Family & Relationships - 9 March 2007

One thing I have learned here that I never learned in a couple decades of being single. Women think having eye contact with a guy is some kind of giant hint. Wow, you should have let guys in on that secret. Ok, it might work if you want to attract players, anything is a hint to a hustler. But to the rest of us you are just another person making eyecontact, like that granny, or any large number of other people who are obviously not 'interested' and sending a signal.

2007-03-09 13:23:17 · 7 answers · asked by tenbadthings 5 in Singles & Dating

I've been thinking about cutting my hair really short, but I don't want to make a big mistake (right now it's mid-back).

2007-03-09 13:23:16 · 3 answers · asked by Revelation S 4 in Singles & Dating

I don't want anything that includes any part of my name or where I live. I would love this to be as unique as possible but very catchy. Thanks for any brainstorming help!!

2007-03-09 13:22:40 · 19 answers · asked by Tara J 1 in Weddings

2007-03-09 13:22:34 · 5 answers · asked by Tiffany R 1 in Friends

Why do women forgive infidelity in a marriage? I've heard all the excuses. . . vows are better or worse (last time I checked they're also forsaking all others), he's changed (once a cheater?), it was my fault I wouldn't do things with him or I was too tired to do it so he had to go elsewhere. I've also heard the excuse that it takes more courage and strength to stay than to leave (from someone who's been there. . .leaving is damn near the hardest thing I ever did). So as I was sitting here reading different questions that women left asking whether or not they made a mistake in giving their cheating husband a second chance, I read alot of answers from other women that said "no, I gave my cheating husband a second chance too." Why is it that women forgive so easily and don't feel that their self-respect and the respect from hubby has been compromised?

2007-03-09 13:22:32 · 16 answers · asked by ricksgrl2005 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I really really realy like this guy. He cheated on me b4 though. But i still like him. All my friends yell at me when i go out with him and I get SOO mad! I really do like him but idk if hes gonna cheat on me again which he probably won't cuz he doesn't like anyone else except my best friend...but she hates him...HELP!

2007-03-09 13:22:21 · 5 answers · asked by Rachel 1 in Singles & Dating

like do you suck something or something like that?

2007-03-09 13:21:43 · 9 answers · asked by marie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-09 13:21:24 · 12 answers · asked by chelse d 2 in Family

i separated from my gf to show her that i wanted to be with her. we were intimate while i was still with my gf and we had this incredibly strong connection that was unbelievable. i had no real hold over her so she would sometimes go out w/guys. but she would tell me that i was the one she really wanted to be with. she said she knew she would never find someone that made her feel the way i made her feel. i told her i felt the same but i felt obligated to my gf. two weeks later i left my gf of many yrs. for the past 3 weeks, she had been going out w/ this guy who is completely not good enough for her, her words not mine. but now after i've done all this to show her i want to be with her, she tells me it's too late. i don't get this sh*t. how is love ever too late? it's not like she's been w/him for that long. and she won't admit she still carries these feelings for me, why? knowing women, i believe this statement has many hidden meanings, but i can't figure them out. what do you think?

2007-03-09 13:20:43 · 2 answers · asked by optcynbassist 3 in Singles & Dating

colors are that basically against the "attending a wedding law"? lol
what colors SHOULD i wear?
thanks for the help!

2007-03-09 13:20:28 · 32 answers · asked by Lacey 4 in Weddings

i like details

2007-03-09 13:20:27 · 13 answers · asked by nick e 1 in Singles & Dating

she's stalking me becuase she used to be with this guy i was seeing for a while and me and the guy are not on good terms right now for a month so we have'nt been around each other and she's been stalking me on and off by my job on the marine base since september i've tried to ignore it and i can't. i'm not talking to the guy so why is she's still stalking me trying to start something?

2007-03-09 13:19:38 · 17 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really like him but it's like he's afraid to ask me out.And everytime I see him,he's either with his boyz or with some girl.WHAT SHOULD I DO??!!!

2007-03-09 13:19:00 · 8 answers · asked by keke 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I decided a long time ago that we wanted to go to Hawaii for our honeymoon. My fiance's father has offered many times to help with expenses (his parents are much more well-off than mine). Well, my parents have announced they will pay for the entire wedding, which is wonderfully generous. We decided to ask his parents to help pay for the honeymoon, since traditionally that is the groom's parents' domain and they did offer. When we showed them Hawaii brochures, they said they weren't going to send us there. We were floored; this was basically a sure thing. Now what do we do?

2007-03-09 13:18:40 · 14 answers · asked by Finally his wife! 5 in Weddings

if so did you forgive? did you get back together? what was wrong with your spouse andwhat treatment did your spouse get?

2007-03-09 13:18:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was told that there is a rumour going around about my friend at work that she has an STD. I dont think she has one nor knows the rumour is going around. I am having dinner with her on Saturday night. Should I tell her about it?

