouse that is soo cheap, their butt squeaks. My hubby won`t buy me anything for valentine`s day, but he`ll buy himself "stuff " for his hobby car. I told him, I miss going out on dates and him treating me to little things, like perfume. But he told me he just took me out last weekend to his buddies....Hmm, his friend bought the drinks, and he said he was treating me..Why are men like this? They wonder why the don`t get it in bed...

2007-03-09 13:07:23 · 15 answers · asked by lost2day 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Is Susan in love with Gary? 2 people in the office were spreading around that Susan is in love with Gary. Susan is 63 years old and Gary is 35 years old. Susan confronted gossiper #1. 5 days later, Gary spoke to Susan about the situation. Susan didn't say anything. 20 minutes later, Susan confronted gossiper#2.
Gossiper#2 was left stressed and scared.
Gary and Susan are still friends. Both of them did not run away from each other.

3 days later, the gossipers threatened Gary.

Is Susan in love with Gary?
Why did the gossipers threatened Gary?

2007-03-09 13:07:17 · 3 answers · asked by carol 1 in Singles & Dating

I was fine after the break up of my 14 year relationship. It has been 2 months. But ever since I found out he is with an ex girlfriend of his, I am freaking out!!!! I can't stop obsessing about our relationship and why he left me and the kids. All I do is ask questions about on here. I can't stop. I want to!! Help? I feel like I am acting crazy!

2007-03-09 13:07:03 · 6 answers · asked by Teslajuliet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-09 13:07:02 · 9 answers · asked by rich s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So how come its not ok when you are older? In fact, you women say that I'm a pervert for thinking this way. What gives?

Read this before you critisize:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ArWwyNWEkGaj8BJYaPDshPcAAAAA?qid=20070309174643AAJSTDE&show=7#profile-info-phSujJBYaa

These are the words coming right out of you women's mouths.

2007-03-09 13:06:45 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Last night I sent this guy I have been flirting with a text at 11:30pm and said, "I can't sleep and I just wanted to say hello, when do you think you are going to take a cruise, and see all the hot women on the ship, and I can tell you a 100 ways to have fun on a cruise". I am a travel agent and I wanted him to get the hint that the hot women were me, do you think he got the message?

2007-03-09 13:06:36 · 1 answers · asked by Leema 1 in Singles & Dating

want to break up with him? I never really liked him. I, well, "admired" him once but that was only because he's genius smart. But then I found out he liked me and I guess I was caught up with the "idea" of him. He asked me out I said yes, but he is soooo blase, omg SO BORING. and Well I wanna break up with him, but let him down easy. mind you, I'm his first girlfriend eek. and well I feel really bad for being uch a first girlfriend, but i REALLY find that I don't like him at all at least not romantically. HELP!!!

2007-03-09 13:06:14 · 10 answers · asked by goesonyahooanswerswhenbored 3 in Singles & Dating

Everything I do is wrong. I try to be positive, and still all I hear is that I'm so damn negative.
Example:
She was going to be late from work this evening, and I told her I understood. She said it wasn't going to be more than 30 minutes. I was okay with that, but 1 hour later she's not home, and she hasn't called.
Am I wrong for being upset? I am the type of person that once I realize the circumstances have changed, I contact my mate and inform her of the change. Is this "checking in"? or is it courtisy?

Please help. I can't figure it out on my own.

2007-03-09 13:06:07 · 9 answers · asked by weazle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What do most people do on their wedding night, and what to do on your wedding night

2007-03-09 13:05:34 · 25 answers · asked by coolmanram1 1 in Weddings

I want someone special to relate and possibly marry.

My contact is eabavare@yahoo.com, eabavare@mns.com.

Iam 31 and respondent should be at least 24yr and above and not more than 30. Thank you.

2007-03-09 13:04:57 · 5 answers · asked by eabavare 1 in Singles & Dating

any advice? plz?

2007-03-09 13:04:51 · 8 answers · asked by alkdfjlkasdjlkdf 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 13:04:15 · 21 answers · asked by lilabs324 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 13:02:57 · 10 answers · asked by The best I can do 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-09 13:02:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend has a total crush on this guy. I liked him since he moved here but my best friend was going out with him cuz shes known him longer. Now I like him and so does my other friend but shes not my best friend. What should I do?

2007-03-09 13:02:08 · 6 answers · asked by Rachel 1 in Friends

2007-03-09 13:01:58 · 11 answers · asked by one_man_show_clear 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this guy at school two months ago and we are going on a date next Sat. night, and this will be my first date. So how far is it ok to go? As in holding hands or stuff like that.

2007-03-09 13:01:55 · 17 answers · asked by kelly 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy I like. Problem is, he has a girlfriend. I mean yeah I see him looking at me but he is doing nothing to really show me he likes me back. So 1, how do I know if he likes me at all. And 2, how do I get the, hopefully would-be, relationship to go somewhere. I am in a bind here.

2007-03-09 13:01:53 · 6 answers · asked by Momiji-chan 2 in Singles & Dating

I got 4 contacts, 2 friends. What can I do to get you to add me?

2007-03-09 13:01:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends