So how come its not ok when you are older? In fact, you women say that I'm a pervert for thinking this way. What gives?
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These are the words coming right out of you women's mouths.
2007-03-09 13:06:45 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
by young, I assume that you mean at least 18. While I wouldn't exactly say that its right, I would say if you don't, you will wish you did one day. I am 40 and been married for 12 years to the only woman I ever slept with. While that sounds good in story books, I can tell you it sucks to be 40 and never sowed a single wild oat. I'm full to the brim with wild oats I never sowed back when I was young. It's like going to Baskin Robbins Ice cream for 12 years in a row and always choosing vanilla. Now vanilla is nice and I like it. But one day, I woke up and realized how many other flavors there were out there that I never tried. And now its too late to try other flavors. I'm stuck with vanilla. Now I would give anything to be young and single and free again. I would sow my wild oats till I didnt have a single one left. So like I said, its probably not right or moral, but young people, get busy cause one day you will be old like me and full of wild oats with no way to sow them.
Oh, if you are getting busy, please always always use protection.
2007-03-09 15:02:51 · answer #1 · answered by alanpvr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Joe
When we are young we don't know what we want, so we tend to move quite quickly through partners, a natural way to get perspective. Once we are older, we should know what we like and try and get it. If that is sleeping with lots of women, then good luck to you, but personally i find far more fulfillment from being really choosy and getting to know the ones i really like.
When I was 15 I had a girl nearly pregnant and I decided if it happened I would stay with the mother. So from then on I only chose women I thought I could have a kid with.
I tell you now, it kept the standard high and i have been lucky enough to know some very lovely people.
Good luck .
2007-03-09 13:19:33 · answer #2 · answered by Willie Wonky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's about growing up and maturing. Young people sleep around and put themselves at risk because they may not have the life knowlegde to know any better, but an adult should be smarter than that. Not to say you can't sleep around, it's just a healthy lifestyle to have these days. Only a trained professional can dishern whether or not you are a pervert, perhaps you are clinging to your youth for some reason.
2007-03-09 14:00:17 · answer #3 · answered by MsTrust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sleep around, date. dating and having sex are totally different. your not a pervert for thinking that way, your just taking things a bit out of context. And actually i feel that it more OK for single older men to sleep around then young men, especially 15 year olds.
2007-03-09 14:42:39 · answer #4 · answered by shabyc411 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its okay only if your using protection, and its the same for older men know if your married then its wrong at any age.
2007-03-09 14:23:00 · answer #5 · answered by none 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it is if you want to get aids or some other sexually transmitted disease !!!
2007-03-09 14:00:23 · answer #6 · answered by lovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you are interested in catching sexually transmitted diseases.
2007-03-09 13:12:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Joe B rocks!!!!!!!
2007-03-09 13:58:19 · answer #8 · answered by krumpmaster terrell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grump! calm down!
2007-03-09 13:14:53 · answer #9 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is never ok.....young or older.
2007-03-09 13:38:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