2007-03-09 13:17:36 · 11 answers · asked by Kelly K 2 in Friends

2007-03-09 13:17:13 · 20 answers · asked by kfacer.2000 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, im telling ya'll now this might be long. OK, well i have this guy friend and we've been friends for 2 years. and word got out that i loved him and wanted to go out with him. and i did. this happened almost everyday. people would say this to him and me in front of each other. when theyed ask us we'd say at the same time why does it matter to you or no were just friends.dispite the constant nagging from other people he continued to sit, talk and mess with me( not sexually, like friends just playin and hittin each other) and the people continued to talk about it. It is STILL going on and he continues to talk, play, and be with me. hes always sticking up for me, and calls me simetimes and say " hey, kayla? im down here having a snowball fight with myself and its turning out to not be much fun. Do you want to come over?" and ill go. does he seriocely like me and dosesnt care what other people say? or is he just nutsby the way, im not three, im a 8th grader and so is he were both 13

2007-03-09 13:17:10 · 3 answers · asked by redneck girl 1 in Singles & Dating

've been given a lot of bullcrap from my ex so I am not inclined to believe many people and their stories lately. Today I was supposed to hang out with my guy friend, and we were getting really close last weekend and made plans to hang out this weekend. Today we were supposed to hang out and we talked about it earlier this morning, then he texts me an 1 1/2 hours later after we were supposed to meet. He says that he's in a lot of trouble and that the police are there. I asked him what happened but he said that he couldn't talk. I love this guy and he's told me wild stories before but he's usually right about them so I don't see a reason not to believe him. I am just wondering if I should believe him now; like maybe he made up the story to get out of seeing me, which I don't know because he just could have ignored me or stood me up. Help.

2007-03-09 13:16:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 13:15:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have already told my mom and close adults about this, but how do i handle the girls. do i fight back and get some friends

2007-03-09 13:14:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I looked through my husband's wallet( I don't trust him) & found a receipt from Victoria's Secret. It was folded up & inside of it was 4 tags that had been taken off the lingerie. He bought 3 thongs & a bra. The receipt was dated January. I confronted him about this & he said he had bought them for me. I asked him why he never gave them to me & he said he didn't think I would like them so he took them back. I told him that they wouldn't take back lingerie w/ no tags & he said they told him as long as he had the receipt. I said "so why is the receipt still here then?" And there are no markings on the receipt or anything. I also looked at the bra size & it was 36D. I'm a 34B. So my question is( even though I'm pretty sure I already know the answer) would they really take back those items w/ the tags removed & also not keep the receipt or at least mark it? And, isn't there a bit of a difference in a 36D & 34B or is it possible to make that mistake when trying to judge size?

2007-03-09 13:14:27 · 29 answers · asked by love my life 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it a wink.
Just a look.
"Bend and snap."

2007-03-09 13:13:46 · 8 answers · asked by doublewidemama 6 in Singles & Dating

he tells me i cant wear skirts because they're too revealing. but i think that i should wear whatever i feel comfterable in.

2007-03-09 13:12:57 · 18 answers · asked by melody 2 in Singles & Dating

he kept moving his hands up my shirt. Was he trying to take off my shirt? Sorry I sound inexperianced, I am but not really young.

2007-03-09 13:12:41 · 10 answers · asked by annonymus 1 in Singles & Dating

So I've found out that tonight, i'm going to the same party that my ex is going to. She broke up with me nearly 2 weeks ago and we were going out for about 9 months, and I still love and care for her deeply. I'm not sure what to do if she ends up being with another guy at the end of the night...I just don't think I could handle that. Also it's my school grade party with only guys from my school going (private school) plus girls from the surrounding girl's schools, so if she hooks up with someone, i'm going to know about it on monday. I just don't know what to do...Any help would be much appreciated.

2007-03-09 13:12:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its a long long long story. this mean dork is a total fake and most of my frendz dont like her but she follows us around. shes done terrible stuff to me but the story is way to long to type. how do we get rid of her without making ppl think im mean and without making people think im trying to get rid of her.

2007-03-09 13:12:31 · 5 answers · asked by maganda 1 in Friends

i was just wondering,im still a virgin but i heard that you do o.O.

2007-03-09 13:12:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I like this girl, im not sure how much yet but i know its a fair amount cause i get butterflys when i see her, and one day last week she jokingly told me that she liked me i fell for it hardcore and then i found it it was a joke and i looked like an idiot, soo then last night i wrote her a text message saying that i was just pretending to like her when i actually do but that way its not awkward, but then one of her friends today told me that she says she loves me but i dunno what to think anymore? so help

2007-03-09 13:12:01 · 1 answers · asked by Josh R 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 13:11:23 · 1 answers · asked by jorge t 1 in Singles & Dating